from you guys  on this.  If i think i might like to see you next week but I am not sure if my schedule is a problem and will not know until that week on short notice,  Do you mind if I get  prescreened and not make an appointment.  I have heard extremely polarized views of this answer from several ladies but would like to here from you.

Nope I don't mind at all.....it will make our time together and the anticipation of it an easier transition.



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I love to pre-screen, it makes everything simpler later.

Make sure to let the lady know that you are "hoping to free up some time next week and wanted to pre-screen in the event we can coordinate calendars" or something like that.

Do NOT say, "I would like to pre-screen for next Tuesday" if you don't know that you can make it.

Some ladies will do this, some won't.  You get polarized views because we are all individuals who decide, there is no "union standard."
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I'd rather screen you first so I don't have to do it later. It doesn't take that long!

It is much much much easier to arrange last minute dates if you are at least screened in advance!  

If it were me, I would see....please do prescreen!

....especialy if you don't know your schedule until last minute. Saves both of us time.  Of course, within a reasonable amount of time. Don't call me and say "Hi, you presceened me back in 2007".  

Not sure why you can't seem to get a straight answer on this.  Ladies either will do it or not do it.

It's a bad statistical sample...the ladies that answered demonstrate by posting here that they are organized and probably better at the administrative end of things.

The ladies that don't want to waste time screening a person that doesn't have an appointment are either too busy with scheduled guys, or just don't put value in that aspect of the business.  That's not a bad thing, but it's unlikely you'll see a lot of ladies posting here that would take the other side.  (Of course, now there's an opportunity to make a horse's ass of me, lol)

I have a trip to the west coast this summer.  Over a month ago I did a search, decided who I wanted to see, sent her my info and have been screened.  That is about 3 months out.  OK, maybe excessive but I wanted to make sure she was going to be in town since ladies travel so much now and I did not want to get disappointed.  Every couple of weeks I let her know I am still going but still not sure on the day.  She is cool and when my schedule is finally firm, we are good to go.  I have also been prescreened by a couple of ladies more than a month out.  I am a believer in it.  I was VERY lucky my first time in that someone saw me on very short notice with not much to go on.  She was great on doing a fast screening and the fact she was there for me still means a lot to me.  But I decided I never want to put a lady in that position again if I can help it.  They have schedules, they have lives, they have safety concerns.  I would think most would appreciate the thoughtfulness behind giving them plenty of notice.  Just make sure you don't drop the ball.  Most understand schedule and live issues.  Just don't string anyone on and I think you are fine.  I have not yet had any lady get upset about me asking to be screened early.  Just have an honest intention of following through.

However, if you call an hr before you want me there chances are, we won't be getting together.  Being pre screened is great, but I personally, don't count pre screening as a an actual appt for that day.  If I had another appt come up during that time I would book it because in my experience, pre screened appts NEVER call back.

So yes get pre screened, but do not expect a lady to be sitting around dolled up waiting for a phone call.  Or to even answer cause most of the time ladies will need at least a two hour notice, should they not already have plans.

by ladies all over the country. If I'm guilty of anything, it would be planning too far in advance, and it has bitten me in the ass a couple of times. The ladies I have been screened by are mostly ladies who I have flirted with, here on the boards, and so far, have been lucky enough to have met several of them.

I think that is something  only you and the lady should to know about.


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on the list of activities. You never know just when someone will be looking for that sort of thing.

I have no problem verifying before a date is set. I have done it several times, which worked well because the request for the date was short notice and I wouldn't have been able to verify him and plan for the date in that short of time. I just make it clear that I won't hold a time and that I may not be available.

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I dont think that is a problem that you would like to prescreen a Lady Because thats being safe and certain I would love to here back from you because i am a nwbie on this sitr my ter number is 133035

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Imani

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A couple of months ago, I introduced myself to a new lady with the subject line "prescreening".  I expected an opportunity in a week or 2 & I stated that up front.  (Ladies hate it when they think they're being BSed.)  I suggested I'd set the date by phone when I was sure. She said good, because she only books appointments by phone...  
I phoned, set the date the day before.  Called when I got off the highway & she guided me to her door.  I had a delightful time & will see her again when I have the right opportunity.
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Many men are busy and pre-screening at least gives you the option of last minute appointments that otherwise would be impossible.I think it's a great idea for the gentlemen on the run and only he knows what works for him.

I can't imagine any lady turning down the opportunity to see you even if it is in the future with no definite time or date. Yes, I would want to talk to you first and maybe a few times more before we meet.

Kisses haley

Absolutly, I love a gentleman that screens in advance then when the time comes... it is smooth sailing! All for pre-screening!!!
Respectfully,
Victoria
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I pre-screened a couple of weeks in advance...  actually the opportunity came a bit sooner than I expected.  
But unless it's a mojor trip or vacation...  I'd suggest not more than 30 days in advance.  More than that, just too many things could cause the plan to fall apart & the effort would be wasted.
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I do this all the time.  I am on a 2 day trip in Chicago right now where I prescreened 3 gents who couldn't yet book at the time.  I have 2 of them on schedule now.  I LOVE prescreening even if they don't make it this time, they just might the next time and I can schedule them with ease.

I don't mind prescreening. I like it because it saves me from having to rush and contact a provider at a moment's notice. I do not work every day and my hours are limited so it might be a problem to see you without an appointment. Summer is here and there is no school so I might also not have a babysitter. My incall is a little ways from me too and I would prefer to be there and comfortable waiting your arrival instead of rushing out and scrambling to get ready.