Although I use date-check,p411 and TER, I was wondering as a provider how do most of you aficionado's find you? Also I was wondering would you have any friends who also might be provider from whom you would take referrals from too that might not have a significant amount of interaction with providers who would have a web presence? Also which hobbyist from what sites do you tend to give preference to?

This query is for the men and women ...

I am interested in finding out which sites are the most frequented and most popular when it comes to a gentleman searching for a provider.

There are so many to choose from on the web -
Which ones seem to work the best?
Which ones have the best quality providers?
Which ones are most user-friendly?
Which ones do you use regularly?
Do you browse more than one?
What characteristics bring you back?

Thanks any info,
Chloe

... it is TER. At least for me.

On TER it used to be search feature, great feature, but now I use the boards, I like getting a preview of the girl's personality on her posts.  The Las Vegas board is incredible, it's like a whole different reality, you really get the sence that you're in a little community, my local board - not so much.  Date check's features are also very nice, photos on the profile, links to her web site and email are easy, and the reference feature is real easy to use, click a button called "we met" and she responds, but apparently the TER "white list" holds more weight (one provider was willing to friend me on date check but to get a white list she had to meet me again.  She wanted to be sure I was "white list material".) The other feature that's nice is they list their favorite perfume, music, jewelery, flowers, and stores. Also when you save your favorites there's a photo. And there is a direct link to her review on the major boards.  Their search feature sucks though.

But hands down TER has the best reviews. It's fun to read them and write them.  They are better than porn (at least the good ones).  Next I'm going to try P411, that's the one I keep hearing the most about here.

Eros Guide and TER.

TER is the best I've seen, by far the most user friendly.  I'm not sure the search works that well (or at least is very easy to use) but once you figure it out a bit it's decent - and the reviews here seem to be the best I have seen.

P411 is good in two ways, the first is that a lot of providers accept P411 for a background check (you may need a few OK's from providers there to see full benefit).

The second is that P411 has a decent search for you area, both providers listed but also those offering specials.  What I'd recommend doing on P411 is watching the ads every day for a while to see who shows up, you can also find touring providers that way.

P411 has no reviews at all though, so I'd become members of both P411 and TER to see the full picture.  The P411 listings usually have review links back to TER and other sites.

You might also look at review links for providers around you on P411 to see if there is any more local board that is popular in the area.

Some gal actually told you that?  I hope you just chuckled...and moved right along!

I'll be VERY disappointed if you tell me that you actually paid her for another session so she would "whitelist" you.

And if you did, please contact me as I do have some real nice property in a swamp to sell you

Perhaps the greatest honor I have ever received in my life, was whitelisting on TER, sir!  You, sir, do not know the way to appreciate the finer things in life.  Revel in your self-loathing, but I and my comrades will monger on, to greater and greater whitelisting-ings.

Also, I treasure my collection of bazooka joe diplomas, another great honor, sir.

Here in Chicago, I use TER and Room Service 2000.  Room Service is popular in the mid-west.
I also include DateCheck and another regional review/discussion board when I'm traveling to the west coast.

I love my bazooka joe comic collection too

That was the key to my standup comic success in the late '70's!

Try eating some "Mary Jane's" (the candy, or the other type will work too) while reading those comics....priceless

I'm also a DC and P411 member.  Use BP, EROS, Adultsitesearch....  It really doesn't matter where you look, the important thing is, DOES SHE HAVE REVIEWS!!!!!  Yeah, I know, I'm shouting.  No matter how hot she is, or how good her rates are, or what services she offers, if she doesn't have reviews somewhere, she will not see me.  The only exception to that rule is if a trusted hobby buddy, or even a provider I know well recommends someone to me, I will consider seeing her.

Swim

And Little Phil's comment above also, lol!

Indys

Indys at the top for me too