When I think of providers and the hobby, I think of fun and relaxing.  My question; sometimes you might get offered a drink or something similar.  Have you ever asked your provider if she has (yes, I am asking) weed?  I actually thought about it with a provider.  I know it is stereotyping, but?  Not to say, that I do this at all; but it did occur to me.

I had a sweetheart send me on my way with a joint she rolled while I recovered from the hours of play. A goodbye gift.

I had another nice Lady show me several little bags of hash, but she didn't push the issue and I wasn't interested. It was obvious that the offer was on the table, but it was casually done. I didn't even realize she'd been fishing until the next day.

YMMV. The possibility is certainly real that you'd find a double hook up. Of course, asking ahead of time is just as much poor taste as asking about specific services, and TER doesn't offer a field for that category, LOL.

I used an alias to protect the ladies I've reviewed. It seems prudent. I don't want any guessing and finger pointing.

Unless you both know each other real well,I wouldn't recommend it.More than a few providers that I know will pull the plug on a session the minute anything like that is mentioned.

over the last 30+ years, not once has anyone offered an asprin let alone an illegal drug.

I think the reason is obvious and for this I am very glad.

Maybe a glass of wine offered about a dozen times or so.

Why would it be any different with a provider than anyone else?  If what you're suggesting is that providers are more likely to use or have drugs than the general population, yes, you're stereotyping, so don't do it.

Once I've gotten to know certain providers, the subject has come up.  But that's been no different from the situation with co-workers, former classmates at reunions and people I've traveled with.

Providers are people, so handle this type of thing the same way you would with any other person. Once you get comfortable with eachother, you can always lob it out there and see what she says.

Also...if you've got doobies on your mind, why should she be providing them for you? Bring your own ya cheapskate!

Bringing your own is not necessarily a wise idea. If a gentleman were to pull out a joint while I am with him, the date would regretfully end then and there. I don't use any type of illegal drugs, and do not allow that sort of thing around me at all.

I'm no prude, and I have no problem if a gentleman wants to bring some beer or wine or whatever his preference is along with him as long as he doesn't drink to the point of being drunk, and he understands that I myself do not drink at all, but drugs are off limits.

If you know the lady in question, and are both of a like mind about such things, then by all means, enjoy yourselves. I highly recommend talking to her about it before you ever show up with anything on you though.

What type of providers would you proposition with this offer.  An offer like this would normally come from a younger clientele.  The same reason I tend to shy away from them.