Ladies, what do your average clients look like?
Age?
Weight?
Height?
Handsome? (Scale 1-10, 10 being the best)
Divorced? Married?
Gentlemen?
Jerks?

Age 45-65
Weight 200-300 lbs
Height 5'8-5'11
Looks 5-6
Status Married
Behavior Gentlemen, not jerks but...quirky

by the time your in the heat of passion does it really matter. Being a good lover or having a great time does not depend on a gentleman's looks.

It's not the same for the gentlemen i'm sure

Kisses Haley

Age? 25-78
Weight? 180-290
Height? 5'11" - 6'5"
Handsome?  7 - 10
Divorced? Married? Single & Married
Gentlemen? Yes
Jerks? I have met some of the
most mature people in the last year .
I don't make it a habit of seeing men
in their 20's but one was so mentally mature I could not refuse.

Depends on the board. There is a board for every person and I don't list myself on jerk boards
so I haven't met any this year /

In GENERAL...

Age: 40-70 years old although I have seen a couple of 75 year olds and a few gentlemen in their 30’s.
Weight: 180-300. I have met with athletic types, overweight and quite thin. I have also seen a few clinically obese gentlemen. The weight of the men I see varies greatly.
Height: I have met with a few gentlemen under 5’6” and over 6’4”, but generally they are between 5’7”-6’0”.
Handsome (Scale 1-10, 10 being the best): Using TER’s appearance scale, I would say generally 5-8 with some exceptions, of course.
Divorced? Married?: Mostly married, a few divorced or single.
Gentlemen: Yes, always. I have met maybe one guy over the year who was turned off by giving me the envelope at the beginning, but I would say overall he was still a gentlemen, as are all my friends.
Jerks: None.

Ok ladies, out of all that you have seen, what percentage are you actually attracted to/would you actually have a romantic/sexual relationship with?  For me, physical attraction is extremely important (as men are more visual) and I would assume that it is equally important for women.  I understand that the duration of a typical encounter is only a few hours, but you only get one chance to make a first impression.  What do you think?

divorced and not married.

I do this as a way for me to avoid attachment.  The opposite occurs with a disturbing frequency.  I often will distance myself from providers, for fear of becoming too close.  Now how sad does that say my emotional state is.

As one said to me, there does seem to be those of us who are destined to be unmarried.  even though I was once married and enjoyed the state of matrimony, I must acknowledge that I do fall into that category...

others?  Divorced dudes??? What say you?

So, I won't go there!  Enough said!!  

Hugs, Belinda

Average would be, middle aged, married, in shape, average to good looking, gentlemen but dominant. Guys who love me being "the sweet babygirl"

I too am happily divorced and unattached.

I am as happy as a pig in shit, I hobby to my hearts content. I have no worries about being "outed", I am free to pursue civvie relationships, no one can accuse me of hypocrisy, without a wife to suck me dry financially I have all the disposable cash I need.

Yes, the reason divorce is so expensive is because it's worth it. lol

But I find myself in a similar state of mind since my separation last year.  I really have no desire for any sort of long term civvie relationship. Long term attachment doesn't bother me-I've had it with several providers over the years.  Long term commitment or dependency is another story however.  The great thing about a LTR with a provider is that you are both completely aware of the fact that, no matter how much intimacy is involved in your meetings, you both lead separate, fulfilling and independent lives the rest of the time.

that's well said Belinda... sometimes someone can be even hotter if they are a nice guy ya know ?

I have been divorced for almost 24 yrs.  I have no intention of repeating it.  I had a few civvie girlfriends in the early post-divorce years, but since I started hobbying, I'm not even looking for a civvie gf.

Like you, I think I am one of those who is probably destined to be unmarried.  However, one should never say never.  If it happens, it happens, it's not something I'm looking for.

While I know the boundaries between myself and the providers, I have become close friends with a small number of them.  We all know where the line is, so I don't worry about getting too close.  Since some of them live a long ways away, it is not a problem we worry about.

However, from what I have read, there are a lot of us older, divorced guys out there in hobby land.  We might not be in the majority of hobbyists, but I think the percentage is probably higher than what you think Bizz.

Swim

I primary do outcall so many  of the gentlemen that I see are divorced or single.Alot tell me that they simply are  not at a point in their life where they are looking for a committed relationship.They enjoy the fun "perks" of a relationship without the hassle.I also enjoy these gentlemen because they enjoy the conversation and mental aspects of the relationship as much as the physical.

In general, I am attracted to my gentlemen friends. If I am not attracted to a gentleman's looks, I may be attracted to his brain. Mostly I am attracted to a gentleman's personality, as the looks of the gentlemen I see vary greatly.

Xoxo,
Gia

-- Modified on 8/20/2009 1:38:58 PM

35-60 for age(usually, I have had a few older and younger), 120-400 pounds(estimated)5'3-6'6 for height, Handsome-ha! I've been doing this for five years and have come across TWO that I'd sleep with in real life.....the other couple hundred...average score of negative 17......most are married, a few try to be gentlemen, I wouldn't say jerks-I'd say not charming or smooth, lack of social skills, lack of knowledge about hygeine...the female body....etc.

I have *loved* being single. But, actually, I have rarely been without a housemate for very long.

In the circles in which I travel, these relationships have been atypical and have not interfered in anyway with my "hobbying".

Well - other than the fact that most of my housemates would have preferred to share the lady du jour.... Oh!  We did quite a few times in fact lol.....

... or any of several other men here who know a LOT about hygiene, a LOT about the female body (and the psychological aspects of female sexual response), etc. Hey -- some of 'em aren't even married. LOL

Oh -- and if you didn't catch the earlier thread -- GPS is required by federal law even in Trac phones and stuff for E911 compliance.

The reason (ostensibly) is so that if you dial 911 and can't speak; dispatch still knows where to send emergency personnel. But like all such technology -- it can be used for other things like tracking people who don't know they are being tracked.

Either way, I appreciate that you at least tell the truth about your perception of your clients.

and maybe a few other handy things

But here's the point -

I've had this exact discussion with *many* escorts whom I have come to know well.

Almost without exception, the unattached ladiestell me that the gents they meet in the hobby are nicer guys and often better lovers than the guys they try dating.

A guy who participates in this hobby is undergoing some of the best training in existence to be a gentleman and a better than average lover.

I'm sorry the lady above your post has had such bad luck.

But then again, our experience is a mirror. What we project, we experience. Law of Karma, or Threefold Return, if you prefer.

Cheers

GTM

I can't speak to the smell of his ass, because it wasn't that sort of meeting but he's had plenty of practice with women, so I'd guess he knows which end goes up.

I also know a little bit about his taste, so she better bring her A game.

Did you mean me or did you actually want a guy to set up an appointment with gagambler? And yes I read the earlier post, thanks.

Many of mine are so hot I wish I could stalk them but I just don't have time.
I see lots of guys who are in great shape with amazing tools.
married, single, divorced, widowed
attitude :
kind, indulgent, sex focused
a teeny tiny percentage are total liars and back stabbers
But I love the way most of them want to let me run the show when they realize that I really enjoy their tool.
they say " whatever you want to do"
I LOVE IT WHEN THEY SAY THAT!
I even had one who was such a good kisser. The absolute best. i just kept asking him for more kisses.

But I get that same feeling that it's a typical expectation from many ladies that "we older, well-groomed men" are typically married and we are visiting to get something that we cant get at home.  I'm not put off nor offended by this bias as it does not exclude me from anything.

I say this as the response has been a general "yeah right" or "your joking" when I note my single status to a lady who's asked.

What a great thread--thanks to all for the replies.

Well now I feel bad.  I guess that I thought I was pretty typical among hobbyists.

My 5'-4" height is offset by my 195 lbs of rolling thunder.  My balding head is actually coming into fashion these days, so I am told.  So what if I stutter when I am talking to a woman.  It's not as bad as when I start drooling when I try sticking my tongue down their throat.

Sure, I am a two-time loser in the married/divorced department, but I still am able to scrape together enough money from working my middle manager job at the insurance brokerage to see a new victim ... er ... lady every month or so.  Of course, when I do finally manage to book an appointment, I want to make sure that everything goes exactly how I scripted it in my head  - every night for the previous two weeks.  What woman wouldn't want to wear the school-girl/geisha/nun costume that I sewed myself in the basement?

Besides, once they get a look at my package, they know that I won't be a difficult client.  In fact they probably won't feel a thing - other than the way I like to pinch and tickle a lot.

I do have to admit, I tend to get a little perturbed when every lady I see immediately wisks me off to the shower and keeps asking, "Did you get everywhere?  TWICE??"  Then, at the end of the appointment, they never seem to want to grant me those extra few dozen minutes to make up for lost time.  That's why I like to linger over that last hug so long.  Kind of like squeezing a little more love out of them.

But at least I do go to the trouble of calling and emailing quite frequently after our time together.  That way, she gets the joy of remembering our time together as much as I do - as I build my little shrine in adoration to her.

You Should Treat a Lady How a Lady Should Be Treated!

Well being in WI this will make sense ...

Half Married, Half Not
40-55 avg (although quite a number of them are in their 30's or older than 55...)
Most are 5'10-6'5
Most are not gym rats (barely anyone is in my state seriously) and will probably have beer bellies/babies lol.
Typical personalities I come across are the "teddy bear/friendly/lonely/gentleman" type.

I think older men, or overweight men are a lot more friendly and considerate because they appreciate a petite, young gal being patient and relaxing towards them.  

We might not have model type men out by me... but I feel they are more considerate then most and I would take them over the ego guy any day.

Look at what you are getting -- guys with balls of shit still hanging on their ass hairs and stuff like that. Probably, some of them are chewing Red Man while trying to do DATY. (Remember the Red Man commercial? "Get that Red Man reaction! Satisfaction!")

What I'm saying is that, you need to book some guys who know what the hell they are doing so you aren't dealing with a bunch of negative seventeens.

I can pretty much guarantee you that any guy who regularly posts here knows how to at least handle decent cleanliness.

I suspect that at least a couple could take you like Grant took Richmond. You'd walk away wondering who should've paid whom. No kidding!

Think about it -- some of these guys have spent days and days exploring the full sexual menus of some of the most desirable and sexually knowledgeable women on the planet.

They damned sure know how to handle the whole physical and environmental end of sex.

As women's sexual satisfaction is closely tied to their psychology and attitudes and how they feel about the particular man; I can't guarantee fireworks.

But I can pretty much guarantee these guys demonstrate social and sexual competence.

Book some of 'em and see if I'm lyin'.

Now, hold on while I spit out and refresh my wad of Red Man. (*grin*)

and as for which end goes up, if you are doing it right both ends go up, alternatingly of course. lol

Somehow I doubt that MacDaddy and I would be a good fit. She seems way too selfabsorbed for my tastes, besides 24 is a bit old for my tastes. lol

Just kidding about the age thing, I actually prefer mid to late twenties, especially if I plan on spending more than a hour with her, of course there are exceptions.

Quite honestly, TER members are the worst at times. Sorry to burst your bubble.

I guess if they are seeing me, maybe in their head their half married... lol Just Kidding.

I meant to say about half of the guys I see are married... the other half are single men...

Honestly prefer seeing married guys... They (mostly) do not try to push my boundries or decide they love me.