Deposits are a way to make sure we’re both committed to our time together! They help me keep my schedule free to accommodate people who truly value my services, rather than just saying yes to anyone who might be considering me as a backup plan or a passing fantasy. A lot of friends who never used to ask for deposits now do after dealing with no-shows and LE. And some work from home so probably good to minimize who they’re sending their location to.
If someone feels like a bit of a gamble, I’d say it’s fair to offer a smaller deposit to show sincerity. That way, it’s not too much of a risk if it turns out you’re better off not meeting someone who would do something unethical. I typically ask for a deposit of 15-20%, or 50% for 'Fly Me to You' bookings. Most people find this reasonable, especially given how active I am online and how easy it is to communicate with me. Personally, I don’t usually do phone or video calls unless it’s something like an overnight or multi-day booking. I’m much more comfortable with written communication — even with my mom, haha! 😄 Oral is more fun in person, though 😉 While platforms like Tryst and OnlyFans do verify our IDs, it doesn’t always guarantee legitimacy since some girls hire out their communication. For me, it’s all about building a real connection. Logical arguments don’t speak to the emotions behind why people choose to book — it’s about being authentic. When both of us are on the same page, it’s the perfect match!I've been in communication with some beauties on X that seem too good to be true, but I'm just not sure. They post frequently on X, often with unblurred photos, but haven't been on the site for that many months. They tend to want deposits as much as 40-50% and one even wants to charge $150 for Face Time verification. No reviews, either. My inclination is not to trust them but I wonder if anyone else has had good experiences in such a situation?
"My inclination is not to trust them." - I think you should trust your inclination not to trust them.
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Old universal adage: If it seems too good to be true it probably is.
Good advice. I'm still curious though if anyone else has pulled that particular trigger and had a good result. And how common is it for a 50% deposit?
I'd never see someone based on their presence on X alone. Never. Especially with the big red flag of a 50% deposit. NO WAY.
"Start with TER Reviews to guide your preliminary search (appearance / performance / hair color / etc. ...) and THEN check their ads for photos, personal self-descriptions, and other details."
Sage advice. Do yourself a favor, and take it.
You are not in communication with some "beauties", you have been in communication with a highly educated Indian who is running 20 other "sex worker" AI accounts and a making bank from stupid Amercian men who actually think they are real. Please in the future when you come across them submit a spam report. For the love of everything do NOT send them money!!!
Thanks for bringing this up!
A few years ago, I was crushing on a prominent X woman, model and influence-er. While science has only scratched the surface in its understanding the complexities of male attraction, she had a hard, round and pronounced posterior which, I felt, was worthy of pursuit.
I DM-ed her and, to my surprise, received a prompt response. "Wow" thought I, but soon learned all that glitters is not gold!
She:
-Had no reviews
-Wanted up-front payment $$$$ for a proposed FMTY arrangement.
-Declined a video conference, based on privacy concerns.
What could go wrong?
I surmised she wasn't responding to my DMs at all, but that her handlers were and walked
I hope this little tale-of-woe is helpful to someone!
We are on X with a link to our website which has a link to our TER reviews.
A presence on X alone is such a grey area. Trust your gut and run away.
There have been numerous threads started on this board by guys who were scammed when responding to social media ads allegedly from providers. Contrast this with the total absence of ANY threads where customers are bragging that they answered a provider ad promoting a discount and it was the deal of a lifetime. Discounts are worthless on anything where you don't know the true value before the alleged discount was applied. Hard to put a price on pussy, but it's easy to put a price on a face and a body type. Beware fake photos.
many reviews or some kind of long online history with the same name going back years. I would not trust this.
There are many ladies who are on X that do require deposits for even a 1hr appt and are reputable. But that is easy to verify with a google search.
If you are not certain it is best to just avoid. No one wants to be ripped off.
but when I find one I'm interested in, my second stop is on TER to see if she has a profile and reviews. I'm sure you're right that there are exceptions and legitimate providers can be found who are not on TER, but the extra layer of credibility that a TER profile/reviews provides means I don't have to search for corroborating info in the far reaches of the internet.
Giving a 50% deposit to someone with no accessible reviews is asking for trouble.
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