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Music to f**k to
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I like music and I love the hobby and I sometimes find myself spinning music during a date. Sometimes I'm hosting. Sometimes a provider's hotel room has a dock for my IPod. Music is definitely a far sight better than some t.v. noise in the background.

But being a hobbiest on the senior end of the spectrum, I sometimes think my musical taste is pretty laughable to the younger providers I sometimes meet. So I'd love to hear from other hobbiests and providers if they have musical preferences and recommendations. I could definitely use some help adding to my playlist.

Here's the music I usually find myself spinning during a date:

Marvin Gaye: What's Going On, Here My Dear, I Want You
Prince: Dirty Mind, Sign of the Times
And I once had a great time with an obscure Chicago blues album in the background, Magic Sam's South Side Blues.

So you can see I could use some help in breaking out of my rut. Anybody have their own playlists they'd like to contribute to this thread? I'd love to hear other's musical tastes.

"Lord Of Your Thighs"..Aerosmith..(Get Your Wings Album)....Lot's of "Funky" soul music,makes for good bumping and grinding also!

Please no Rap for me ! i'm sure many have gone to see a lady who had god awful music playing.

I love very sensual soul music myself..George Benson, Teddy Pendergrass, Al Jarreau and Luther Vandross are just a few of my favs.

Lately Roy Orbison has been getting me in the mood..Am I dating myself

Another favorite is Native American music with drums and flute.

I have a new chanting CD by Dean Evenson that is awsome

kisses haley

These are some of my favorites. Asian is wonderful to accompany a nice sensual massage, while Indian and Middle Eastern are better for the more sporting activities. Even some drums on their own can be very sensual, and when you add some soft flute to them, you can get lost in it.

I find ethereal, almost otherworldly-sounding music to be a perfect companion to great, unrushed, sensual lovemaking.  Portishead (particularly Dummy, but their new album, Third, is pretty good too), just about anything by Iron & Wine, Sigur Ros, and the Magnetic Fields -- one of my favorite bands, who I just saw in concert last night! (especially almost anything from 69 Love Songs) all fit the bill.  Rod Stewart's Great American Songbook Collection is also really good, and I say that as someone who normally cannot stand his music.

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You know, I don't live that far away from you. I think I might like to get together and check out your tunes. I'll be in touch.

I enjoy introducing friends to my favorite things... ;)

Hi -

Sounds sort of like some of the trance music that's popular at some of the clubs in Germany right now. Thankfully they're starting to get away from euro and techno "rock". I will admit that it would be a good background track to some love noises.

Cheers -

Gregory

I like slow trance, New Age, or something similar to Enigma.  Basically, pretty much anything sensual with more melody than words.  Songs that have a lot of lyrics tend to be distracting.

confusedcious479 reads

Agree ILE.  I never listen to it in real life.  But when I'm having fun, slow trance/new age music really puts me in the mood.

yes, ENIGMA does it for me, or slow jazz.

Jazz/Soul/Opera/Slow Music:

 
1) “Smile” by Nat King Cole
2) “What A Wonderful World” by
         Louis Armstrong
3) “Fields of Gold” by Sting
4) “That’s The Way Of The World” by Earth,
         Wind & Fire
5) “Mercy Mercy Me”, What’s Going
         On”, “Let’s Get It On”, and “Sexual
         Healing” by Marvin Gaye
6) “Cry Of The Sea” by Hiroshima
7) “Smooth Operator” by Sade
8) “It Happened in Monterey”, “I’ve Got The
        World On A String”, “Someone To Watch
         Over Me”, and “New York New York” by
         Frank Sinatra (If you're making love
         on the balcony in New York) ;)
9) “That’s Amore” by Dean Martin
10) “I’ve Got My Love To Keep Me
         Warm”, “These Foolish Things”,
         & “The Way You Look Tonight” by
         Billie Holiday
11) “Harem” by Sarah Brightman
12) “The Look of Love”, “Tempation”
         & “Besame Mucho” by Diana Krall
13) “Give Me Something Real” by Clark
         Anderson off the Living Out Loud
         soundtrack
14) “At Last” by Etta James
15) “Goin’ Out Of My Head” by Queen Latifah
         off of the Living Out Loud soundtrack
16) “Tita” by Pauline Croze
17) “Si e Spent oil Sole” by
         Vinicio Capossela
18) “The Mummers’ Dance” by Loreena McKennitt
19) “Chiara” by Andrea Bocelli
20) “Ava Maria” by Placido Domingo
21) “Street Life” by Crusaders
22) “Zoot Suit Riot” by Cherry
         Poppin’ Daddies (Hey! It's fun)
23) “On The Beach” by Chris Rhea
24) “Your Secret’s Safe With Me” and “Island
         Life” by Michael Franks
25) “New Day For You” by Basia (for fun sex)
26) “Dance Me To The End” and “Don’t Cry
         Baby” by Madeline Peyroux

Fun/Alternative/Slow Rock Music:
1) “Something About You” by Level 42
2) “Mustang Sally” by Wilson Pickett
3) “Leave in Silence” by Depeche Mode
4) “Slave To Love” by Elan Atias
5) “Dust In The Wind” by Kansas
6) “Eye In The Sky” by Allan Parsons Project
7) “Under The Milky Way” by The Church
8) “Beds are Burning” by Midnight Oil
        (for those kinky times)
9) “Hold Me Now” by Wayne Wonder
10) “I Melt With You” by Modern English
11) “Close To You” by Maxi Priest
12) “Just Another Day” by Jon Secada
13) “The Reason” by Hoobastank
14) “Take It Easy”, “Tequila Sunrise”,
         and “Hotel California” by Eagles
15) “If You Ever Did Believe” and “Crystal”
         by Stevie Nicks
16) “Stop Draggin’ My Heart Around” by
         Stevie Nicks and Tom Petty &
         the Heartbreakers
17) “Rhiannon” by Fleetwood Mac
18) “Cry Me A River” by Justin Timerlake
19) “Goodnight Moon” by Shivaree
20) “Every Breath You Take” by Sting &
         The Police
21) “Roxanne” by The Police (perfect) :)
22) “Maggie Mae” by Rod Stewart
23) “Hot Fun In The Summertime” by Sly &
         The Family Stone
24) “Nowhere And Everywhere” by Michelle
          Lewis off of the Practical Magic
          soundtrack
25) “A Case Of You” by Joni Mitchell off
          of the Practical Magic soundtrack
26) “I Cant’ Help Falling In Love With You”
          by Elvis Presley
27) “Bang Bang” by Nancy Sinatra
28) “Daniel’s Song” by Elton John
29) “If I Could Change The World” by
         Eric Clapton
30) “Down Under” by Men At Work
31) “Owner Of A Lonely Heart” by YES
32) “Call Me” by Blondie
33) “Heart Of Gold” by Neil Young
34) “Teach Your Children Well” and
         “Our House” by Crosby, Stills,
          Nash & Young
35) “Turn Turn Turn” by The Byrds
36) “To Sir With Love” by Lulu
37) “Isla Bonita”, “Crazy For You”,
         “Papa Don’t Preach”, and “Take A Bow”
          by Madonna
38) “West End Girls” by Pet Shop Boys
39) “Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman”
          by Bryan Adams (one of my favs)
40) “Dancing Queen” by Abba
41) “It’s Friday I’m In Love” by The Cure
42) “Come Undone” and “Rio” by Duran Duran
43) “This Is Not America” by Davie Bowie
          from Falcon And The Snowman
          soundtrack and “China Girl” by
          David Bowie
44) “The Falcom And The Snowman” by
          Pat Methany Group from Falcon
          And The Snowman soundtrack
45) “You Make Me Feel Like A Natural
          Woman”, and “Chain Of Fools” by
          Aretha Franklin
46) “That’s The Time I Feel Like Making Love
          To You” and “Misty” by Roberta Flack
47) “Isnt’ She Lovely” by Stevie Wonder
48) “Really Love Your Peaches Want To Shake
          Your Tree” by Steve Miller Band (:)
49) “Moonshadow” by Cat Stevens
50) “Everybody Wants To Rule The World”
          by Tears For Fears
51) “I Miss The Rains Down In Africa” by Toto



Rock/Heavy Metal Music:
1) “Looking Out My Back Door” by Creedence Clearwater Revival
2) “Back In Black” and “Highway To Hell” by ACDC
3) “Welcome to the Jungle” by Guns ‘N Roses
4) “Living On A Prayer” by Bon Jovi
5) “Stairway To Heaven” by Led Zepplin
6) “Light My Fire” by The Doors
7) “Me And Bobby McGee” and “Piece Of My Heart” by Janis Joplin
8) “Come As You Are” by Nirvana
9) “Rock Of Ages” by Def Leppard

Yes, the list is long but, there is a lot of tunes in there that would work for me!!

A Case of You by Joni Mitchell on the list. For me, the song is just too melancholy and thoughtful to animate an erotic encounter. Indeed, the song is about the incredible depths that a relationship can reach as opposed to the typically brief TER encounters.

         Plus the dulcimer accompaniment which works so well with the song means that the song lacks the throbbing bass line of your other choices ( I'd throw out your Ave Maria as well but that's me).

But you do have a bunch that would be on my list.

it is a beautiful song. Also, remember, this is not a list I've accumulated for sex. I said this is a list I've accumulated over the years that I like.

Now, to pinpoint the best songs for making love to: definitely, "Sexual Healing", almost anything by Sade and Diana Krall, and music without lyrics that is poetic and entrancing. :)

Hugs,
Ciara

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I did think you were picking songs that you liked to play during erotic encounters.

I guess that makes sense -you'd have to have a lot of sex to get through this many songs!

Ciara-
That's quite a list, and very helpful! Though every provider is different in taste, musically speaking, I can appreciate the songs you like. I myself am going to meet a lovely lady here in a few weeks in Vegas. She is quite a bit younger than I. We are going to have dinner first, then go up to the room and have drinks and 'dessert'. Both of her choosing, but not of her demands. I asked her of her preferences, and will have them made possible. I want to treat her with respect, and make her time with me as enjoyable as it will be for me to be with her! But as far as music, like I said, she is quite a bit younger than I. So I have the feeling she would be more into Hip-Hop than the Rat Pack! Actually, the Rat Pack is before my time also, but not by far...! Anyway, thanks for the insight, lady!

But I still think it's good. You'd be surprised at what young women want to listen to while having sex. Some might say hip hop and a lot would still say something mellow. I would ask her right upfront regarding what she likes. Save yourself the uncertainties.

Hugs,
Ciara

Here's a sample from my ipod...

Chaiyya Chaiyya  - Sukhwinder Singh and Sapna Awasthi
Labios Compartidos - Mana
Suavemente - Elvis Crespo
Do ya think I’m sexy – Revolting Cocks
Mambo #5 - Lou Bega


Ed

Marvin Gaye, Eddie Harris , The Stones , The beatles, The Dead, Dr.dre, The list is endless I have a 200gig Library to choose from.

TheLoveShack626 reads

I suggest the classic album Avalon by Roxy Music.

And if the setting is such that you're a rather "petite" man, and your date is a tall statuesque blonde with an enhanced rack... in that case Ravel's "Bolero" would suit the mood... and I hope the review would be a................................


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i think it really depend on the type of music u are into some people will tell u they love to fuck while they lisen to metallica, but if u are into the slow stuff i would recomend momments in love by the art of noice, also enya,enigma and sade
happy humping

PRINCE,  Steeley Dan, Eric Clapton, Jodeci

shudaknownbetter586 reads

When I'm with a lover, I want to be in a bubble, just the 2 of us.  I want to totally focus without distracting.  I don't want the lyrics to be popping into my head...

My favorite artist is Fredrik Karlsson what I'll term "Massage Music".  If you recieved a couple of discs recently, you'll know you're my ATF.
skb

how about the rolling stones infamous "she went all the way down"  love song.  i like their earlier stuff, though.

Prince is always good.
I personally enjoy ambient electronic music like Vangelis' blade runner soundtrack, as it's without lyrics, and rather timeless. but that's just me. You could always go down the violin concerto route, too.

iPod with easy listening and mostly instrumental music.  Hotel radios are a last resort.

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