go camping with a provider of your choice... or take a luxury cruise with a provider of your choice?

Have a single session with the provider of your dreams... for several days... OR have many sessions with that same provider over many months (perhaps years)???

Have a provider who offers Greek - but no kissing... or a provider who offers kissing but no Greek"

Have a provider who is into you, but does not do many of the things you prefer, OR a provider who will literally do anything, but the personal chemistry is just not there?

Meet a provider - not knowing she is a provider - and having a civie hook up - only to discover that she is a provider OR  meet a provider as a provider - asking her for some civie attention - and then she consents....????

just some things that make me wonder about my bros! and what we like...

I'd love to take a lady on a cruise.

Much rather see a lady many times over a period of months or years. (One special lady)

Kissing over greek...hands down.

Give me the chemistry anytime. The rest will follow suit.

Since a civie connection is not what I'm looking for...not applicable

Have several providers camp on my luxury-compound, where I'll trade them a "loaf of bread for an hour of fucking"...

I've lived a life of single sessions with multiple providers over several days, months and years... I've never had much desire to re-tread the same ole' tire...


I don't much care for kissing... especially after greek followed by a BBBJ....

I prefer to be "into" the provider 3 minutes after walking in the door... preferably 7 or 8 inches "into" her! (I've never given a damn about personality, as long as she could lock her ankles behind her ears...)

I prefer to "meat" providers at their incall, within 30min of my calling them... But if I "meet" them at the mall out in public, I expect them to remain professional and pretend they don't know me!


But to be fair, I don't see many providers these days, as I rarely get to a large enough city to have hired sex-workers... It was my goal to retire and drop out of society by the time I turned 40, and I did just that! Peace/out... (I did manage to fuck well over 1000 girls before I left though, hehehe!)




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go camping or on a cruise with a provider of my choice - I would want the lady to decide.... I like both.

have many sessions with the same provider over many months (perhaps years)than the lengthy one time shot

have a provider who offers kissing but no Greek

Have a provider who is into me, but does not do many of the things I prefer, as long as good old fashioned sex is still involved... and hopefully DATY

I met a provider as a provider - who then told me she wanted a relationship with me beyond providing, which has led to sharing accommodations. My current SO.


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where, do care with whom.

Not interested at all in a civie relationship with anyone, provider or not.

Good questions

- Definitely go camping! Hike in the mountains, find a nice swimming hole, strip down to au naturale and after a brisk swim, climb out, spread the blanket in the warm sun, and make passionate love. Get dressed, finish hiking. Back at camp, change, make a hearty dinner, get a campfire started, and once the sun goes down, make love by the campfire. Whip out the musical instrument, sing some soft songs, and fall asleep in each others arms. Wake up and repeat in different locals along the trail for the week.

- Single session for several days. I like the 'connection' factor and you learn more about another over multiple contiguous days that you wouldn't through short sessions over months unless you really worked at it.

- Kissing but no Greek. 'Little Prof' isn't always ready for action, but 'Big Prof' is always ready for some passionate kissing in all its forms.

- Next one is too tough. Too many variables. Does not compute. Danger Will Robinson!

- Meet Provider as provider and have some 'civie' time. 'Civie' time to me means going to a musuem and hearing her thoughts on what we are observing, or sharing a meal at a restaurant I've always wanted to go to, but haven't since I don't like to dine alone. Almost any activity is more fun with an interesting person.

and on Sunday... I rest 8-)

most of the time someone winds up feeling hurt. Especially if they make the mistake of making me the object of their infatuation. I'm not into exclusivity - but at least I'm up front about it. I take the hard cold rational view that a person's feelings are their own responsibility. And I did not sign up to rescue damsels in distress.

I enjoy relationships very much, but not if they drift into that territory where expectations and controlling behavior start to emerge.....

In the case of my current relationship, so far, so good. I knock on wood daily....

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Cruise
Many sessions over a long period of time
Kissing
A provider who I have a connection with
The latter

I've been very lucky.  I have all of this with a couple of great ladies.  I am spoiled!

Luxury cruise with a provider of my choice

Many sessions with that same provider over many months which lead to years

A provider who offers kissing but no Greek"

Have a provider who is into you, but does not do many of the things you prefer

Meet a provider - not knowing she is a provider - and having a civie hook up - only to discover that she is a provider