I love this fucking site, and I’ll tell you why.
All this talk about ripoffs, doing your research, DNS vs. White List, and Taking One For The Team just underscores what this is all about.
Before this site, there was no team to take one for. Every time you saw a new provider, whether it was a bar girl, street walker, escort from an agency in the yellow pages, or hooking up through an ad, you had no real idea what you were getting into. There was no place you could go to research. There was no John bar or club to hang out in. If you went to a bar with working girls, you felt like a contestant in a cock fight, not part of a team.
I’ve been doing this for twenty-five years, and a lot have been doing this for far longer. To me, a ripoff or ROB isn’t getting a CBJ rather than a BBBJ or even upselling, it’s the time I went with this girl to the hotel room next to the bar and had some guy come in right behind us, pop me in the head, stick the gun in my chest hard enough to leave a week-long bruise, and take my money and watch. Or the time I fought back in a truck stop room because I was bigger than the guy, only to have the girl pull a drawer out of the bureau and hit me across the back of the neck and head with it (there goes another wallet). I could go on, but the point is made and I’m already losing some of you. (btw MagnumChicago, I still never wanted to beat up the girls)
Bad and strange experiences don’t even have to be about the sex. I hooked up with one lady out of the Boston Phoenix adult classifieds. Things were going great until she, all of the sudden, started crying hysterically, berating herself for a long litany of life mistakes she had made that I’ll never repeat, and then started rocking back an forth making strange humming noises. I sat with that woman for a little over three hours holding her and doing what I could, all of the time wondering WTF is going to happen now, until her roommate came back and gave me a look that would melt lead. I explained what happened, she said, “Oh, she does that,” and that was that. Would have been great to have had a review on that one before I went.
To me, as I’ve said before, this has never been just about the sex . I fucking LOVE women. (and love fucking them). The way they smell; they feel; the way they look into your eyes- everything. I actually dig how they think (I don’t understand it, but I dig it). This hobby is about the connections I make with the women – I just prefer the connections that include great sex.
This site is just too fucking good. I can check out a lady before I see her and share my good and bad experiences through the reviews I write. Safe for both us and them. The Providers can advertise through grass roots marketing, and let each other know about the psychos. And the boards give us a chance to actually talk about a part of our lives that I wouldn’t have dreamed about sharing with people I know. I even get PM’s from ladies across the country whose pictures alone give me that just climbed a rope feeling. How can it get better than this?
If this sounds like an ad for TER, so be it. I just love this fucking site because it better connects me with what I love most: Women.
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