I understand that some people consider dark and candles romantic. More often than not, I have to ask the provider to turn the light back on.....so I can get a good look at her. I'm paying a lot of money to see you because I find you attractive. I want to be able to see what and who I'm doing.

Just a pet peeve, what's yours ?

I hate to assume all the juicy details needed to book a playdate, so emails not containing the requested information can be overwhelming.  If I have to send 4 to 6 emails just to get the facts I need it really may never happen.  I prefer gents whom can take the time to read, and respect the fact that I have a website with all the details needed to book a fun time.

Hey-If the gal wants low lighting there is probably a reason-she most likely doesn't want to have too close a look at the client (US  !!)  So go with the flow!  Some gals like to do candles and or low light-that adds to the overall mystique of the session!  So gals, if you want low light or no light, that will work for me !

Amen Brother. I also like to see the action, and the beautiful girl that I am with. Sometimes it's a mood thing. Sometimes my ATF has the curtains open and the lights on, other times its dark and candles. I usually go with the flow.

It's difficult in a location that is not ours.  Candles can light very well if they are that type of candle.  Otherwise, adjusting the shades may be best.
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i liked the lights on, but now that the body is sagging ( mine, not her's ) a bit, turn em low please!!!...lol

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I love to have the guy watch me while I am exploring his naughty sweet spots with my tongue.

As far as pet peeves - the guys who answer escort ads looking for a relationship  -  I am not putting my ads on Match.com or any other dating site, so why are you answering the ad like I am?

A few months ago I had one answer my ad, go thru everything I need to set up the session, asked me if I would get the room at a hotel - I did - believing he was going to reimburse the room cost.

Once we are in the room, we start talking and I ask him for the donation and he says he thought we were on a "date".  WTF?  In my world a real date involves dinner, romance, and the guy paying for everything.  Anyway he said he thought all the ads on that site (not BP) were dating ads.  

My rates are listed in my ad!    How can you think its a dating site when the rates are right there?

I was sooo pissed at this guy!

My other pet peeve are guys asking me what I look like - my pics are on the ad.  If you answered so many that you dont know which one I am, I am not interested in meeting.

Hey Left Fielder,

I have 3 major pet peeves when I am with a provider, not in particular order:

1. Having the music or TV on. I am not paying for music or TV. I want to HEAR you the provider, not the radio or the TV.

2. Poor hygiene - Enough said

3. Being late for the appointment - Giiving me bogus excuses.

Serpius

Porn playing. Keri diamonds was wonderful about all those little details.

it's not going to look like a freaking supermarket! If you don't give a fk, then pay for a pse and let us roll!

a guy expects all the lights/lamps to be on full brightness he is not going to get a great date for damn sure. I am a lot more relaxed without a damn light bulb gleaming in my eyes and they are always right by the bed. I use silk scarves over the lamps and I burn candles.

My pet peeve? Idiots anyway you want to define it. Guys who have no clue about hobbying and make unreasonable demands..i.e. paying after because they assume they are special, getting all pissy when you need pre-booking to see them because OMFGosh some providers don't sit around with their legs spread all day waiting on them, guys who don't READ, then ask stupid questions that are easily found on a damn website, bad hygiene, guys who can't kiss then expect you to be all into it..that's all for now. I am sure as this thread goes on, I will find more stupidity to mock but you get the point lol.

Men are, for the most part, visual creatures.... hence why a lot like the lights on. Women, for the most part, are emotional creatures, & the low lights set the mood. I personally will have one light one... if the gent wants more lights, or less, he is free to turn more on, or off, lol.

Someone else had mentioned having the TV or radio on as a pet peeve. When I host incalls, I usually have the TV on low.. NOT to watch it, but as background noise. Being at a hotel, staff can at times be nosy, & the TV provides background noise, as some clients are, to say the least, a bit loud, lol.

having every maid in the damn hallway hear 2 guys a day grunting as if we are alone on an island and believe me, they don't much try to taper the noise considering WE are there all week. I usually get two room suites so the TV is on or the fan from the stovetop to create noise near the door, then in the bedroom I have music playing from my Itunes.

....and says nothing beforehand or in person. I don't like it pitch black..... barely dim with candles.  If you like it brighter or lights on there's nothing simply saying so and asking can't fix right?

I also like the lights on too, I am a visual person, and I need that visual stimulation to get me going. I need to closely examine that good pussy before I DATY too. Can't do that when there's no light.

I have to agree...  NO TV!!  Huge Turn OFF.  Shut it off!!
Background music is fine, helps to cloak sounds to the outside but I'm not there to listen to the music.  My focus should be on YOU, not the music.   In a hotel, I feel a music source aimed at the door so louder there than on the bed.  

Bedside lamp is great! Just NOT ceiling lights or ceiling fan lights! Overhead lighting kind of gives off being at the gyn vibe... not a turn on at all! lol

Good for you that you speak your mind....


For me it's when I can hear someone chew a gum... I know, sounds bad, but it has happend.

I like the lights on. I like to see the lady.

The problem is she probably doesn't want to see me

damn girl, sounds like you've had some fine dates latelyl??
some of us guys, still have a brain cell or two.
tell em to fuck off if their not treating u well.

Hello,

Since I am hearing impaired, I do depend on lipreading to communicate with the provider.

So, nicely I ask the provider to have some lighting, but not lit up like a stage spotlight. That's an overkill.

If there is only one lamp by the bed, I will sit next to the lamp so that the light shines on the providers face to enable me to read her beautiful lips.

Most lamps by the bed are usually the low wattage variety, so, the brightness shouldn't be an issue.

Serpius

Hey Diwata,

You will?? Cool! I can practice my gynecology!

Serpius

Hello,

Aren't providers supposed to provide a service to the HOBBYIST not to oneself? If you only thought of yourself all the time and not the hobbyist, well, I don't want to know what might or might not happen.

Serpius

I need to get back on my meds bwahahaha!

every whim no matter how it makes them feel. I flat out said if you expect the place to look like a supermarket, you can pay for a PSE..meaning I will gladly accommodate your request of being uncomfortable under camera lights but you will pay for it!