Might've been stupid of me idk but I made a reply on a post that indicated that the poster RAN A CHATROOM for people in this space. My response was just a genuine interest in being a member of such community as anyone of us would like to be. I got no response and I felt hurt. Maybe we're restricted in terms of the way of how we talk about such things but I genuinely want to be a member of a community or group of hobbyists. If anyone has such access please please please for the love of God put me on..  
I mean no harm, I don't frequent TER and want a situation where I can just check my socials and see that I'm in the midst of friends.  

The post you responded to was like 10 months old. And that sounded more like a friends chat group, not for anyone who wants in per se.

Didn't really see it that way, stumbled upon a recent reply so I joined the thread but it's alright. Thought I found a gem lol

Text me

Sucks... I'm not on vip. What do I do

Thanks. I'm such a dumbass

Real hobbyist groups aren't going to extend an invite to a someone like you with no reviews or contributions to the community. Provider groups that accept you with no contributions will only do so because they see you as fresh meat to take advantage of. Be careful and don't get scammed.

Unfortunately that’s the cold hard truth.

I get how it looks but rose has been actually cool and she's a verified provider. So far so good I was able to contact her and she started the vetting process although I've not received a verdict from her.

You have it wrong here lol. Am I fresh on TER? Yes. Am I a greenhorn in the space? Hell no.  Submitted pd for screening and it's ample evidence (packed with reviews too).. I understand you're looking out for me but I'm swimming in familiar waters. I mean who doesn't want to be around the hoes!?!? Come on!

I personally would never refer to myself as a hoe.

Didn't mean to be disrespectful in any way. Just meant it as a figure of speech.

If they don't want you in their group, move on.

I think I'm less bothered about the GC at this point.

PD is a joke. They don't allow negative reviews. You don't get any credibility on TER if that's your only reference.

Did you look at utrrose post history? She vouched for a provider heather who stole deposits, then refuses to take accountability, let alone understand why she should disavow or retract her approval.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/san-francisco-11/i-vouch-for-heather--34545

HAVE to remain a dumbass, although some here do.