TER General Board
Re: Need help deciding
Were I faced with this happy dilemma, my first thought would be a process of elimination -- which, of those scenarios, have you already experienced? Eliminate the one[s] already in your history, and chose between the remainders.
If you have done none of those three, my next question would be : which of those 3 sounds most exciting to you? Go with that one.
Cheers. I wish i had this problem myself.
Good luck.
Later this month I am planning on going a little above and beyond what I normally spend since I have the extra cash and some good free time and don't know what I should do. I am debating between picking out an elite out-of-town lady and having her travel to see me for a shorter date, picking a good local girl and spending a long evening with her, or finding 2 hotties and doing my first ever double. I figure all are about the same or similar in price (depending on who and where obviously) from what I have seen. From the mass amounts of experience, I am wondering what of these 3 scenarios has worked out the best for other hobbyists and what you guys think I should do. Thanks! I look forward to reading the results.
Were I faced with this happy dilemma, my first thought would be a process of elimination -- which, of those scenarios, have you already experienced? Eliminate the one[s] already in your history, and chose between the remainders.
If you have done none of those three, my next question would be : which of those 3 sounds most exciting to you? Go with that one.
Cheers. I wish i had this problem myself.
Good luck.
Years ago, I did a double date with two providers who were good friends, one from Philadelphia and the other from Washington, DC.
They had not seen each other for a while, so the whole evening was kind of crazy. In fact, we stopped once "right in the middle of the action", so to speak, to discuss the need for IRAs and 401K plans.
My point is that seeing two providers at once can lead to the kind of manic craziness that makes for a very memorable date. It isn't something you would want to do very often, but with the right ladies, it will be a lot of fun.
Do your research, get two ladies who enjoy each other and go at it.
I would like to do the double. It is my first choice, but I am having trouble finding a local duo. There are two real hot girls I could meet locally, but I would prefer them to be into each other some as well...you know. But, as far as I know they don't do any of that. So I would rather have the intimacy of 2 separate meetings, 1 with each. I guess I could do that too. Great, another option...a wild weekend of multiple meetings.
would be to identify one lady you like a lot and ask her to recommend another lady. I think in that case I would want to know one of them pretty well or have a good recommendation.
My choice would be the double but I think you need to think through how much you want them to be into each other versus both be into you. I have had both experiences (one professional duo and one civvie duo) they are both really neat but I think I enjoyed myself more when I was the focus. The other time was a chance for my girlfriend to get a chance to experience another lady and I was the catalyst. I am trying to remember why/how I let her slip away. Oh well.
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and now I would always opt for more time with a favorite. Here's why:
The higher priced gals are good, but I don't think the much higher fee is justified by what you get. There may be exceptions to that rule, but I haven't found it yet.
Duos are fun, but it's important to get the right two women because chemstry is very important here. Bad chemestry can lead to a bad session, plus it takes a while to get the tempo going with two women. It's not worth the risk unless you have the time and pocketbook to develop something here.
More time with a favorite is, however, always a great experience for me, especially if you can do an overnight. There's nothing that can compare to "breakfast in bed" if you know what I mean.
Just be sure that the gal you pick is someone that you've seen several times and are very simpatico with.
For me, nothing compares to a long leisurely meeting with a favorite but I really enjoy the intellectual and emotional aspects of a relationship as much as the physical.
Well, I agree as well and have narrowed it down to a long, quality date or a three-way tango. I think it will most likely depend on what options I find that I can meet with. Thanks for everyone's advice, and if anyone has anything else to add, please do. The only way I will spend for a higher dollar girl is if a great pornstar gets lost and ends up in my city by accident!
If your ATF is bi, I would suggest spending the weekend with her and have a "suprise" lady join the two of you for an hour or so. This method assures you of no suprises and a little spice to your friendship with your ATF.
Whichever way you go, I suggest you choose one of the ladies and let her choose the other--somebody with whom she feels compatible. Things will go much smoother that way.
can't get much better than when you spend extended time with the right lady...damn I miss having a cup of coffee, a good cigar & the right lady doing the RIGHT thing in the morning. lol
I would go after an evening with a really well-reviewed, elite provider that I could find. If you live in a place not populated by lots of choices, I would consider doing a weekend or evening in a close by large town. That way you would have plenty of time to do your due diligence and line up someone special and reputable. Utilize and all resources especially local ones.
Duos are great but costly. Doing an all-nighter with an ATF is kind of ho-hum. Go for a girl you wouldn't be able to consider in a million years. Did a $2K session like that a couple of years back and still have really great memories. She was the best combo of unbelievable looks and a great GFE/PSE session I've ever experienced.
...maybe you'd like to try your first duo out during our first duo together?
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