In my area we have high priced providers passing through all the time in the $1000 to $2000 range per hour compared to solid local girls who are priced in the $400 to $ 600 range. I have always passed by the high priced girls without contact due to fear of pissing them off. Has anyone asked a hot $800 per hour girl if she would be ok with $600. What about the ones asking for $ 1000 per hour for less ? Pre covid this was very normal. not so sure now ? What are your thoughts ? For reference you can get a Blonde Ex porn star who will blow your mind for $ 500 per hour in my area if you schedule in advance. Do you guys make an offer or just move on to someone more reasonable  ?    

I have had several people reach out asking the same & why wouldn't we just advertise make me an offer?

If a provider is advertising a certain rate, that means that's what they charge for their time. If they're not getting any bookings and desperately need the money, they'll lower their rates or find another way to pay their bills. What makes you think it's appropriate to negotiate when you could just go find someone else in your price range? This is not a pawn shop.

"For reference you can get a Blonde Ex porn star who will blow your mind for $ 500 per hour in my area if you schedule in advance."

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Interesting....

A truly pathetic motherfucker. I lose my faith in this industry every time I open this forum.

1.  Why start out communications on a sour note.  She is either going to get pissed and either ignore you or tell you to get lost.  If I put myself in her shoes I would simply ghost and block.  
2.  It’s insulting.  Period.  
3. Even in the unlikely event that she does negotiate her rates the odds are against you that it will not be a good to great session.  

Apparently he's bargain shopping in the Carolinas.

You want the 45 day dry aged ribeye but only want to pay the Denny’s flank steak rate.

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I’m aware some clients are in a better position to book high end or extended sessions, meanwhile others have a budget. In either case I’m always flattered a gentleman wants to spend his hard earned money on me. Can you negotiate? Sure (I’m already foreseeing the comments giving you the ok), but should you? NO!! Just bc you can, doesn’t mean you should. Why not save up and reach out later? A provider may even lower their rate, or post a discounted session to fill a tour or last min cancellation. Which IS acceptable vs unwarranted haggling.

I think there’s a big difference between negotiating and trying to get champagne service on a tap water budget.
Do I ever make little exceptions? Sure. For established favorites who are easy, respectful, fun, and drama free, absolutely. That kind of chemistry is worth something to me too.
Have I ever entertained a creative trade or a unique situation? Yes, back in the good old days, when the offer actually made sense and wasn’t just “I want everything you offer, but cheaper.”
But asking a new lady to provide the full experience for less just because you asked nicely? That’s not really negotiation. That’s bargain hunting in the wrong boutique.
I’m never offended by someone choosing what fits their budget. I just think the sweetest answer is usually to book the lady whose rate already feels comfortable, and let the higher priced ladies be adored by the gentlemen they were meant for.

Remember that the person that you are negotiating with is about to give you a service that you want them to be in a good mood for.  If you negotiate with them and get a good price, they may not be that interested in spending time with you.  

There’s a lot of other things I could say but I’m gonna leave it at. It’s just tacky.

I refrained from calling a pornstar I’d see because of her high asking price. One week night, I thought I’d call her to see what her actual rate was as sometimes they may lower their rate on a slow night, if they like your picture, and you’re respectful on the call.  

I feel like haggling is gonna increase the odds that the session ends up being a dud. I'd rather pay the quoted rate (if I can afford it) and have a good time than haggle her down and deal with her giving an uninspired performance.

CLICK!

Presuming you never want to see a legit provider ever again.  

Negotiating a posted rate is bad form. What I have done, with some success, is to make an offer when the posted rate is “x” per hour or “2x” for two hours. And nothing  stated for longer dates. For example, if a provider has an ad that list 1hour at $500, and 2 hours at $1000, I have sent a note saying “I’d love to book 2 hours at $1000, but was wondering if you’d like to schedule a 3 hour date for $1200?”  Note that I only go this if 3 hour rate is not posted AND I make it clear that I will be booking 2 hours if my offer does not work for them. Many times, scheduling permitting, they accept. Each time, if it doesn’t, I make sure to follow thru with my desire to book 2 hours. Don’t use that promise and then back off…bad form. Never once has a companion been offended by this. Just my .02 worth. Anyone else done something like this? Any providers find this acceptable or unacceptable?

For what its worth I have NEVER asked a provider to take less than her advertised price. I was simply asking if anyone else did. I am sure this will set off additional negative comments. But I think its a valid point in this discussion. Happy 4th to everyone.    

I agree, most of us don’t.

your living expenses?
Would you take less for what you do for work?

Good analogy. Imagine if you went into your office and your manager called you in to tell you your coworker was making less than you (maybe less experienced, less educated, less seniority), so he would like you to take a pay cut.  How well would that go over?  Would you feel good about the interaction?  Valued and appreciated?  

Tree trimmer comes to your house /  yard and gives you a bid of $1000 to take down a tree and clean up.
You offer $800 cash and at that point he gets $800 or zero.

He’s a good tree trimmer and reputable. Anyone else of his caliber charges his rates or more. Many hire him. He’s not strapped for work. Others are paying his rates. He knows if he takes $800 he risks this getting out. What’s on the line is not just losing $200. It’s losing thousands because he fears everyone else will want a better deal. They may even feel they too can haggle his price. And besides all this, he knows his rate is fair and what his services are worth. He stands firm. So, either you pay $1000 or find someone less qualified and risk having a shitty job done over $200.

Negotiation is an undetrated part of business it seems.  

In my experience most do negotiate on longer term experiences. I would never try on something short duration.

....and related but a sex worker that is on youtube uploaded a video about how she won't see clients from india because negotiating is a part of that culture and every client who is indian always tries to negotiate her rates that are fixed.

It's only "priceless" if you paid with a MasterCard.  

Please make a visit to the Northern VA Area and bring the flag tie.

The difference here is that you saw the girl at her agency rate first, then after meeting got her personal number. So you've established a relationship, presumably proved that you are trustworthy and generous in a different way, and now have more of a sugar/patron arrangement.  

Tree trimming just ain't the same as getting *TRIM*^^!

This is one of those topics that taboo for some and daily bread for some others. Personally I have never bothered, if I am not happy with the list price I just look elsewhere. But that is also something of the US centric view as we're not really a negotiating culture in most market transactions (cars an exception and that seems to be diminishing). Other places in the world it is more expected.

Though I'm not sure if his "I always negotiate" stance was just to stir shit up.

IMO there’s nothing wrong with what you’ve described here. I’ve done basically the same thing a time or two except I don’t bring it up until after I’ve met her. I think it’s fine to do it your way as long as you introduce yourself in the email and ask respectfully, which it sounds like you do. For me, I think some ladies don’t post rates for longer than a couple hours because that’s a long damn time to spend with someone who gets under your skin, so that’s not available to people they haven’t met yet. I don’t really want to try for over two hours on a first meet myself anyway, but that’s just me.  

I see no issue with asking someone who raised her rate, that I've met with within the last year, if she'll grandfather it for me.

That has that on her ad and she has my attention then I’ll reach out and ask. I guess depending on time and day they’ll usually negotiate with you. I Contacted a young lady recently in Vegas who had that “Text For Rate” on her ad. I reached out to her, was too rich for my blood.  But I guess because of the time I had wanted to meet,she came back with a “How about this, does that work?” And it did. So she kinda negotiated with me..no? Oh… she was fun.
And off subject, meeting and getting with a CG in Vegas is all about negotiating. It’s kinda fun in a way , late night, hanging at the bar yacking away  
I have a review of such an encounter  
But I’ll never negotiate with a young lady if her rate is posted.

I prefer when providers have a set rate on their ad so it makes life easy. I never enjoy having to talk about rates or even services, I wanna know what I'm getting and for how much before even contacting the girl. Saves everyone time.

I would not be surprised about that either but the thread did seem to be missing something from the past.

Dunphy U. when I was new here over my disagreement with this part of his curriculum.  We discussed it heavily here.  Lol

high school! LOL.

of Our Lady of Perpetual Sorrow High School after I looked up Sister Mary Goliath's habit to see if she had a dick because she had a heavier mustache than the principle.

of the Presumptuous Assumption.

I knew a guy who used to worship at The Porcelain Throne. He ended up sitting in his own pew.

I have paid over $1000 before and found the girl was any better than a 300 or 400 dollar girl.  Its your money spend it however you like

@VegasMilfLover

100% let the provider respond to the narrative.  If the prices are posted, and that is what you are looking for, I feel it would be disrespectful to reassess that value.  However, if they mention a better service, or want to bring a friend in, extend time, etc... they have initiated the negotiation and you should hold firm on what you believe the transaction should be. Some providers will hold firm, and in this age of digital currency, you aren't tethered to the cash i your wallet, but it is always safe to fall back on, "I only bought $x, but I am interested." More often than not, it has worked.

if you see a $800 lady that really sparks your interest .   contact and readily agree to 800 . after your first visit, if you had great hygiene, treated with respect, behaved yourself ..  i find that if you offer regular visits then yes a deal can be struck.  

IMO, if you're going to negotiate based on the idea that you will be a regular client, you need to consider what you're offering in regards to assurance. If you simply ask if you can get a better price if you return, with promises you will return more than once, there is little reason for a provider to believe you will continue to repeat and she has reason to think you might be just trying to get another session on the cheap.

No.  

it's just a matter of how you handle it.    --- i have spent evenings with ladies whose 4 hr rate was $5K  for $600 ..  of course how could they resist a middle aged, balding, hairy body, needs to lose 20 lbs guy!  LOL  

Just because you have had success does not make EVRYTHING negotiable. That's just a silly claim.

What about an offer to prepay?

If her hour rate is $800/hr, but it’s $1800 for a 3 hour session, expecting to pay $1800 - even if up front - for 3 separate one hour sessions might be pushing it. Offering deeper discounts on a longer session is not the same as offering that for multiple sessions. For a provider that prefers not to see multiple clients in one day, there’s greater incentive to slide the rate more for a longer session that happens in one day. Personally, if I was to negotiate a prepaid rate for 3 separate sessions where I pay upfront, I would probably only ask for $100 less her normal rate. $2100 upfront is more attractive if you’re going to take up 3 separate days.

Some things you just don’t negotiate instead you save …

well, in that hypothetical scenario, she has no three hour rate - you are making an offer to pre book three appointments at a deep discount from her one hoir tate (800) and prepaying to further incentivize her to accept.

I would hope this type of offer would only be made with a well reviewed provider you have seen a few times. Giving money upfront is risky. You need to feel good about that part. And, if she is a well reviewed trusted provider, business may be good. You're still asking her to commit 3 separate dates where she can make other appointments for her full price.

Definitely not the same.

Lots of haters and boot lickers will tell you otherwise...

Yep. They can say no. Some will say yes. No big deal either way.

You don’t make the rules, we do. If we say that negotiating is unacceptable, that’s what it is. Our “feelings” determine whether or not you even have the ability to see escorts. There’s no doubt in my mind that every last one of your burner phone numbers and emails is blacklisted and most of your reviews are fake because you have nothing else better to do. You’re like a pest that won’t go away.

Lash out if it makes you feel better. Negotiations happen all the time for Bbfs, longer stays, etc. Be In denial all you like. Have a great evening 😊  

And clients get blocked and blacklisted all the time.

Agree cheap Johns may get blacklisted  but overpriced providers with an  attitude  often have a lot of time available.  
If you Blacklisted me I would Devastated!

I never participated in the blacklist because I have seen many people who are on the list. Some providers are jaded. This is the same reason I do not require references. I recently had my first blocked client & blacklist. Doxing providers is not acceptable. Threatening & blackmail is wrong. Pushing boundaries is disrespectful.  

Have the young lady NCNS them??🤔
Or she’ll arrive very late, or you don’t get that “out of body” experience and she acts like she’s just there… get the money and run.
Makes me wonder …🤔.. if it’s all really worth it.

I suppose that’s a risk. If I want to take a lady on a trip. Quite a few don’t have 24 hr rates listed. You inquire and start a negotiation. The feigned outrage is amusing.  

And if the price isn't on the menu, then sure, start the ball rolling, lay out a price and see where it lands.
I was thinking more of the hour or two hour date.
Have you ever negotiated a 1 hour date?

Well-reviewed is a given. As is having a website. I will not see anyone that is not on TER and has no website. That is the initial screening consideration for me. I've had to fight my smaller head on many an occasion to stay true to that code...lol

I can see a scenario where if you have seen her a few times and she likes you, she may go for it with the flexibility caveat. If you’re fine with her canceling because she gets a better paying customer, that changes a lot. Personally, I would not want to offer that part. But my schedule isn’t so flexible.