Will wonders ever cease?  The longer I am involved in this hobby, the more amazed I become. Scheduled a session with a local provider awhile back. We had a nice time. At the end of our session the lady indicated that she had another appointment scheduled in awhile but didn't have time to drive all the way across town to her home and get back in time for that appointment. I offered her the option to stay at my home, shower, etc. while awaiting her next appointment. We engaged in a nice conversation and finished off the bottle of wine we had started upon her arrival. At the appointed time, she headed off for her next appointment. A couple months later, I scheduled another appointment with her. She seemed rushed throughout and after my first pop (about 35 minutes in), she was ready to head for the door. When I inquired about getting my full hour, she said "I gave you a lot of time off the clock the last time I was here" and with that, she was gone. Just amazing.........................!

-- Modified on 3/29/2005 6:48:34 PM

So did she stayed for 25 minutes at your house waiting for the next appointment? Or do you still "owe" her time? Is she your regular? Leave her for a while as to show her. If you could go back in time wouldn't you tell her that's it's ok to wait outside by the door?

Sounds like she pro rated her time for engaging in the previous conversation....and polishing off the wine! No good deed ever goes unpunished. Blow her off, Dude!

Looks like she has taken the "customer" rather than the Client approach to your sessions. She must have lots of guys waiting to see her that she feels she can blow you off and bail early since she gave you extra time last session.

It is interesting that her extra time was for HER convenience not yours and yet you get penalized for it. I am sure had you known that you would ON the clock, you would have been putting that time to better use.

Maybe I missed something but I would say put her farther out on your radar screen and see if she calls or emials you for the next appt.

I'm embarassed about some of the attitudes of the "ladies" in this profession. I would not see her again. As a matter of fact, why don't you send HER a bill for the wine.

We offer a service here...... bottom line. While I value my time and myself as a person I am congnizant always of the fact that there are LOTS of good gals out there that you can see instead of ME. I'd better offer exemplary service on a consistent basis. If I don't, you won't be back and the word is out. We can never please everyone we see but we can sure try.

You can vote with your dollars. Take them somewhere else if the service is lacking or arrogant.

Sincerely,
Anneke

Anneke...too bad more ladies do not have your perspective and atitude regardig this profession.  iF they all took this a bit more seriously they would not have to work so hard to get appts. The guys would be lining up on their door step.

You have obviuosly mastered the Client mentality part of the relationship.  Keep up the great work!

I have spent lots of time with my clients without ever asking for money.  The reward comes from future appointments with them or in other ways, like friendship or professional advice.  Or the reward could just come from having a good time with them.  I live in Vegas and some of my clients get comped.  So, it is not unusual to be offered room service, an expensive dinner, tickets to a show, or something similar because it's offered free from the hotel.  I see it as a perk for knowing that guy and an addition to what he can offer me as a client.   I would never feel as though he owed me for accepting offers like that.

Considering it as time for money would only happen if the man wanted me to schedule those things ahead of time as part of the appointment.  If she had a good time with you, then she made a mistake.  If she blew you off because she doesn't really enjoy her time with you, then you are better off.

Vegas Baby!

-Kelley

I'm waiting for the line babe. LOL

the end of the line?