Ladies I really would like your help. Please PM me or post but I really need a woman’s touch on this one.

I have an ATF that I’ve seen every week sometimes twice per week over the last 2 ½ months. As with most stories go all was great and our 1-hour sessions would turn into 2 or our 2 hours would turn into 4. Each time it was her that wanted me to stay, as I would get ready to leave on time and out of respect for her get ready to leave. She would insist I stay and we would play until I would have to leave. She is smart, beautiful, and funny and all the other great things we guys love.

During the holidays I gave her large tips and gift cards to kind of pay her back for her generous extra free hours she has given me. So as of right now I think our give/take is about the same or close to even.

Now the problem, I really want to start cutting back how often I see her. I still would like to see her a couple of times a month but not every week. I also don’t want to hurt her feelings, as she has been so good to me.

Being a guy, I’ve tried to think of different ways to go about it but I’m sure I would do the wrong thing. If telling her the truth is the best way and you ladies tell me to do it, then that is what I will do. I am afraid by just telling her the truth she will not take it well and thus make any future meetings very uncomfortable.

So this is where I throw it out to you ladies for your advice and insight.