I read review after review where the guy proudly trumpets having given the woman an orgasm...which in and of itself is certainly not out of the question.

It's the guys that actually think that she had 3, 4 5 or even one I just read that said he "couldn't count on both hands" the number of orgasms she had.

Are we really that stupid or do you think they are trying to impress people in their review?

from the same guys, I think you'll find that they are really reviewing themselves.

LOL, A little of both...

even an ambitious lady is not going to fake 3 4, or 5, unless what the guy is doing is *really* unpleasant and she wants him to try something different, but his next moves are just as bad.....

One I believe. I don't know why so many guys are so insecure as to believe that ladies *do not* enjoy having sex with clients. Sure they do. If you have any idea what you're doing. And most experienced hobbyists should have an idea I'd think. Two? sure, sometimes. More than that, stated in a review? Maybe - if the rest of the guy's reviews read like real life. But a pattern of 3,4 5s? BS. Anyway, the review should not be about what a stud the guy thinks he is - it should be about the lady.

Oh, and then there are the ones that are always talking about mutual orgasms.  Every O is mutual. That is really funny. The real mutuals are great but not the easiest thing to "come" by. And they definitely do not happen multiple times per session or every time a guy hobbies. I think that's probably a case of the old "baby don't you want to come with me" routine when the guy is hammering away forever....

Now that does not mean  every man knows what it takes to please a lady. Some man are just dull and they know it and don’t care. Others need a little  more tutoring.  The ones that get that tutoring it are the ones who care to ,and that is reflected in there reviews. So I ask you are you that Gullible?

I'm not gullible.

I know you faked the 9th one but the first 8 were amazing.

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some women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms.  I am happy to say that I am one of those women.  Do I have multiple O's with every guy I see?   No. But it happens more often than one would think.  If a guy has experience and knows what a woman likes or if he listens to her when he's with her and does what she likes, then it is foreseeable that a multi-orgasmic woman would have multiples with him. However, open communication is important.  If I whisper in your ear to touch me a little gentler or that you are too deep, please don't take offense.  I want to enjoy the experience as much as you do.
And, if I enjoy it, believe me, I will make sure you fully enjoy it in turn.

Multiples are one thing...but when the guy thinks his count is 8 or 9 then well...it just gets hard to believe.

and would happen on a very rare occasion!   I have had the experience of having so many that after awhile they just kind'a roll into one very long, very satisfying Orgasm.  After that though, the coochie is very very sensitive and off limits!   Maybe too much of a good thing??

I to can have multiples (see above post) lo.  but not as easily as some and when I'm having em I sure as hell an't counting.

some guys ask "how many is that"?  half the time, I've lost count.  who knows!

I dunno....but you see it in review after review.

It's funny but then again..sometimes I am easily amused.

me too..

...and I believe them!

Yah but 82 reviews I wouldn't worried about it The ladies seem to like you

If a guy really wants me to cum, and if he listens closely (which is hardly ever), no offense, then I can have multiple orgasms, but it's always in the same position. Some men have experienced it and then have asked me, "Wow! That was awesome! Why haven't you told me this before?"  Hmmm, I usually respond, "Because you never asked. Plus, I didn't want to be selfish." Also, the type of position that gets me off really quickly usually gets the guy off too fast so he doesn't want to do it for very long. And, just when I think I'm going to have an orgasm and have actually told the guy to keep doing what he's doing, he changes. What the fu_ _!

There are some that I try to tell but they just don't get it. I have to physically show them, but they still don't get it. There are so many men who are great lovers in this hobby, but there are only a handful who really listen to what a woman wants. It doesn't matter that much because it should be about the guy. He's donating, right? However, some guys feel bad or should I say "their egos destroyed" if a lady doesn't have an orgasm. That can also put a lot of pressure on a lady if he cannot get her off. Quit trying so hard and listen to what a lady wants if it's that important to you. I don't have to get off to have a good time, but I will if someone wants me to and if they can keep it going in the same place for a few minutes.

If whatever gets her off gets you off, still go for it! There's time for another round -- hopefully.

Hugs,
Ciara



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Counting O's huh? I can't count and f*** at the same time.

But that is very rare indeed. It is possible, however, for me to have three or four in one session, but the guy would really have to be patient and listen to what I like.

But I have to admit it's very funny to read about how many orgasms a woman has had from all of these reviewers. It just makes the guy look silly and arrogant. I'd rather see a review where the guy says, "I think she had a few orgasms. It felt like it and she moaned a lot." Or, if she really told him that she had multiple orgasms and he could feel it, then I'd believe it.

Hugs,
ciara

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We can have that many orgasms, actually easier than you think.  Though I personally don't always like to have that many.  Quality is better than quantity.

Dude, do you know the women these guys saw personally?  Who are you to say whether it couldn't happen?

I have never gone into an encounter with a provider expecting her to reach climax.  Sometimes she doesn't...sometimes she does once...sometimes she does more than once. I have made it clear from the start that there was no need to lie or act with me.

Do I think I am being duped every time by every woman who seemingly has reached climax, no matter what her personality?

I think it is the height of cynicism to think that way.  I choose trust and communication and empathy instead.

It isn't being cynical...it's called common sense.  We've all read the kind of reviews I am talking about so calm down Frances.

I love smart intuitive guys....They make the best lovers. That is truly one of the perks of this biz..

The quest for future business usually trumps "trust, communication and empathy"

 CC

That they’re  guys out there actually counting?? Please guys explain that one for me. If  I have a any orgasms I'm happy. lol  That’s not to say I don't have more then one...But why o why the hell is any one counting? Weather you are reading the review or writing it I think in the  mistiest of  counting
you missed something.

The best orgasm an escort/provider has is when she opens up the envelope and counts the bills.

Yes, I have read silly reviews.  I just often see the opposite end of the spectrum on here...people saying that the only thing that makes a provider have an orgasm is when you hand her the cash.  

"Common sense" says that both extremes are wrong.

U can't touch me.

since all but the most hardened pro is not going to act the same way, relate the same way with every client. Who he his and how he acts is going to condition the lady's behavior and performance.

OTOH, you are right - a lot of reviewers are just preening and saying - What I stud I am! These reviews are a total waste of time.

with one or two, I'm a pretty happy guy, and hopefully the lady is happy, as well. If I can leave with the thought that two people enjoyed the evening, I don't need to beat my chest when I write a review.

It's wonderful to see you on the boards. Stick around and have some fun.

who didn't even have ONE orgasm... can you believe that?!

on the other hand, I've experienced ladies having such an intense orgasm that they could not function for a couple of minutes following the experience... it is not hard for me to imagine a lady having multiple orgasms...

and yes, some dudes are trying to impress people with their reviews...

guys count cause ego...plain and simple alows them to beat there chests and reinforce what big studs they are. I try to loose myself in the experience i don't even know my own name if things are going the way i would like them to, let alone be able to count lol.

I don't know I'm not a crack head. But I think crack heads are stupid and think that of the men they see that was my point. Lol I think the men here  are above that dare  I say… And that’s why I see them.


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It always surprises me when people use the word crack or crackhead as it isn't something that would ever come to mind.

xo Lisa

Just don't wat the guys to feel as thought we think they are dumb .....Cheers

Awwww come on now ! !

First you try to get in on my bingo franchise

Now you are taking my lines

Just what shall I do with thee ?

Thank you
XLIII = 4

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