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Opinion from Providers.  Isn't it common courtesy to respond to a client concerning an appointment?  Especially when there have already been several emails sent back and forth.  Then all of a sudden - no response.  This just happened to me, even after I went to the trouble of becoming a P411 member and getting verified.  This provider is pretty well known in the biz and in her area.

-- Modified on 5/16/2009 7:52:04 PM

Some of them can take a few days to get back to you.  Usually if you're setting an appointment, they respond fast.  How long have you been waiting?

asSuchisLIFE254 reads

Maybe something happened her, got sick, or someone died in the family. If she wants to see you she will get back in touch with you.

It is possible that she discovered your name on a DNS (do not see) list somewhere. Some providers have there own local networks of providers that they get intel from.

It could be your health. I have heard stories about guys skin disorders that cause there penis to bleed. That type of information gets around fast.

Providers who offer BBBJ services are going to be very through in their back investigation check on you. They will check your character and how your chemistry was with other providers.

Reference check sites have the ability to let providers leave reviews on you and rate you.

If you have ever done a NCNS (no call no show) there is a 99.999999% chance you are own a DNS list.

In the mean time schedule to see someone else.

Already scheduled and saw someone else.  I didn't do an NCNS but I scheduled another provider after I got a yes/no/maybe we can schedule or let's maybe do it on Friday, no Saturday etc... So I scheduled with someone else and she accused me of double booking when it was her fault.  Communication...no, she couldn't make up her mind.  It's usually more of a NCNS on the provider's end with me.  After that I give a shout on the local discussion board for a no show.  Health is high blood & cholesterol and I said Controlled, not it.  She doesn't do BBBJ, not it.  I just think that all she had to do was sorry I won't be able to make it.  Maybe another time.

I'm a member of P411 but have never used it but I am a VIP here on TER and pay special attention to any whitelisting. If you have a few special ladies you see why not ask
Kisses Haley

Have thought of that.  Problem is, because of the economy, I have been seeing providers on CL and Backpage - those ladies don't usually care about whitelisting.  And I thought P411 was more reputable than TER (no slams on TER, since I use frequently)

I noticed that problem with P411 also, many ladies do not use it although they are members. I found date-check way more reliable. Nevertheless you answered your own question, in that you used backpage/CL. Not to slam them, many are instant factory girls, same day appointments.  From your OP, it seems that you expected her to have  appointment book or something. E-mail exchange?  For what? Only 1 or 2 are needed- to make an appointment and confirm.

All of the pre-screening websites seem to be regional preference. So work real well in some regions of the country and not so good in others.

I use date-check most of the time p411 and the others are difficult to find the members and at times yahoo email sends alot of my correspondence to the spam folders lately. So The lady may have had it go to spam. If she has settings that she can't read spam then you may have went to never never land in email world.
Sorry that happened to you. But I am sure the next choice was just as fun.

You said you wrote several emails back and forth and then became a p411 member.  I am curious as to the content of the emails.  Maybe something caused a red flag for her.  Maybe you were too graphic or unwilling to follow her screening requirements.  P411 sometimes only gets employment info and for some ladies, that is not enough.   I don't know.  Just a thought.  Evenso, I agree, she should have dropped you a short email saying she would not be able to see you.

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