I think the point was that there will be some dead ends in terms of sales to customers and one should generally take that into account.
Why do potential customers do such things? Lots of reasons I'm sure but I suspect in most cases it's not malicious or about negotiating different terms (if so that would be clear in the communications so the OP would already know why in her specific case).
10 emails with no booking information, but you want to meet… I am mind boggled at the time wasters. If you did not read the providers website, fantasy reviews, or don’t read the ad why contact the provider?
It’s rude to waste someone’s time, and if you’re that difficult why would I want to share my time with you? It’s great feeling when you get that real gentleman who appreciates you & sends all your booking information in one email. Thanks to the fellas who read the ads & website we create. I love a man who follows instructions & knows how to 💋 kiss= keep it super simple.
Yes, most older folks including my Mom still say that, but I believe in the power of words, so I tend to be more positive. lol Smile for me!
Even though we’re just about the same age. Still good burn.
Anyways they do it because they think they can talk you out of you policies. Thing is, while I don’t pull stuff like that, I’m willing to bet it works some percentage of the time. Maybe not with you but others.
They want you AND they want to remain anonymous and they’re trying to get the one to give instead of the other. But you knew all that when you posted this.
It’s just guys who want to have QB and eat her too…. Or something like that. I might have messed that up.
Do not consider myself a time waster and look at you as a Class provider but will never get that email from me as am not sending PI or downpayment . If I would you would be a top choice . Do not understand those who are sending inquiries without any information .
Your body, your life, your rules. My identity, my life , my decision.
I can't imagine having to answer 10 emails in order to make a $1600 sale.
Yeah nice work if you can get it. Time wasters have been around for ages. Relax!
It was 10 emails that DIDNT lead to a "sale." No shock he sides against women again. It's his thing.
I think the point was that there will be some dead ends in terms of sales to customers and one should generally take that into account.
Why do potential customers do such things? Lots of reasons I'm sure but I suspect in most cases it's not malicious or about negotiating different terms (if so that would be clear in the communications so the OP would already know why in her specific case).
Queen Bia certainly knows not every contact leads to a date. She is specifically talking about people who wont book after many, many contacts. I am sure you would agree that is ridiculous. Having a question or two is one thing and that can be handled in a FEW emails, not 10 or more. Lester missing the point is par for the course though.
Neither of us know what the conversation was so I suggest not assuming you know what was occurring. Sure, some people might never commit -- that's true in all walks of life. Some just like fucking around with other people -- sometimes just with specific people for some reason. Some are very unsure and indecisive but with some work will commit to some arrangement (seems like there might be a parallel here with the sugar bowl world, perhaps with the sides reversed).
But why get all worked up about it. If it's that big a deal just stop responding after some limit -- ideally with a blurb to the effect of "once you are ready to schedule please reach back out to me" to set expectations that no additional responses should be expected. Something more than just not responding. If they keep bothers you just filter the address to junk mail.
Not like this is any different than the guys griping about how they keep reaching out but never get a response to get screened or similar gripes. In other words, hardly something to get worked up about and best to "just move on" works for providers as well as the clients. Right?
You are reading into it more than what is there. It was just an observation is all. Like you said, guys complain all day and night here about deposits, RW info requests, etc so it's perfectly ok in my mind to have a provider do the same. It's just a discussion. Don't make more of it then there is to it.
Sides against women? Egads. It was a humorous response to what read like "The Princess and the Pea" story.
10 emails from 1 person or 10 different people?
I haven't been to your site, so I'm going to roll the dice here.
Based on what you say in these forums I'm sure your site says something about needing RWI.
So some clients are will contact you to see EXACTLY what RWI you need. Based on your response they try to negotiate with you if need be.
Also I'm guessing that you don't list what services you offer and what they mean.
I already know we have a different meaning of what PSE offers.
So clients will contact you to see if you're offering what they are seeking.
If you don't offer it, they may try to see if they can pay extra for it.
So see, the clients may be serious about seeing you but because of the games providers play causes the clients to waste their time texting you back and forth.
0.02
personal information for screening think WE are wasting their time, when, as you so aptly point out, it is often THEM wasting OUR time.
I have not even read all of the responses on this post yet but I am sure it will somehow get back to wanting screening info. LOL
Most guys that do this are just looking for free spank bank material. They are going to ask for pics to confirm you are "real" or to confirm your pics are "current" (duh) or they are going to ask specific "service" questions when if fact they are really just sitting there with a hard on in their hand and have no intention of booking.
Not worth the time. If they don't give me a day/time/duration within the first one or two emails I politely tell them to move on.
I think it is good to try to get them to focus quickly. And no doubt there are weirdos who get off on chatting up escorts. What I found humorous, though, was the idea that 10 emails, which probably took one or two minutes each, was in reference to a potential sale that exceeds the average American's weekly pay.
.
Now of course if most exchanges are like that consuming your entire working day, but you still pull in at least one customer, you're ahead of the average worker.
.
But I suspect most exchanges are wrapped up much more quickly and so its really hard to work up sympathy for someone earning an above average salary having to spend 20 minutes per week on the occasional time waster.
You are correct, and I have been doing this long enough to know who is going to be a legit client and who is going to be a time waster. I am at the price point where I attract a pretty large pool of clientele, so I have no need to go back and forth with anyone. I am able to pick who I want to see. Book or move on or I will. I don't have time for silliness.
..."share my time" ??? You're not "sharing" your time, you're selling it, and the buyer had some questions, reservations, etc. before making a purchase. He elected to pass for whatever reason. Get over it.
make an inquiry, then she tells you about all of the personal info she wants, and BTW, there will always be a deposit required, and after all of that, you decided it's too much intrusion into your real life, you are branded a time-waster.