I just posted this on my blog and thought I post here as well hoping to make it easier for all.


Ladies and gentleman as others can tell you I am always willing to provide reference for both provider and client. I do however have some safety minded guide lines that must be followed in order to fulfill your request.
For the men.
If I have had the pleasure of meeting you in the last 3 month please e-mail me with your request for a reference.  You don't have to tell me who she is. Just that someone will be contacting me on your behalf.If it has been more then three months and you have not seen another provider that's fine however be sure I am your most resent I will check.
For the Ladies:
When contacting me please introduce your self and include the following.
your web site address(link)
Sites you are reviewed on.
The information you are sneaking.

Has always stay safe have fun Livie.

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very good point Livie.
I prefer to get the heads up from the Gentlemen they are requesting a reference. Too often I hear from the ladies first. Would make it easier to remember all if I have spoken with you in advace.

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i agree with everything you both wrote......we all need to stay safe ...and STAY SEXY !!
xoxoxxo amanda

for permission to use her as a reference.  That is how it is done in the business world.

afraid to hurt our feelings

afraid to bother us

afraid we'll ask them why they are seeing someone else.

afraid we'll freak and threaten them

believe it or not, lots of providers are only nice when you are paying them, some are mentally ill.. it only takes a few to ruin it for everyone.

ive heard some pretty traumatic stories from guys

so i advise guys to use the excuse that they have changed job locations and the provider is no longer a convenient option for them so now that they HAVE to go shopping she might be receiving a reference request.

Your right about the psychos that's why I posted on my blog as well so that both the client and provider will know it's all good as far as I'm concerned It's big pond we live in and there are plenty of fish to go around. lol
I take this end very seriously. Thank you for your support

Many don't think about it, knowing I've said I would give them a reference in the past just don't realize I could use the heads up. Not so much to decide to give them a ref, I always do, but so I know to expect an email and can get back to her in a timely manner as to not mess up their appt with the lady. If I am not working for a few days and busy I may not read all my emails as often.
And if I have seen them and am willing to give them a reference...they Truely Are Gentlermen, so no they all don't think ahead.

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