This question is for providers but also fellas. I have experienced that when a provider takes a liking to me, there are certain benefits that come with it such as reduced donation, longer sessions, or her doing things that she doesn't normally do, etc... however this only happens after I visit a provider on a frequent basis. Do u providers do this or is just me and fellas have u experienced this?

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more accommodating within reason; usually not watching the clock to the minute.  I have been grandfathered as rates have risen.  Yes, there are times when a provider has done things with me that are not listed in her profile.

I add more time(hang out time) and OTC stuff( a breakfast or lunch). I don't discount the fee and I do  not add extras. If I don't do them out of the gate, I don't do them at all. A good business move to keep a good client.

I would say "normal" but only for providers who are clever and savvy enough to know how to keep "nice" customers who click well to come back again and again with special incentives.

No discounts from me (except for grandfathering) or off-the-menu items, but yeah OTC is essential I think.

as an inducement for repeat business - to make you think you're 'special' :p

I had a 1 hr appointment and she stayed for 2.  I chalked it up to her being "tired" and wanted to wait a while before we started.I had seen her twice before that.

"now if you happen to hit it off with a provider - a genuine enjoyment of one another's company,  a bit of hanging out OTC is not unusual at all -   maybe extended time to visit and catch up after a session,   or lunch or dinner....     sometimes you actually become friends and share some personal time and space - "

In fact I often screen for it when I am doing my research. I like to see hookers with tight snatches but loose clocks.  

My kinda hooker and thanks for the honesty.  

You mean... when she said she was happy to see me, she says that to other guys??? NOOOOOOOOOO!!!

OTOH, social OTC is something different than playtime OTC. Aside from grandfathering, rates don't really come down. Maybe they sense who needs a discount and play some of them differently.

There's also the dark side of OTC, like being asked to move furniture from one incall plant to a new one, driver her to the airport, and such. But maybe in that case, the lady wanted to LOSE me as a regular but was just too kindhearted to tell me on so many words.

The ones repeating were the ones that clicked well, (duh). Therefore, since we got along well, it was easy to click and it was fun. Since we clicked, it was easy to get along well especially she felt at ease around me. So she was worth repeating.  

Not at all I just wanted to know if this a frequent thing so I can be on the lookout for this.

Like BBFS? If so u should go get tested... What's wrong with someone being nice & showing appreciation to someone who comes & visits many times? I don't do discounts nor do my favs expect it... But I don't watch the clock, some OTC outings, some other stuff that I may not with someone who's a one timer or a once in awhile.. It's all about chemistry... If you're having a great time with someone why NOT!!!  I know most of u assume us "Hookers" have no heart but we probably are some of the NICEST women you will EVER meet!!!

Be patient. Some of these guys are learning how to do business. It's their passion. It's getting the deal that gives them a hard on. And wheeler-dealers are always going to flock to P4P in inordinate droves. That sounds like a mixed metaphor, but it's not really. I digress.

I would hope not. But in my experience there are things that are not normal per say that may be in her private world but are not normally in the hobby. I think it comes from chemistry and trust.

WTF?

Either that or she somehow got the idea you were into slave training.

Gosh, not me!  I just want to fuck 'em and leave so I can hang out with manly men, fart and belch.
Here's a hint for you, bunkie.  If you actually tried to imagine for a moment that, at a certain point, hookers are just people you'd know the answer to your question.
Have you ever actually been on a date?

Of the relatively few (relative to some members of this forum) providers I've seen, there's two whom I've seen frequently. Both are mid-20's. I don't expect either to want to go out to lunch or dinner with a man nearly 40 years her senior, and neither has asked or offered.  

Hahaha what's there to negotiate? My multihours are low enough as it is.  In fact, I'd feel insulted if one implied they should be lower.

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I agree, some guys are just great to chat with over a meal and I do it quite frequently with my favorites.

and a few of the more enjoyable friendships I've been privileged with over the years have been with providers....

I have never in 5 years of hobbying been offered a reduced rate....  just grandfathered.  And I wouldn't expect it..... this is her profession and she deserves to get what she feels she is worth.   However, there are a few that offered "off-menu" services after repeat visits, which keep me coming back.

I have a good friend with whom, somewhat to my surprise, I am almost totally interactive.  That is, she almost always offers a new wrinkle or two, and almost everything is on the table.  We rarely ask each other, but just swing into it and if it doesn't work we do something else.  I know her limits and respect them, but they are few and sometimes I have to work hard to keep up with her.  In my experience, I find this rare and very special, because it encourages improvising beyond the norm, which in any case is pretty liberal.  I tip generously, not always the same amount, but I think my generosity communicates to her -- without saying anything -- this sentiment:  "you are very special and I want your "A" game every time I see you."  Whether she likes me or not is not for me to measure, but she's always totally cheerful and very affectionate right up to final good-byes.  A rare treasure!

Less to do with frequency and more to do with how we get on. Which is why he comes back to begin with. Haven't we all been bored/horny and called a reg and threw em a freebie? NO??? Just me? FUCK.

Some do.  Regulars are valued.

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why look for a date in this world? doesnt make sense to me.

you dont know what the hell youre talking about.

good answer.  

about me.  

I never suggested everyone should do it my way.  Most people can't.  I simply suggested your way was narrow-minded.  I still think so.

I agree with you not only are some of u the nicest but u r also some of the honest women.

Thank you for being honest and treating decent men, well, decently!  I think there are quite a few guys here who act as your gentleman friend does, and respects you as a business person AND uses common courtesy in his dealings.  Bravo to him and bravo to you for treating him well.  And the more guys recognize that, and are rewarded for that, the better off we all will be.  And yes, there are dicks who will take advantage, but you have the right "get the fuck out of my face" attitude to give THEM!  

Thank you sybok1701 (about a year late) for just getting it. You keep getting it and being a good fella and I'll keep secretly being a sweetheart. Positivity works in ripples.