Even tho I understand this is a business transaction in the end, I would prefer the provider have as good a time as possible. I read up on some things girls like in DATY and that included FIV. But a recent post on Provider dislikes had at least one provider saying she hates that -- and no one disagreed.  So is FIV good or bad during DATY or YMMV?

YMMV. Personally, I am very clitoral vs vaginal and too much FIV (esp too deep or too rough) can turn me off at times.  

I always ask about FIV when I start DATY because I've found it's an individual preference. Some girls really like it to the point where I end up fucking them hard with two fingers and they're squirting all over. Others would rather I stick with the mouth.

.... to end up being wrist deep inside their pussy, and all variations in between.
It's all in the communication.  
Have fun.  
Nails filed and hands washed and enjoy.

... I know a few women who have sensitive clits and don't like any direct contact there, except maybe very light tonguing.  But some of them love FIV, especially g-spot fingering.  

...so there is not a single code that works. Also, they change their code sometimes, so what worked the last time may not work the next time.  My advice is to not worry about figuring them out, but just enjoy experimenting.

and then there is the whole question of chemistry.

Personally, I love DATY & FIV.  If a person does not have well manicured hands FIV can be harmful.  A jagged nail can cut the vagina & that is no fun it is an issue.  If your well groomed muy bueno.

i love FIV.  i would take it in lieu of DATY anytime!

You are not going to get a one fits all answer. Guys are different too. You think every man likes the same style blowjob as you?

on having an orgasm while my finger was in her as my tongue was tending to her clit. So I promptly removed it and boy did she really let loose. The most I had ever seen from her. Now I always tell every lady if she wants me to do something different to let me know and I'm glad she did this time. It pays to listen to what works for her.

One of my favorite ladies to daty with does not like fiv during daty but greatly enjoys fia during daty. As stated already, communication is the key.

Perfect response...this time of thread might not come up much if folks just remember there's no standard technique that will work on all.

It's hard for me to concentrate if both are being done at the same time. I like really rough fingering and I can come easily from that. And I like firm licking on my clit just as much but at separate times.

My focus with daty is coming. No fingers, just tongue on the clit. It's my little head Please be warned I do come hard.

I prefer just tongue but a little finger in pussy is okay if I'm wet enough

They say the only dumb questions are the ones never asked so forgive me in advance anyway but what does FIV mean? I googled it and got Feline Immunodeficiency Virus. Im quite certain that is not what we are talking about though it does still involve pussy. LOL       Sooooooooo, kinda close but not really. Whats the scoop?  

....eat me like a slice of fresh watermelon, not much finger on the clit (just a little sometimes) and fingers sometimes up to the wrist on my gspot please make me beg,  (kinda like going for that last pickle in a mason jar) you can tell when you have it right, my ass comes off the bed and my hips start rollling.. .......  
Happy Holidays
Suzee

You have a fantastic way with words.😀

.....I generally speak my mind in the most direct form......like "make me beg please" and. "use me like you own me baby"  kind of straight from the heart, know what I mean?
Happy New Year
Suzee

I'm ready

Asking "hey is this ok" or "does this feel good" or "do you like this" are really good questions to ask in the heat of the moment! Inviting your date to tell you exactly what she likes, where she likes it, and how she takes it can be an extremely hot experience...... haha

That makes sense. I never do DATY and FIV at the same time. While I'm doing DATY I will sometimes pause if I don't feel like she's getting close to the O and I need to take a break. I'll do FIV for a while to keep her interest up before getting back to work. What's nice about FIV as opposed to DATY or even vaginal sex for that matter is that you can enjoy the view while you are doing it.

so she is cowboying your face.  She will now select where she wants your tongue; clit, a little lower, or rimming.
If she jumps off, then you must assume she does not like it or you have no fucking idea what you are doing.  
Based on what I have read on this thread, the majority of you have only hand  experiences with COCKS.

Every gal is different, so yes, ask!!  My clit is super sensitive, so I prefer very gentle and soft licking. And yes, I do like a firm but gentle rub to my G spot to get me to the top of the mountain.  

When you google sexual terms, add the words “urban dictionary” after the term and you’ll get the dirty version of things— which is what you want— given you’re on this fuck board.

At the top of every discussion board main page is the link to the Self Help Center. In the Self Help Center are 2 lists of definitions and acronyms.

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Emjoy,  And afterwards Mouthwash  and brush your teeth....if your a ladie, washing soap and water,  peeing after ..will ward off desease 👧💋💋

Oh and i like it done gentle with lots of licking and sucking 🍦

It depends on the woman.... i love clitoral play the most, and lots of sucking and licking, and spitting. My hitachi gets the job done well too

We are all about the clit..not much inside unless you know how to make us squirt. Most of the time, if a  guy is going in there with a finger or two, he doesn't know what he is doing and only hurts or distracts us. Pay attention to the clit! :-P

I prefer the lady help guide me on how she likes to be pleased.   I can be a quick study!  

Giving DATY is my absolute fave thing and I'm with you on this, if the bed is wet it's got to be her juices not my saliva (to be a turn on for me anyway). But everyone is different and I never start dining without first asking her to guide me. I want to make you cum as hard as possible and the best way to do that is for you tell tell me what will get you there.

I should probably start another thread on this subject but if you like DATY and don't like FIV then what about PIV (penis in vagina) after DATY? My first wife, now deceased, only orgasmed through DATY but afterward she enjoyed being penetrated and having me finish off that way. I actually prefer being finished off orally myself and with most of the providers I've seen they seem to want to go right to repaying the favor and don't really care about vaginal intercourse at all - which is fine by me because I don't really care about it either. Reading reviews however, I get the impression that lots of girls like having their pussy pumped, or at least the guys think they do. So not sure what to think about it.