I am in a big trouble! My girlfriend contacted a escort girl about me. (She somehow found her name in my cell phone record) and this Escort actually told my girlfriend that she met me! I can't believe it! What should I do! Should I put down her name and URL in here and everywhere through the net for everyone's sake? I just don't understand it could happen!

Hmm. That is a tricky situation. I doubt the provider was being malicious, although I wasn't there and don't know for sure. Is it possible your g/f posed as someone else to get her to acknowledge knowing you? Something simple, like calling the number from your phone and having the provider answer, "Hi 'billjordan'" or something sneaky such as your gf posed as another provider and asked for a reference. I have acknowledged seeing a client when providing a reference, but I do usually check into the girl I'm giving a reference to (ie. make sure she is legit, has a website and/or reviews, etc.) before responding. However, some ladies likely aren't that careful, especially those who get tons of requests. Overall the reference system does more good than harm, but I could see how it could be used against someone in this fashion. Good luck with your sticky situation. Sorry that happened to you~

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No point getting mad at the escort. Once the name was discovered in your phone, the gig was up. If we don't want to take any risks, we stay home. That's the price of doing business.

Saying she "met" you doesn't sound all that damaging unless your GF knows all of the details...your post doesn't say.  I might think about contacting the provider to close the loop on exactly what happened, but that sort of drags her further into the drama.  I also might think about ending things with the GF unless you're interested in a dealing with all the damage control.

Maybe your girlfriend didn't actually talk to the escort, maybe she just said she did,to catch you off guard.

Although I am personally all about deny deny deny

Some wives/gf can be very creative.
Once had a wife call me trying to tell me her husband is dead (he wasn’t ) ………… maybe she thought I would feel sorry for her …………still my story was- sorry ,I don’t know what you are talking about.
But some escorts may not be so quick on their feet.

If you don’t want to get caught, don’t leave evidence.Why does your GF have access to your phone records ??

you need to take responsibility for your own information.

Posting would just be he said/ she said, AND the fact that you just signed up to TER makes me think there might be something shady going on here.

to erase the call lists from your hobby phone whenever you use it.  (you do have a pre-paid hobby phone under a fake name and address, don't you?)

why put the escorts name in your phone ?

if you put her name in as bill your gf probably wouldnt have called her.

anyway your post has the stench of bs all over it. i can hardly imagine anyone's gf calling an escort and asking "why are you in my bf's phone" and an escort saying "Oh yeah thats cuz im an escort and i met him.. "

as if

we cant even remember who we've seen.

Many also don't like being dishonest, and it doesn't come natural to them to lie on the spot.  

As another post suggested, your GF probably did lie about confronting the provider.  Think about it: did she go down every cell number on your bill and check all of them with a search engine? Did she call every suspicious number?  

If so, she knew you were fooling already.  Your goose was cooked and your relationship was finished before she called the provider, if she even did.

inspired by this thread and to play a little trick on your SO if you think she's prying into your life:

Get the phone number of a local company that distributes spices and condiments and load the number into your phone with attached names like:

Spice, Jasmine, Peppermint, Cinnamon, etc.

I bet that could make for some interesting conversations should she call the numbers.

1) prepaid cellphone, $50
2) web-based email used only for hobbying, free
3) disable history and form-filling in browser, free

Anonymity? priceless!

O.

-- Modified on 8/20/2007 6:07:46 AM

...find out how much the escort charges for "couples".  Pay her to come do you and your girlfriend as a "gift" to your girlfriend (I suppose it would help if her b'day was coming up, but if not just make something up).  And as for why you've already seen her?  Well, you had to check her out to make sure she would be suitable for the REAL session!  After this, yes you should let others in your community know what a betrayer that escort is!  And finally, let us know how it all turns out!

Your girlfriend is getting into the biz and she was checking your refs.

-- Modified on 8/21/2007 7:47:34 PM

Ozy,
Can you explain #3?
Form-filling in browser?
Thanks

SRLeix : this is as important as deleting browsing history.  Should your SO ever notice that your computer has visited certain websites, you could always claim that you were browsing for fun (guilty pleasure), or the web site opened due to a spam email.

If however, the web site in question already has a pre-loaded login name, then you have a whole lot more explaining to do.  

If you conscientiously delete browsing history, this is a remote risk, but just to be on the safe side use your browsers' "Internet Tools/Options" setting to delete forms (auto fills any web page that looks like a form) and cookies.