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Re: Mixed bag
Mr.Doofus 70 reads
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Posted By: doctordare
There is some quality and some  value to be had on BP there are definitely opportunities on there, usually for young, dumb pretty and eager to please girls.  Catch them while you can...
Yeah, well that's just the point, isn't it?  Someone has to be the adventurous first, some time or other.  Someone has to be the one to find out if a posting is to good to be true or is some new cutie that, once you've met her, you almost don't want to post a review in order to keep her more for yourself.  I've had three of these first timer experiences from BP.  They almost make up for the times where the experience makes me throw up in my mouth every time I think of it.  (Still getting over from one of those!   Urrrrrp. Oh shit.... 'scooz me.... gotta go.......)

Relative to the guys who get fooled by these sooooo very obvious ripoff schemes on that site, I have very little sympathy for the dim-witted among us. The old, if it sounds to good to be true, it ---- , most definatly applies I would think.

The pics of perfect 10 after perfect 10 (especially when you live in a region where this is very hard to find) the fact that most if not all are outcall only (can't do a cash and dash in most incall situations), the fact that the rates listed are very low relative to the girl pictured, I mean how does anyone fall for them. I mean thinking with the wrong head only goes so far.

Anyway just wrote this because I was amused by the gent in my local area that has taken to posting ads on Backpage outing one of the outfits that ripped him off. It's nice he is trying to help others but c'mon, how stupid do you have to be. Kind of funny to run by there now and then just to browse the BS, boggles the mind to wonder who or what is behind each and every BS ad on there.

Might be an good idea for a TV show out of the "To Catch A Predator" or "To Catch an ID Thief" ...To Catch a Hobby Thief.

down here its only the fly bys that do outcall only(with one exception) alexis.  the rip offs are mostly the hot looking semi milfs like mylissa and friends, among others. The problem is the reviews drop off and they get a new lease on life.  if we cant keep the reviews up how do we know what to avoid?

I seem to recall someone here (or perhaps it was one of the ladies I've seen) saying that Backpage has basically been overrun by the... well, I'll just say it: the lowlifes that had previously infested the now-defunct Craigslist adult services section.  I read it mainly for the amusement factor, as you pointed out, but I still feel like I need a 10-year shower every time I'm done.

About the only time that I would EVERY consider giving any of the people on Backpage a try is if they can be vetted to my satisfaction (usually meaning reviews here -- and GOOD, recent reviews at that -- and on other places, ads on other sites that are consistent, i.e. not 500 different aliases and 1,000 different photos, and so on).  Needless to say, that leaves about 99.9% that I wouldn't touch with a 15-meter cattle prod.

4 reviews 2 TOFTT  long time lurker, took the leap of faith a while back and tried what looked good to me.  No bad things yet but it will happen im sure.  Nothing is for sure.  Everyone has adds somewhere.  Its not only backpage look at eros or dating or taz or erotic city many of thoose girls are long time rip offs.  The best thing we can do is call them out at every chance we can with reviews. If not its like dropping the banana peel for the guy behind you and wathcing them slip. I stepped off the soap box.

I've seen plenty of fakes and scammers on Eros as well, and have even pointed out several (and been the victim of one, which was totally my fault for not vetting properly and letting the little head make the decisions).  I just feel, and this is totally my own opinion, that you stand a much greater chance than most of being ripped off from a BP girl.  This is undoubtedly due in no small part to the sheer volume of ads there (are they free?).  No matter where you look, though, I think we all agree that the key to not being ripped off is verify, verify, verify.

As for myself, I seem to be on something of a self-imposed crusade to uncover and keep track of scammers (both genetic female and transsexual) in the Detroit area.  One in particular seems to change her names and photos on a weekly basis (she has several ads on Eros and Backpage), and has disabled the rating function on her Eros ads... after I deliberately 1-voted both of them to warn others (which sticks on the margin photos even if they're disabled). :-D  I concentrate mainly on Eros, though, because going through the BP ads would be a lifetime job...

You are doing God's work!  Keep it up.  Be strong.  We need you in NY.

OK, you're stupid.  OK, I take it back!  But if you throw me a softball, I'll take a hack at it.  Just sayin'. No harm meant.

Not sure where they are from but I have noticed a massive increase in ads on there, again all obviously total BS.

The funny thing I found is the two or three I have called, women who posted ads that hinted that they might be legit, are really kinda pushy and rude on the phone. Simple questions like "do you have any reviews" and would you be considered "GFE" were rebuffed so rudely that it was enough for me to figure a good time was not to be had.

You would think that they would try to fake kindness in order to gain a victim...lol

I figure these pests do better in regions like mine where the selection pretty much sucks when it comes to that perfect 10 type girl rather than in regions and cities where legit perfect 10 type gals are in abundance.

You need to move to the NY metro area.  Pussy Heaven!  Still, we have BP here, too, though maybe it's going away.  It's useful only for those touring providers whose reviews are also on TER.  As someone said earlier, without a TER link I wouldn't touch a BP girl with YOUR dick.

DeepStudDiver133 reads

You got to use your judgement and not jump at the first pretty picture you see.
I've done a few good ones from Bpage.

There was one lady I called whose ad said she'd do anything, but when I called - she was rude on the phone. I asked if she was available 'tomorrow' and I wanted to set up a meeting. To my surprise, she said "don't call me if you're not seeing me now" and she hanged the phone.  LOL - Talk about rude, uncivilized, crass behavior.  Glad I did not see her, because she already showed I wasn't going to enjoy bedtime with her and I just saved my cash.

I do screen like crazy. Reviews are not enough for me. Too many fake reviews especially on other sites. I have seen 10 Backpage ladies one of which had no reviews and so far no ripoffs. In fact the best two ladies I have seen only advertise there, including my now retired ATF. I have found ripoffs in my screening everywhere even here. Where a lady advertises is not a good indicator of anything. One thing I did notice is fewer Backpage girls are true GFE in my screening.

There is some quality and some  value to be had on BP, it's just more hit and miss than elsewhere. I wouldn't take a BP date without a history of positive reviews, but there are definitely opportunities on there, usually for young, dumb pretty and eager to please girls.  Catch them while you can...

Mr.Doofus71 reads

Posted By: doctordare
There is some quality and some  value to be had on BP there are definitely opportunities on there, usually for young, dumb pretty and eager to please girls.  Catch them while you can...
Yeah, well that's just the point, isn't it?  Someone has to be the adventurous first, some time or other.  Someone has to be the one to find out if a posting is to good to be true or is some new cutie that, once you've met her, you almost don't want to post a review in order to keep her more for yourself.  I've had three of these first timer experiences from BP.  They almost make up for the times where the experience makes me throw up in my mouth every time I think of it.  (Still getting over from one of those!   Urrrrrp. Oh shit.... 'scooz me.... gotta go.......)

My first experience since coming back to the hobby was from the BP. Two actually. The first was a rip-off scam in which I was told, at the last minute, that "her boyfriend" would be coming down to collect the money before I came upstairs in her apartment building {which obviously wasn’t her’s}. Some guy comes down the stairs acting very friendly and asks for the "contribution." I asked, "This is your girlfriend?" "Sure," he said. Too casual for what looked like a college kid to me. Then he turned to me on the stairs and told me I had to give him the money before I saw her. That's when I turned heels and got out of there pronto. They didn't call back.

I was so pissed off, I called another BP number that looked legit and I got lucky. Not a GFE, but a real, live, really pretty blonde who confessed to being new the hobby and to the Boston area. Incall was a motel/suites establishment. Well lit, clean, etc. She told me she wasn’t sticking around too long, and she did, in fact, leave town two days later. I *think* she was from Minnesota.

Looking back, I think I got very lucky, A} by not getting robbed and hurt/killed during the first one, and B} meeting young Holly on the second one safely.

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