BONSOIR!

I wanted to share my story with you so you get to know me and where I came from...

A lot of people have a negative view on what we do, a lot think we are from the streets, drogees or desperate...no we are normal, lots of us are educated and smart!

I didnt find this job, the job found me...and this is how everything began:
A couple of years ago, I was, just like 99.9% of the population working my 9 to 5 job.
I was a personal banker, serious, polished, polite...transparent. As some of you know, I am french and the only thing I had was my accent, I felt inexistant...

I had however a little secret garden, I LOVED being half naked and being looked at.
I was on the top of the world when I danced on stage and having the all crowd looking at you...I felt a sensation I never had on my every day life: POWER, when every single guys want to have a piece of you it's very empowering...I felt beautyful.
I became very addicted to the night life because that was the oonly time I felt alive.

One day I found a lingerie party on the internet, so I put on my lace and went...
I was really inocent and naive at the time, I didnt even realised I was at a swinger party social event (LMAO).
I didnt even get why every single couple in the party was all over me...
finally I meet a SUPER good looking woman, her name was Nikki, I couldnt stop staring at her, then she introduce me to her husband, a cutie too, we stayed the all time together and decided to go back home with them...
I had a couple of menage a trois before than one, but BOY let me tell you, it was HOT HOT HOTwe fucked all night, she introduce me to the strap on, It was so damn hot.
It really was the best, most sexual time I ever had in my life...
We had so much fun we didnt even realised that the sun was up, at 10 am I was ready to leave and she hand me an enveloppe...so I look inside thinking it was a thank you card...NO, it was 2000$
Well you belive me or not, I got so mad, I asked them right away what make them think I wanted to get paid for that good time...well, they figured that I was THE ONLY single girl at a swinger club HAD to be a working girl...I laught at myself, I was so clueless at that time that I didnt even realised that I was at a wsinger party!
So, a little lantern lite up in my head, and I understood sudenly how to play the game, I had a good time AND I got paid for it???
That was the beginning of it all...
I started going to those swinger parties and specialized in couples...
next thing you know I became a sex therapist, I would repair marriage who's going to shit, I still have couple today thanking me to have save their marriage.
I have a woman who had me explain to his husband how to lick her right...
I very quickly loved that job, it made me feel like I was doing something right, I was spreading happiness.
One day I emailed the ranch and here I was working full time as a working girl, I figured that if I loved sex that much I was better off just dedicating my life to it.
So ever since that crazy menage a trois, I learn the art of sex, man psychologies, the art of mating.
I'm so fascinated by it all, I would need two life to experiment everything I want to.
All I know is I genuinely love my job and I have only ONE regret...not to have done it earlier...
THE END

what about you girls?
What's your story??? go ahead and share!

On more than one occasion I've referred to companionship business as "subsidized dating".

I get to be with someone for predetermined amount of time with very well defined boundaries.

Expectations are clear on both sides, no need to head games, heartbreak and dishonesty.

Of course, such lifestyle has its drawbacks.  There are certain benefits to "open-end" relationships vs "defined" ones, but this is a choice I had made.

made!

i continue to hope for more of this kind of post here.

I am always thinking of more fun and humorous ways to say "escort". That one is great!

was when I was only 19 yrs. old.  I had always been pretty open and free about sex, so when a good friend told me that she really didn't work as a waitress at Ol' English Pub (which I questioned when she was going to work one night dressed in a see-through top and very tight jeans!), but at a massage parlor, I was open to trying it myself....hell, I tried just about everything once back then-I'm lucky to be alive today.

Anyway, my stint at being a massage parlor gal lasted one summer.  I was young, and my head wasn't on straight enough to be 'OK' with the whole lifestyle back then...too many outside opinions influencing my perspective on things.  

However, while I was working there, I took a liking to touching bodies, and took a massage course (I figured that I may as well learn some good techniques as long as my clients were lying on the table for some of the time, and it suit my style very well.  I found that I have a natural talent and love of massage and it works well to incorporate these skills in my sessions).

The second time I entered this business was by accident.  I was working as a massage therapist on a client who kept bugging me to have sex with him.  I guess he thought I was hot, and he was horny as hell (I did the massage out of my town home, and we were having a glass of wine after a massage one evening)...
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He had no idea that I had worked in the business many years ago and knew what was going on.  I just said "I'm not doing that, so just forget it.....unless you give me more money"!  He answered quickly, "How much??" I gave him a modest fee amount, and off to the races I was!  

I had no clue about how things were done on the internet with ads and such, but he was educated and he showed me how to get started.  At first, I was a bit apprehensive about the thought of having strangers come into my home, and wondered if he was willing to sit out in my driveway all day for protection...he wasn't.

It took me 5 months to finally decide to put an ad out and go for it.  I now have a few years under my belt, and, although the lifestyle is difficult at times (leading a somewhat double life), I really do love my work.  I meet great people, have a platform to practice my various talents on (erotica, massage, singing, dancing, and whatever my client will put up with), and the connections that I've made over the years are oftentimes pretty deep.  Literally speaking!  

No, in all earnestness, it's a good life, for sure.  The only difficult part is having to hide who I am, what I'm really about with most of the general public, and dating.  Now, THAT'S another story, enough to start another thread, which I won't do right now.

Let's just say that I have no SO and wouldn't mind it if I did, but who's going to be able to deal with the work....really?  

So, here's to the hobby...Cheers!

Alantra
And, that was the start of my second bout in this career.

Dear Bonsoir:
I was wondering what are the key things that you had to considered when making a career transition and also what did you have to entertain? Also would this be a permanent transition or would this be temporary?

FASCINATING!  Loved the two detailed stories. Thank you ladies.

I am always intrigued by this subject & would love to hear from other ladies too. How did you get started in this business?   Do you enjoy your work?  Do you regret the choice?  What are your hopes ( & plans ) for the near future?  etc etc.
Please share, even if yours is not such an upbeat story.  You can always use an alias.  Thanks.

btw, Allantra, you are beautiful!