Never mind. I stopped caring as soon as I asked.

You should find TRER
The Retired Erotic Review

I would change that "what will you do"

Lina

If it's followed up by a detailed play by play and/or pics/video - I'd be highly enouraging...

If not, I'd just be ok with it / indifferent to it - not really my concern what goes on during girl time unless she's in a sharing mood.

I am a former escort who is married to a man who used to photograph escorts, models, and other beautiful women, one day I found out he had seen an escort after telling me I was no longer aloud to provide.

How would you feel if your spouse/SO saw an escort? Its probably different with men....

I was just asking a question..., if you don't want to respond...don't...

Life is what it is..He did it before he met you and he will continue to do it after .Marriage doesnt stop someones  way of life.You need to dig inside your heart and brain and decide if you can forgive him for being dishonest if you can,move on from it then do so if not well...only you know that answer.


Good Luck to you

XOXO
Krystal Love of Las Vegas

As long as that is something we had discussed and both agreed to first.

What I have NO tolerance for is deliberate deception---or umm….’sins of omission’ within a committed monogamous relationship.  

Hmm….which, I suppose, might put nearly every man on this site dead between my cross-hairs.

But so be it. Trust and honesty are paramount for me. Sexual dalliances are rather inconsequential as long as I’m not being deceived in the process. What that deception tells me is that my partner does not trust me enough (or does not have guts)  to be honest with me.

And, that also deprives me of the option of making informed decisions about who I’m fucking---even if that might be 2nd hand.

That pisses me off big time.

Asking her to stop whining is like asking her to stop breathing, no wonder her SO is out fucking someone else.

and why would you wish such a miserable fate on some poor little dog?

Did you really read her blog? I skimmed a few paragraphs until my eyes started bleeding, what a bunch of senseless drivel. I think the mods must be out drunk to even let her link to her blog, or maybe they just want the rest of us to suffer?

and not the kind of perv who enjoys such things. Makes one wonder what it is you're hanging on for. Relationships are like mirrors - when they break, sometimes it's better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself trying to piece them back together.

It was never that way with me. I enjoyed being shacked up with a hooker, not because I particularly cared for her job, just that I liked that she was such a slut; and being a hooker was just an extension of that - at least initially. I mean, it wasn't her most endearing quality but more like icing on the cake for me. But I'm only half-sane anyway so take it with a grain of salt...or the whole fucking salt shaker.

Meek, demure, Suzie-homemaker types; the "good girls" blow fucking chunks. They bore me and when I'm bored there is no keeping me home. So I wouldn't say it's no different for men. I'm quite certain I'm not the only guy that balks at the idea of square-ass soccer moms as wife material along with the played and retired tradition of sexual monotony...er...I mean monogomy (that was redundant) - and I'm not talking cheating either.  

...on the thread called "found out my wife is a provider."

Trust me, it is not different with men. It hurts. I mostly see escorts for a sense of balance in my marriage and because my wife seems happier when she knows we are both playing but I was much happier when we were monogamous. If I was to be honest I dislike my wifes "job". I know why she does it and understand it, yet I rather she flipped burgers or stayed home. Her "job" makes me feel very insecure as I know I am not the best lover or the most attractive man she fucks.

My wife is bi and likes women as much as men and she from time to time books couples sessions with an escort. These sessions are very uncomfortable for me as I get jealous. The last time she booked a session I was a no show. I just couldn't do it that day so I stayed at work. She went ahead and seen her anyway. There will be no more couple sessions for me.

In short I don't like my wife sees others, but have accepted things as they are.

You need therapy. Your blog reads like a soap opera (what i could stand to read) - you're not the first woman with a failed marriage and you're certainly not the first escort who couldn't make a relationship work.

Stop whining, figure out what direction you want your life to take and move on. Oh, and if this is the only outlet for your misery, make a friend or get a dog.

Ahahahahaha, you, sir are fucking hilarious!  I feel the same way.  It's sooooo boring being with the same person and I believe the more you fuck the more you cum and then you want to do it some more and some more and some more, etc.  My SO absolutely hates my job but as soon as I step out of the shower he seems to forget where I was.  Hmmmm...pussy power?

XXX-Giselle

I dislike My wife escorts, I really do. I hate that she lied to me about it for months. Yes, my relationship is damaged but not broken beyond repair. The trust was greatly damaged by her lies, but it is recovering slowly. The hurt that her lies have caused is getting replaced with understanding. Her escorting is bothering me less and less now I understand why she feels compelled to do so.

Most everything good in my life is in part because of her. She literally life. She stood by me when no one else would. She was there when I faced my darkest days. She sat besides me when I was in the hospital in a coma not knowing if I would come out of it because I did something incredibly selfish. She helped put me back together when I was broken. She stood by me as I faced my demons. The day I met her was the luckiest day of my life.

She stood by me when I put her through hell because of choices I made, so now it is my turn. She returned to escorting because her demons became to much for her. Some of her demons I helped with my failings bring to the for front. She stood by me when I fell apart and did things that where incredibly hurtful and selfish, how can I do less? I love her and I know she loves me. She has shown that she loves me time and again. That is why I stay. Not because I have a cuckold fetish.

Relationships are not mirrors, they are cars. They require maintenance and are often worth fixing. But unlike cars they go up in value if maintained over time. My marriage other than maybe my son is the most valuable thing I have. It is worth fighting for. Even if it hurts sometimes.

I wouldn't expect someone who's name is " allergic to crack" to understand my blog anyway,but I will gladly pass my feedback on to my many readers

So any exposure to drivel and subsequent eye bleeding is your own damned fault, unless you think that the TER Orbital Mind Control Lasers made you click that link.

Generally, we don't censor people who stay within the rules here and the content of the post/linked material is topical to the board (even if you or someone else doesn't like what is being said), and the preference is for being loose on what's allowed that falls within the rules, because this isn't a ladies tea social. On the other hand, we could just start enforcing the "civility in discourse" and "personal attacks" stuff, and moderate you into next week, since your post would easily fall into that category. So you might want to consider the kind of house you live in before you start heaving bricks about what the moderators should and shouldn't allow.

Quitting because you "weren't allowed" to work anymore? What is he, your father? Your boss? And then he cheats on you? Dump his ass. He sounds like a lying, manipulative control freak.

Yeah, I know...I have a tendency to be to nice to people...