Same here, single for years. Busy enough with other things in my life and still not finding a good enough gf to team up with.
And no, wouldn't hobby if had the right gf. As it is, I don't need sex (includes self stimulation, which then negates the need to visit in the hobby unless it's to visit a missed ATF more for the affection or longing to see again) more than once a week. Sometimes can go without for 2 or 3, before waking up with a stiffy all the time becomes downright annoying.
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still hobby?
Brandy M
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Know and I'll be more accurate in my response , thanks !
Brandy M
would be quite enough thank you...
No, that would meet my needs & I'd not feel a need to hobby... especially in the context of a loving relationship.
I maybe in the minority in this group of mongers who are rewarded by the most number of reviews they can accumulate on new gals. Just pointing out the group bias.
Oh, but most of my "intimacies" are through the hobby, so I guess the answer is yes, kind of. lol
If you are asking if I could get laid four times a week by civvie chicks, then the answer would be "probably" I would still want indulge in P4P as I like to get laid most everyday , but if you are asking if I were in a committed relationship having sex four times a week with my "beloved" then the answer would be a resounding NO. I am not a "Cheater" when I make a commitment, but I rarely make those types of commitments.
SO, then No. But if it was with my GF, then No. So I guess No.
realize how bad it is in American families ...
OMG .. I tell you that men getting less then 4 times sex in families ? really? we will kill each other if we would not have sex every day ..
you know how it goes with mana and woman - sex done - they are reconciled of differences and love each other for a bit .. hours goes by days goes by sexual tension build ups - if he or she would not do it again - they become almost enemies .. arguments .. misunderstanding .. blaming each other - horrible !!
F **ed again - and LOVE again for a bit ..
what makes your families function ?? obviously you are here .. why you stay with those women who not gave you sex ??? no one european man would do !! here men comes to me who are not married bit having JUST GF !! GF not let hims as he wants it .. why he has her ?? money ?? what kind of love if no sex?? at list regular .. no hand job ..
.. with European men hand jobs would not fly by .. just pussy ... and ass ..
hand job.. ?? from wife ??
common.. is that really true?? you know I was not married in states .. My ex was German and we fucked as in porno movies .. and then bunch of russian lovers .. and in states i stared do escorts by some reasons.. and not because just money .. just love to help to abandoned by wives american men seriously .. i know it is on the edge of the joke but .. as you can see here all men said - NO so it is just shame on wives ..
but ma be not ?? let me share what i did discover in states about you- males of this country -
to put brief- if you would not expect form your women - GF wives etc performace as from porno stars with all squarting and many OO s.. you will get OOOO boy way more often ..
you know american man when he approaches woman he wants make her come ..- as - I am a male and I make you come many times .. you wll have many OOOO with me NOW I want you to squrt as well I ant you be a slut ..
it is pressure on her - she - wife come from work kids need cook etc .. she can give you quickie on kitchen in bedroom fuck her pussy or ass like 5 min - then she be back to her chores .. with no O no squirting .. no kink .. just raw sex .. and you know - she will give you more often everywhere more then 4 a week .. if you be not exercising on her your male ambitions ....
who think that it can be a reason that men in states get more often NO from wives then in any other country just because they want to please woman ? and sorry woman regular workign woman not alwasy in the mood to be pleased ?? but she is totally fine raise skirt .. for few min .. may be Iam wrong ? gentlemen? so it is NOT at all fault of women - wives that you do not have sex .. you just do not press them perform as we do - escorts .. and yes .. we are the best women here not just because we do F* K as goddesses .. we just also can explain you - you do not have to be porno star for us to love you
hope I did not hurt anybody > Iam American as well
as to myself . I just divorced because not enough sex ..- no sex - there be arguments - as we dome sex we do love each other for few days - no sex then again tension .. you have to F *K in order her love you .. or just bring in other man if can t do yourself always .. I will be happy bring and other girl too .. we are here truly blessed to be so open minded
kisses to all have fan
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that leaves 3 open days a week. So YES
The way I see it is at, lets call it an hour per "intimacy" that leaves open 164 hours a week, so while I disagree with your "math" I do agree with your conclusion. YES!!! lol
Your OP says four, as does SYW's post, I was simply making a funny. Even if you had said " ten times a week" I would have pointed out that would still leave 158 hours open for other women. lol
I do remember dating a provider several months ago, we did not have a commitment at that time, but we did have sex at least once a day and even though I hadn't made any promises and she was an "active provider" I never felt the need to see anyone else during that time. but our number was more like 10 times a week.
Truth be told, even if the number was as low as two times a week, if/when I am in a committed relationship, I don't stray, It's just really, really hard to get me to commit.
and he stated if he received more play time at home then he wouldn't hobby, I guess he's in the minority and the 4 times a week was his number.
But if it's with the same person, I might still hobby for variety.
You mean 4x per day right?! lol
I started hobbying because I was getting none.
I find myself now finally getting something at home (once a week or so), so that helps. But the big thing was finding a FWB. A great lady that like me is unsatisfied at home, but unwilling to change it due to kids and other obligations. We get together for 3-4 hours every week. We both leave wrung out with huge smiles. I would prefer more often (at 48 I can still manage everyday), but the 3+ hour marathon sessions are almost enough to make up for it.
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If I had a partner, and I was attracted to her, and we had sex a few times a week, I wouldn't hobby.
As it is though, I'm single.
Same here, single for years. Busy enough with other things in my life and still not finding a good enough gf to team up with.
And no, wouldn't hobby if had the right gf. As it is, I don't need sex (includes self stimulation, which then negates the need to visit in the hobby unless it's to visit a missed ATF more for the affection or longing to see again) more than once a week. Sometimes can go without for 2 or 3, before waking up with a stiffy all the time becomes downright annoying.
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I 'd be happy with 1x a week! Lately the wife has been ok 1x a month. I love her to death and it's not her fault, for many reasons, but something has to give. Porn has gotten just too weird, and I like to see women enjoying themselves.