She still owed 8k. She showed me her account, she was paying 3.5k in "rent" and another 2-3k each month against her debt. Looked like she would be free and clear in a few months. She expressed that she wanted to return home but didn't consider herself as being taken advantage of because "[she] earned the debt".
Given the facts I know, perhaps she was working a con.Thanks for the alternative viewpoint, I'm planning on avoiding the agency in the future.
Saw a provider, girl looked unhappy so I talked to her. She was being extorted. Standard, you owe us money and have to pay your rent and some insane interest rate on the debt. She didn't want help or was afraid to tell me if she did.
What should I do?
Tell the girl that you can't help her if she doesn't talk to you about whatever is troubling her!!
What should I do?
How much she owes and then pay off her debt. I'm sure she will suggest a way to repay your kindness. On the other hand, she might be trying to scam you. I once had a girl tell me her booker was taking a huge cut of her earnings because she had borrowed money from him. I told her I would make him an offer for a lump sum payment for a lesser amount, and then she would only owe me the lesser amount. She begged me not to speak to him and I soon realized that she had just made it up thinking I might hand the money over to her.
...because she was afraid of the repercussions if you mentioned it to the booker. What if she was telling the truth? What if the OP's girl is telling the truth?
Or at least they all start off that way.
I am not going to go into details, but does anyone really think a FOB who can't even speak English who is coming here to suck dick to make a better life for herself is going to have the means to not only get herself here, but set herself up, place ads, do screening etc etc etc.???
The problem with playing Capt Save a Ho, is that it's tough, almost impossible in many cases to tell who is being extorted, pimped, trafficked, and who is simply running a game, trying to get her clients to feel guilty and tip her more
Not sure about the basic claim that ALL K-girls owe (and clearly this wasn't about K-girls specifically) so I'd go with the report it to TER.
It's a binary situation: she's telling the truth and does need some help or she is lying. We don't really want either here.
Note, it's one thing to have complete knowledge of the costs going in so if the girl borrowed money for a boob job or to get into the USA or whatever and knew what the interest was beforehand as well as how she was planning on paying it off that's not really exploitation -- but then she probably isn't trying the sympathy game.
and just as importantly, just what the fuck do you expect TER to do with the info?
Let's face it, NONE of us have a clue as to whether or not even the OP is telling the complete truth, much less if the girl in question was telling him the truth. AND people whine all the time about money they owe, as if the lender is responsible for the borrower being in debt. Doubt me? Just ask anyone with tens of thousands in credit card debt. They play the "sympathy game" all the time. Do you really think some hooker in debt is going to be above this type of thing?
She still owed 8k. She showed me her account, she was paying 3.5k in "rent" and another 2-3k each month against her debt. Looked like she would be free and clear in a few months. She expressed that she wanted to return home but didn't consider herself as being taken advantage of because "[she] earned the debt".
Given the facts I know, perhaps she was working a con.
Thanks for the alternative viewpoint, I'm planning on avoiding the agency in the future.
and it doesn't sound at all like she is being extorted. This is however a conversation that should NEVER come up between hooker and john unless you have moved beyond a hooker/john relationship.
Being a hooker is not for everyone, some of the Asian girls that come here to work are quite unhappy and return home just as soon as they possibly can. Others love it here and do everything in their power to stay here. From what you have said, she "leans" towards the former, but is most certainly not being extorted.
The reason that she should have kept her mouth shut is that quite frankly it's none of your business and you airing her dirty laundry here is the EXACT reason most smart hookers/kgirls keep their mouths shuts regarding their personal business. The world has no need to know the inner workings of how hookers conduct their personal business and you were wrong to have brought it here for all to see and misunderstand
Have you ever noticed some chicks are plain crazy.
I remember a young woman from my early twenties, she told me her boyfriend and his friend raped her. I'm thinking, what does this have to do with me.
I felt like telling her to get off the drugs, and go home and raise your babby, then worry about your BF.
If I had a dollar for every sob story, that a chick I picked up told me I'd be broke.
Guess what bitch, I don't care.
What should I do?
It is her time to Learn.
Something will give.
What should I do?
Can never go wrong with minding your own.
Getting involved with the situation you described is not likely to help you in any way, and may boomerang back in an adverse way. Best to move on, ASAP.
What should I do?
no good can come from you trying to be a hero ZERO GOOD keep it movin'
and just who is he supposed to report it to? LE? Great, get the poor girl tossed in jail. TER? what are they going to do about it?
Just what is he supposed to do after donning his Capt save a Ho mask and cape?
may have erection toward to sex slave.
It is one story to have this game played- as a fantasy.
And other way take an advantage of those who are already used by pimps who ever are those people are ..
I wonder how it feels to fuck true sex slave who is trafficked from other country , do not have means to provide for herself, do not have legal status, depends on pimps and seeing near dozen man per day?
may be someone would share with us here how good sex is and how passion and wild is his fantasies in such environment and how steamy is his orgasm?
That would be some interesting reading and pick in to psychology...what psychopath"s pleasures are ..
Please gentlemen, stay away from participating in such activities - you any way would not fix world problems with your kindness - all what we may do - that is to be kind to ourselves and in that meaning improve world, if everybody would treat yourself to the his her best - then it would not not a earth but heaven already.
then that law would pass and on those poor girls.
What to say .. as much as I know that is of life does exists - I do not believe I be able to help to everybody who is in desperate need of the help
Take a look around - what is happening with world ...
My heart is broken