To me there are a lot of strippers who seem like they wouldn't do escorting in a million years. So that's what I mean by "innocence",
I like strip clubs. Even if they're limited, you can sometimes find an innocence that can't be found elsewhere. This innocence gives me a huge boner.
what do you guys think?
if my wallet's going to be a good bit lighter in the morning I at least want to have gotten what I came for.
What qualities are there in a strip club that bring out innocence?
It's a word that I don't often find associated with these clubs.
Not that I consider innocence necessarily better than it's opposite, mind you
To me there are a lot of strippers who seem like they wouldn't do escorting in a million years. So that's what I mean by "innocence",
I have been going to strip clubs since I was 15, and don't plan to stop any time soon.
Many here will say why go to a strip club when you can get a sure thing with a provider, and for a lot less money? Well it all depends what you are going there for. If you are looking to get laid, then the better option is definitely with a provider. I go to strip clubs for entertainment. I enjoy being surrounded by many beautiful naked women. I enjoy lap dances too. Have I gotten lucky at a strip club? Yes, but not often and it is not my primary reason for going. In fact there have been many times where I stopped by a strip club on the way home from an appointment with an escort. It was not at all because the escort left me unsatisfied. It's just something different.
yep there's something about them that escorts don't quite capture. It's the guest service. It's the ability to just sit there being a creep eyeing several women up and down. You can also go to the tip rail and throw like 7 $1s on the stage and tell the dancer to spread her legs (and they always do it).
I also enjoy when a girl is talking to me, I'll just blatantly stare at her tits while I talk to her. I can't do this in public, so that's one of the reasons I like strip clubs. I also enjoy being super creepy on purpose because when the stripper is uncomfortable it gives me a huge boner. Mmmm especially if she is like 18, 19 or 20
And if you get your ass kicked by someone someday pulling that kind of shit in a club don't be surprised.
...keep doing the creepy stuff one of these days a dancer will invite you to meet one of the bouncers. Thing is you won't know about the invitation until the bouncer shows up to introduce himself. He'll make sure the door doesn't hit you in the ass on the way out though come to think of it he might help it hit you on the way out.
I too started at 15, but my first strip club was also a brothel in TJ. So I got to break two cherries in the same day, my first strip club and my first hooker and the ripe old age of 15. I had already lost my virginity over a year before, so I didn't break that cherry, but it was quite an experience for a 15 year old. Best five bucks I ever spent.
I still like strip clubs, but they are a lot more fun after a M&G where you can go to the strip club with a dozen hookers, many of whom are VERY bisexual.
I'll go to a club, about 1am after I've had a session with my lady for the night. You'll find yourself relaxed and not all wound up. You're chilled and laid back that you become a challange for the girls to try to squeeze a dance or more from you.
I've had a few girls give me their number for a 5am romp.....try it.
hobbying. I had made friends with a few dancers and DJ's though so I would go see them. I found I liked the eye candy and spending hours there. I started going after sessions for a beer or two and dances. I've even done a few VIP room visits from time to time to get a blow job.
You wind up paying about what it costs for a couple hours with a top-shelf provider.
Just to get teased.
Makes me think of a quote from GaGambler. I will beg for pussy. I will pay for pussy. But I will not beg for pussy I have to pay for. And in the case of the stripper, you beg for what you don't get. Not good. It disrupts the cosmic balance and natural order of things..
what do you guys think?
I use to spend every Xmas in Key West and there was a strip club that I must have spent a grand in the night after Xmas. It was a huge tease, but my taxi driver gave me a real Cuban on the ride back to the hotel so it wasn't all bad.
Unlike the strip club I use to go to on the RiverWalk in San Antonio where most of the dancers and waitresses were PT providers after last call. I couldn't stay up that late on school nights tho ...
I haven't been to any in NC yet. 
i worked in a strip club for a little short while, i could not do it...you have to hustle guys, and you cannot even go down on them for all money that they pay you
if the girl is pretty and does not like to put out,she could do well...also guys spend more time and money on you if they cannot actually f*ck yo
Offering $ for sex in strip clubs is a sure way to get thrown out ...
if the girl is pretty and does not like to put out,she could do well...also guys spend more time and money on you if they cannot actually f*ck you
this world. I would much rather spend my $ on a provider rather than a stripper who thinks I am their ATM machine. I don't need to be teased, just satisfied (tease before the finish is OK).
Me too.. spent thousands on VIP rooms.. got off like twice.. once a CBJ.. the other a hand job through my pants (then I had to walk funny to get the Hell out of the club)..
A girl offered to come to my Golf rental condo in Myrtle Beach I paid her several thousand.. she still said she did not fuck for money.. Huh? Shame on me for not being clear with my intentions..
No more.. Stripper math is crazy.. an hour in a VIP room for more than $500 ? mo way not since I discovered the Hobby.. It's less fake.. The girlls are nicer.. I actually make friends with them.. and it's a hell of a lot more satisfying.. I can't begin to justify a strip club for anything.. I think if I went now.. I would be avoided after abut 10 minutes..
There is an art to getting the most out of a strip club and strip clubs are yet another example of where "less is more". Some guys think that throwing thousands of dollars around the club is the way to get both noticed and laid. Unfortunately all it does is get you noticed AND pegged as an easy mark.
I rarely go to a strip club with the intentions of getting laid, but I guarantee you, if I wanted to, I could pull a woman from a SC at least half the times I tried and do so by spending "hundreds" of dollars, not thousands.
I will agree hookers are the way to go in terms of "value received" and a certain guarantee of "quality of service" via the TER reviews, but Strip Clubs don't have to be a bottomless money pit once you learn some of the basic rules.
when you take your wife......had the BEST time of my life when me and my wife went in vegas a few years ago. lets just say she now LOVES playing with the ladies!!!!
what do you guys think?
Gotta' give props there.
If you have the opportunity to go with a wife, girlfriend, hell, even a few cute girls from the office (which I've had the pleasure of), it can be 100% hot.
Under any other circumstances, the economics of it just don't work out in your favor.
in DC, you cannot get lapdances so you're pretty much paying to watch them dance while drinking overpriced food/drink. In Pittsburgh, I went to a strip club because one of my favorite porn stars was there. That was fun. I ended up getting a DVD from her but a lap dance from here was $150. I'd rather put that towards a provider than a 4 minute dance
Started going to strip clubs and like most of the hobbiest on this thread, moved on to more exciting venue.
Better bang (pun intended) for the bucks.
yeah I agree it's probably where most of us started. Definitely is the case for me.
That's it! Strip clubs are like a gateway drug. Somebody should ban them LOL
Better bang (pun intended) for the bucks.
Nice because you can spend an affordable evening with a variety of beautiful women. Multiple hour dates with an escort just aren't worth it for a guy my age.
I love Vega topless clubs that specialize in big implants and high mileage laps dances. In one night, I can spend hours in the club get dances with hands on half a dozen babes or more. And go into the VIP, for two different HJs. About what I'd spend for two hours with a fav escort, but a different kind of erotic experience.
Variety is the spice of life.
-JustMyPOV
The problem is that you have to have a fairly constant stream of money flowing for the girls to stick around..I have had a good evening when a girl tells me that a lap dance is $20.. I give her $20 and ask her to sit with me for awhile.. take a break and forget the dance.. They like that.. but after a while. They say something like.. I gotta go .. I'll be right back.. then you never see them again.. When I go to Myrtle Beach golfing I am there for a week.. One set of my buddies comes in on a Thursday while the other set leaves on Tuesday.. so I am there by myself. Both groups of guys think that going to a club is kind of cheesy (as one of them called it..??) so when I am on my own, rather than sit in the Condo by myself... I go to the club about 5 PM and stay until closing.. That costs some dollars.. too many of them.. I have thought how great some of my trips would have been if I had simply set up a few hours with a provider.. at my condo..
I tell you, the strip clubs never did anything for me. Even when I was a college boy, I never liked that scene: Vulgar, sleazy, and depressing. The next time you're in one of those places, just look around you: you're with the burnouts, the pervs, the hustlers & dealers. The main attraction = cheap tattooed strippers, most of them I wouldn't fuck for free. But I live in Cow Country, perhaps the strip clubs in bigger markets are nicer.
Over on the Legal Corner, just_a_john recently posted an excellent article from NYMag: "The Hustlers at Scores". An upscale Manhattan strip club was running a huge scam, where strippers were spiking the drinks of wealthy customers, then maxing out their credit cards. I googled the photos of some of these strippers. They're not much different, really from the strippers in Cow Country--vulgar, sleazy vampires. I just don't see the attraction, dudes. --z
However, I might have to go back after a session with my ATF and try that little trick a few of you were talking about.
The last time I was in strip club was a few years ago. I had an appt with my ATF that evening & took off work early. I had an hour to kill & was looking for something to do. I drive past a strip club--a friend had said this place was the nicest SC in the metro.
I walk in & immediately regret it. I'm wearing a suit (sans tie), and way overdressed for this place. Crazy Eyes stands by the door, not sure if he's an enforcer/bouncer or simply a burnout. A stripper is on stage, a 7/10 & too heavy for a g-string, dancing to Led Zep's "Whole Lotta Love". Jesus, their music is only four decades behind. It's a big stage & roomy inside, but smells of beer & piss. Most of the men are sitting near the stage, looking lonely & desperate. I order a beer at the bar, my back to the stage.
I'm immediately double-teamed by two strippers, one on either side of me. If you check the NYMag piece "The Hustlers of Scores", this is a common practice. From the article: "it’s actually better for strippers to work together, because while most men might be able keep their wits, and their wallets, around one scantily clad, sweet-smelling sylph, they tend to lose their grip around three or four."
The blonde on my left is a skank, but the brunette on my right is rather cute with a firm bod. She smiles--she's still wearing braces (omg). I wonder how old she is.
Blonde Skank: You wanna go upstairs with us?
Z: What's upstairs.
Blonde Skank: (rubs my leg) You can have fun with both of us upstairs.
I take a pull on my beer & glance over at Crazy Eyes. His wild stare is fixed on us. The play is already in motion, and I'm on the wrong end of it.
Z: I think I'll stay here & watch the show.
I finish half my beer, tip the bartender & leave. Since I was seeing my ATF within the hour, I wasn't all torqued up about getting some pussy from a stripper. But I can see where dudes can get really fucked up in there. --z