I see the landscape now , and have heard similar commentary from many mongers on the board.
I suppose I'm glad to have participated in the hobby during it's golden age. "CBJ" = she's dead to me! No DFK? Seriously? Since I'm no longer seeing provider's (what a ridiculous euphemism for "whores") , I ain't got no dog in the fight. I'll grab a bag of popcorn from the sidelines and watch. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6JZW7zMDfY Ain't that a Shame. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DlNrkR-YBQ "Don't Mess with Mister T" Gonna chill later with a cocktail this afternoon. Some cool jazz. Maybe see a friend. Ob La Di, Ob La Da.....So I used to see provider's almost every week when i was younger , there was an excitement and thrill to seeing someone new, and the whole game was new. Posting a new review was exciting, and sharing intel with other mongers was interesting.
I stopped seeing provider's in 2015, as I've posted, and recently just stopped back here to see if anything has changed in the world of TER, and the hobbyist world. I suppose the players have changed, I've gotten older, everyone is younger. Kind of miss the excitement when it was new. Paying for the service is just like shooting fish in a barrel ....
I guess sex is like air, it's no big deal unless you're not getting any. The thrill is gone, sigh...
you were posting when you were younger?
I had my old handle and all my reviews deleted. I believe there were approximately 85. Just left with my memories now.
I'm not sharing my old handle, I prefer to stay anonymous.
I just stopped back in to see what was doing here. I recognize some of the old timers.
since you are articulate, I thought it might be good reading and would give me an idea if we like the same types of providers. I'm always looking for newer fellow mongers who have similar experiences as mine with the same girls. I can give their reviews more cred for girls that I have not yet seen, but am considering.
Okay, I'll dredge my memory for a few Provider's I've seen over the years that I think were excellent, in no particular order.
1) Kendall/Candy/ Polyamorous - 1st time for anal for me, Lincoln Center incall, great night; Retired?
2) Sara of Albany - Multiple times over the years in NYC , Westchester, and even once in Albany. Top notch. still active
3) Rachel Madison aka Daniella at her old agency, a real hottie, and a knockout; Retired and married
4) *Special mention to the Hungarian girls in Westchester, and a few there that were wild. Long gone.
5) Mandy - Amanda from California; ex-real estate broker that got into the game during the financial crisis at the Grand Hyatt in NYC
6) Nadine Exotic , very early in my career, in Miami at her apartment, and a few times thereafter.
7) Petra; also in Miami, same trip, and retired. At my shared house.
8) In Chicago, a super hot girl, maybe I'll remember her name? My hotel room.
9) San Francisco; Blanking on her name....also at my hotel room.
I guess maybe I should've saved some reviews! Too many to remember, it's all a blur.
She is still one of the top providers.
ClassyIV/ Ivy League ; retired, Masters in quantitative finance; In Stamfod and Greenwich
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/classyiv---ivy-league-2032954910-182582
Shannon Close / Becky / Kaylee ; Early in my career; Her apartment off 2nd Avenue and 50th? Still active apparently
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/shannon-close---becky---kaylee-3103072431-294260
My apologies for not including links with the other active provider's on my prior post.
Lola, uptown near Columbia. She was a true nymphomaniac. Damn shame she retired in 2009. Offered Greek.
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/lola-6463648941-94775?page=1#Review
Paris Bouvier; saw her in Orlando in 2011? She was already a legend by then, getting old....but still great. Another greek queen.
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/paris-bouvier-107337?page=7#Review
The Unrepentant Redhead, Nikki? Can't recall....toured quite a bit, D.C. & NYC
Cleo; French, also can't recall more details.
Lots and lots of meaningless sex. But fun.
I tried a few times to see Ivy. I was enthralled by her ass as highlighted in the pictures on her website.
Couldn't make it happen.
The last time was at the start of Covid sometime in 2020. She responded and said that she was waiting it out to see how everything played out and she wouldn't be seeing clients until she felt safe. I guess she ended up retiring along the way.
Yes, Ivy had a truly amazing ass. Probably saw her 3-4 times.
Fosta/Sesta, the decline of TER and the rise of Twitter have destroyed the business as it used to be.
Plus the providers today are 95% no way as good as they were in the mid 00's and society, cultural propaganda and media today has given females carte blanche on faking or ignoring all they want on not working staying in shape, in their 20's and 30's and depending on body jobs or evolved photoshop fakery. All that onlyfans and twitter nonsense has led to far less GFE- services at crazy prices today for escorts charging 700 to 1k+ that don't even bother working on staying in shape anymore, in my opinion, where I feel it's mostly not worth it anymore. Whoever said, that most guys like those ungainly bubble butts, that propaganda has pushed on society for a decade now. And those of us from mid 40's to 60, etc. gen-x, of course we remember when tats wasn't a thing in general culture and only seen among lowlife and punks. It's maddening today seeing what it's become, where only eastern europe cultures (or asia) have some semblance of 20th century sanity left in how people should healthily look.
I answered a similar post below.....
Just chillin' about all this BS. They can have it.
and I think that it is mostly that I have gotten (much) older.
These days, the whole thing looks contrived and - as I am driving to the appointment - a little voice is asking “wtf are you doing this?”. Just saw a very nice lady (review submitted) but that was the first in 6 months.
Curling up with a book or overdosing on Netflix is looking better & better… 😁
Of course some needs to be laid at the feet of r the COVID crisis as well, something we really couldn’t control. That was when Only Fans really took off. PTB also needs to realize that prohibition of this activity hasn’t really worked anymore than it did with liquor a century ago.
I started seeing hookers at the ripe old age of 21 while living in South Central PA. The year was 2002. I might have seen 3/4 that yr as I was still a broke student. After getting my first job and moving to DC area I started seeing hookers every single pay period although I was making a paltry $35K/yr . I would do some side hustles to come up with extra $200-300 to get some pussy. Since my dad was a businessman, getting side hustles to do wasn't that hard at all.
Fast forward to 2022, I made several times what I made in 2002. What I don't have anymore is desire to see someone on a regular basis.. Last time I saw a hooker was in Dec 2002. Probably will see someone around my birthday in a few months, or won't.. Definitely will see my regular when I go to Miami in August.
I enjoy reading, traveling, watching TV, going to shows and concerts, cooking, or just spending time with friends / family more than sex.. And of course baseball..
Like you said,, The thrill is gone..
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the rest of us here should call you "the kid." Lol Most everyone else on this thread is at least 60. I can't tell you how much it sucks to be the same age as old people. Lol
I'm about a decade younger than Tom Cruise, but not young anymore either. Been at this hobby on and off about fifteen years. I got much better in shape like mad since Covid started. But now it all aches daily with the regular exercise and gym and I have to decide if I want to keep pushing it like Cruise did , my "inspiration". The 'inflated' providers and the sorry state of the hobby and ter today aren't appreciating it anyways for the most part.
Did you just find out that I am 41 ? Almost everyone here who knows me, knows my age.. I have been quite open about it..
I enjoyed my way thru college, both undergrad and grad school, and also professional life as being with the same age as rest of the folks, or being the "kid".. Now that I am in 40s, and sometimes end up working with Gen Z kids, I hate every minute of it.. I can't stand these motherfuckers and their silly words like "Sus" and "Gucci" and "Dope", and God knows what else..
Either I was really mature or smart when I was in my 20s, or folks who were same age as I am right now were Saints.. I think more of the latter than the former. LOL.
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In the past year or so I’m not as rambunctious as I use to be, kinda have this blah,blah attitude. Sometimes it’s feel forced. Being late 60’s ..maybe that’s the root of it. It use to be once a week in my home town then a 2 day free for all in Vegas every month. But now, it’s like whatever
Once you have seen about 200 providers, there is not a lot that is new and exciting, just different looks, and oftentimes varying degrees of worse when it comes to the sex. Lol But it's hard to stop completely when the alternative for sex is relationships with women closer to my age who are even worse in bed than the bad providers.
I hear ya. I've been completely spoiled by the SB's I've met since I started hobbying, which led me to stop seeing ho's. There's just no comparison. I've always gotten along very well with young girls, since I've stayed in shape, and can relate well, have a good time outside the bedroom. I like to spoil and be generous as well. I think that Sugar sites have become jaded with gold diggers, unfortunately. Hard to find a gem anymore. Many of the ho's on here are also fishing in those waters....
Freudian slip?
I still go through the offerings on SB sites and pro sites and want to do just about every other girl. But when it comes to parting with $300-$400, that's usually the deal breaker. 
If my grandmother had wheels, she'd be a trolley car....
Nope, there's no free lunch. The good news however, is that this is an entirely discretionary service. It's up to you if you want to indulge. Keep your wallet on your hip, until you see something you can't pass up.
You don't have to swing at every pitch.
And still remember the mind blowingly gorgeous model level Russian girls near Fairfax / la brea - my fav was Jennifer who I saw almost every other week for nearly 1.5y until she got into a green card marriage. At like 300-350 each time, she was way better than the 1k-1.5k girls I see advertise now. Yeah, there is inflation I get it but the quality of service and beauty/ fitness is lower so it ain’t as much fun anymore
I wonder if anyone remembers the movie "Network" , the Howard Beale speech. Nothing like speaking the truth.
https://www.americanrhetoric.com/MovieSpeeches/moviespeechnetwork2.html
Unless you see the same people over and over doing the same routine things. Mix things up,get creative, surprise yourself. If you think cost is getting to high and service is not matching up , then see people who are a guaranteed good time, offering the services you're interested. It's a case of demand and supply pretty much, and many of us are to be blamed.Never date someone paying them hundred of dollars without knowing exactly what you're getting.
After sosta this hobby toke a nose drive! A lot great agency from Miami got busted and closed shop . The girls from Columbia, Venezuela, Brazil disappeared.The talent and service was incredible . Only Fans and Twitter killed this hobby. $700 girls only give cbj and No CIM and no DFK . And talk about inflation some want $1,000 or more for 1 Hour plus a deposit!! After seeing 300 Ladies. One Lady was my best Eva St Laurent . She’s the gold standard!
I see the landscape now , and have heard similar commentary from many mongers on the board.
I suppose I'm glad to have participated in the hobby during it's golden age. "CBJ" = she's dead to me! No DFK? Seriously?
Since I'm no longer seeing provider's (what a ridiculous euphemism for "whores") , I ain't got no dog in the fight. I'll grab a bag of popcorn from the sidelines and watch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6JZW7zMDfY Ain't that a Shame.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DlNrkR-YBQ "Don't Mess with Mister T" Gonna chill later with a cocktail this afternoon. Some cool jazz. Maybe see a friend. Ob La Di, Ob La Da.....
Interesting thread. For me the thrill is never gone. I get excited preparing for a date. I plan out according to the desires of my new friend. I love to have lingerie picked out that is the persons favorite color. I enjoy having snacks & libations to indulge in as we chat for the first time. Adult toys maybe an option. I’m, like the epic party planner & playtime entertainment. In everyday life I don’t wear make up, so I get to paint my face for the fun time & dress up in whatever my friend suggested that tickles his fancy it’s a blast. I haven’t even started on the good stuff that comes after…
Smile for me! Life is phenomenal. I am truly thankful for me that the thrill is not gone. Chemistry & connection is a real blessing. Thanks fellas!
This world used to be awesome, absolutely sucks now. Not sure where are all the good guys disappeared to but wow. Only see one great guy now with no hopes of anyone new popping up. Can't stay great forever I guess.
So I used to see provider's almost every week when i was younger , there was an excitement and thrill to seeing someone new, and the whole game was new. Posting a new review was exciting, and sharing intel with other mongers was interesting.
I stopped seeing provider's in 2015, as I've posted, and recently just stopped back here to see if anything has changed in the world of TER, and the hobbyist world. I suppose the players have changed, I've gotten older, everyone is younger. Kind of miss the excitement when it was new. Paying for the service is just like shooting fish in a barrel ....
I guess sex is like air, it's no big deal unless you're not getting any. The thrill is gone, sigh...
This world used to be awesome, absolutely sucks now. Not sure where are all the good guys disappeared to but wow. Only see one great guy now with no hopes of anyone new popping up. Can't stay great forever I guess.
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And I'm literally nobody, you can just call me the invisible woman 
How much do you weigh?
Farts are invisible, how much does a fart weigh. Perhaps that is a good reference point.
2023 = 28
They may SEEM invisible when you are fully dressed, but later you can discover that the tangible parts became trapped in your underwear. Just ask any old person over 70. Lol
Or you can ignite them with a lighter and get a pretty amazing flame.
Farts are visible when they catch on fire.
http://youtu.be/9bVSAnXzl-k
They may SEEM invisible when you are fully dressed, but later you can discover that the tangible parts became trapped in your underwear. Just ask any old person over 70. Lol
So... you shit you pants on a regular basis.
not surprised.
I'm NOT over 70. How about you? When I posted this, I knew I was baiting the dumbest guy on the board to say exactly what you said, but I'm really surprised it was you.
Gas???? Lovely. You guys are certainly charmers let me tell ya. For what it's worth I'm about 115 lbs so I guess that weighs more than a fart🤪
I'm too scared to ask what 2023 = 28 means
The links (below) from the Philly and New York ad boards show you are in Philly and New York at the same time.
Also the link on your ad posts goes to P411 not your P411 profile page, because you have no P411 profile.
This post on the New York ad page says… “please email me directly”.
But you give no email address in any of your posts or links.
All the evidence leads to you being a fraud.
I’m not sure so I’m not definitely saying but I am wondering if you are a guy, with too much time on his hands, posing as a hooker and jacking his joint every time someone replies to your posts thinking we are replying to a hooker ……….just a guess.
You’re Welcome
2023 = 28
When I first came on board, I had to ask, too.
New York Yankees
40 World Series Appearances
27 World Series Championships
Will "2023 = 28" ?
Gas???? Lovely. You guys are certainly charmers let me tell ya. For what it's worth I'm about 115 lbs so I guess that weighs more than a fart🤪
I'm too scared to ask what 2023 = 28 means
Now that I'm 70, I still find the sight and feel of a beautiful young naked woman thrilling. I'm more selective about who I see these days, but I look forward to these encounters. I enjoy every minute that I'm with them. And I feel good about it after I leave. I hope I never lose that feeling. I appreciate what they do, even with an old guy like me and I certainly don't think of them as hookers or whores.