they have a chance. Not so.
Now if she was within acceptable perimeters, I would be crazy to turn FREE nooky.

Several times actually, once when i was 18 cause she was under aged. second time cause her dad was in a profession where i didn't wanna end up in cement shoes so to speak. Third time was my best friends sister and that would have ended really really badly. That's pretty much it

one of the primary reasons was not considering her to be competent to give consent to having sex due to drug or alchohol impairment or age.

on only three occasions that I can recall was she so unappealing as to merit "two bags". *I* have to be impaired for that action, and it takes one hell of a lot to get me that impaired.

(yes I have to admit that it has happened on a few occasions - waking up to an "oh my god" moment LOL)

I also refused advances from ladyfriends of shipmates who were on sea duty.

I truly regret *not* turning down the advances of my former administrative assistant. I do not regret the sex or the relationship but in the end after the better part of the year, she was very guiltridden about it. She had a perfectly nice husband if admittedly a big of a geek....

Now I will admit that there *plenty* of women whom I wish had responded more positively to *my* very subtile and gentlemanly advances lol. You win some, you lose some.....

I have usually turned them down until I am sure as to what is going on.Better safe then sorry. But sometimes it is very hard

First let me qualify the "almost." Once, the advances led to the revelation she was 'working.' Was not interested at that time, and since I was a potential client, I don't consider her part of the civvie group inplied by the question.

As for the 'never'... the first reason is I am always interested in the different dynamic in the power structure when a woman initiates. Her advances could be as little as a way to get your initial attention all the way up to her being in persuit of her sexual conquest. How that plays out and it relates to the aftermath is facinating to observe and be a part of.
The second reason is a am a shameless manwhore.
no alias needed

when I'm deep asleep. I use to be up for it, but often, lately, I've been passing it up. With the economy depressed, and having to work twice as hard for half as much, I need all the sleep I can get.

A few...if she is not what I am looking for...if she is then green light means GO!!!!!

Every once in awhile, depending on the situation.  It's not like I'm in high demand, just enough so that I occasionally get to choose.

What I find ironic is the fact that as I get older, instead of my age range expanding, I find myself even more selective.

When I was younger, I'd fuck a snake if it wouldn't bite. Now that I am past fifty, it's a rare woman over 35 that I have the slightest desire to fuck. Unfortunately there are countless thousands of middle aged divorcees that find any unmarried man, of any substance with all his teeth and most of his hair irresistable. rofl

I can't count the number of over the hill, middle aged, heifers that want to fuck. It's the main reason I have no interest in many of the over the hill fat assed providers that constantly whine on this very board. rofl If I won't fuck a fuglie for free, why would I ever dream of paying for it.

Not really, but considering the audience...

For me, not very often. However, there are conditions:
 - I must be attracted to her in some way
 - Not involved with any known friends
 - It can't be taking advantage of a known situation

as above when there is reason to believe that there is not rational adult consent due to impairments...

also when i get the feeling that one of us would be surprisingly bad for the other in some way.

i like happy endings and the possibility of each being able to respect each other in the morning, or after it is over.

i admit it.... i'm a happy ending junkie..... and i don't mean that in a sexual way.

In the civie world, on average I have turned down 1.5 offers for every one accepted.

Reasons included, without limitation:

1. Her refusal to accept use of condoms. Yes, believe it or not, in the civie world women sometimes object to their use.

2. Psychological instability. There are some crazy people out there.

3. Too drunk to give informed consent. My rule is if I wouldn't let her drive my car, she can't consent to sex. I had a lady dump me over that one; but years later she looked me up and apologized.

4. On one occasion I stopped just prior to entry because I had a weird feeling that something just wasn't right. Man was she pissed.

5. etc etc etc

All told, in the civie world, I have turned down sex from well over 40 women. And I don't regret it.

BTW, I am not rich, handsome or any of that other stuff.

if you don't respect your dick it won't respect you. the guilt of fucking a free fugly will stay with you forever and will affect your performance with a a desirable woman............as women always whine . men will fuck anything so they keep  looking for men with a fat assed heifer fetish AND pay for it

Usually if I feel it would be putting my dick in the crazy... For some reason every married women who has expressed in interest in screwing around has been married to cop, prison guard, or solider....

Those kind of people can kill you and make it look like an accident

A few.....but never would from you!

In a bar. She was fat, dumb and ugly.

I wouldn't have fucked her with YOUR dick.

I don't usually pay attention to the subtle hints(body language if you will)that people throw off. Thus, I've probably missed out on some opportunity.

I'm just focused on more important issues than sex. Sex is secondary maybe even third on my list of priorities. Sorry ladies.

I know this is quirky but I have never had an affair or a fling or one night stand. I absolutely adore women but made a decision years ago that my dalliances would be only with ladies in the biz. I find Providers to be more stable and less complicated than civis. I know it's male rationalzation but I've never crossed that emotional relationship boundry...  Oh , I know..it is kinda stretching the definition of an "affair" and I am pretty damn sure Mrs. STP would not accept my philosophy ..lol.  Maybe even harder to believe I have ample opportunities and for some odd reason am approached frequently.

did NOT look like her pictures!!!

I always do.  Who needs a Jessie James or Tiger Woods situation?  If you are paying for it, she will keep quiet.  Only exception is Eliot Spitzer and they only got her to talk by threatening to bust her for prostitution.  Imagine being with your wife and the other woman keeps calling or texting...I never want to be that guy.