I am wondering if anyone has thoughts to share about combining our hobby with the swinging community.  I have been in the hobby for a while and have been toying w/ a few ideas such as asking an ATF to accompany me to a swing club (single men are not invited as a rule) or put out an invite for a Bi-curious girl on say CL or AFF to do a threesome w/ an ATF who is really into girls.  For some reason I think this could be a lot of fun.  How would our providers react to these ideas?

How are you going to pay? By the hour? By the lay? I went to a swing club in New York and I charged full hourly fee, for a total of 4 hours. Then there was the safe sex thingy. I didn't want to have any type of unsafe sex with a woman in a swing club. If it's supposed to be a double, I prefer knowing that the girl has great reviews, not some girl off craigslist.

Where the provider who was accompanying her gent on a business trip picked up a couple at a bar for them to enjoy--  

I'm sure she, and know of at least one other who goes to swing clubs herself who would most likely be glad to-  probably under all the conditions mentioned by the above post- on the clock, safe sex, etc.

every few weeks.  There are some local indy providers who are OK with going to swing clubs, and have figure out their own rate structure.  It also seems appropriate to work out guidelines in advance.  Providers have different views about what they do or dont feel comfortable doing in a swing club.  Also, swing clubs are quite different in different cities and you should probably do some research beforehand so you know what to expect.

Personally, the swing club route has never attracted me.  I've done it once but have also passed on it several times.  

The threesome deal is easier.  I suggest you start by asking your ATF what SHE would like, because IMO you will enjoy yourself the more she enjoys herself.  Also, I wouldnt trust CL or even AFF because you're really shooting craps re quality.  The best hobby threesomes I have had have been with two well-known providers who either knew each other beforehand or whom I was able to "match up" based on what I knew about their personalities and styles.  Personal chemistry between the two women (which is not exactly the same as personal attraction though close) is key IMO.  For me the whole idea of three in a bed is to have fun, like an adult play date.

I am comfortable as long there are no drugs involved and we don't have to drive.
The champagne flows at these places so a driver/limo is the best way to go.
There are too much drugs. I can't stand that.

Maybe I'm a purist in the sex area.I don't want anything to change the sensations and that is definitely my "drug" of choice.
My picker is broken when it comes to women.
I think doing doubles could keep me from getting too wild like when I hang out with strippers.
I'm glad I saw this post.
I was just thinking of going back to dancing in clubs in Baltimore but it is sooo hard to be good around rowdy wild strippers.
I am not good at saying "no" when naked women are involved.
I love to watch. I'm definitely a voyeur.
I am using an alias because I don't know if this would be considered an inappropriate ad.
I miss dancing.
I got an offer from Scores in Baltimore.
I don't miss the drama-maybe I'm too wild.
Also I would be way too frustrated if I don't have enough sex after all that teasing all night and that is when I end up going home with the other girls and the drama starts all over.
I guess I could buy a new toy for every shift and I could come home and watch porn with my new toy.
I'll probably want the real thing.
What is a girl to do?
I miss attention from women.

eh,

sounds like a bad idea imo.

-M