Probably most of us have gone to a session either with a favorite provider or a new one, excited to have a great time.  We knock on the door and there is the lovely looking every bit as delicious as we were expecting.  Things get rolling, clothes are discarded and hands and mouths are engaged in their favorite activities.  Only for some reason the little guy is at half mast and doesn’t seem to be ready to get into the game.  It’s certainly happened to me.  On three separate occasions over the past 5 years it’s happened and each time my companion resorted to 1) pharmacological treatment, 2) psychological treatment or 3) physical treatment.  All three times it worked and we were both happy campers.  What techniques have your providers employed on you?  Did it work?  Might be useful to share with everyone as sooner or later it happens to us all.

In my case:
1st time: psychological treatment by a provider I had met for the first time.  She was young and slender and hot.  Nothing wrong with her.  There I was, half mast as she was patiently stroking me, and getting nowhere.  She had that girl next door, very innocent look about her.  She noticed I wasn’t responding to her efforts and started kissing me and sticking her tongue in my ear. Next thing she starts whispering in my ear all the things she was going to do to me and that she wanted me to do to her.  She was absolutely filthy.  Boy did that work.  Liftoff achieved.

2nd time:  pharmacological treatment.  Same basic deal. I couldn’t get past half mast.  This was with a provider I know well. Had never had this happen before.  She suggests a tab of Vitamin V.  Had some in her handbag.  I had never tried it before.  But we had several hours together so I took some, did a lot of dfk and wow oh wow it worked like a charm!  

3rd time:  physical treatment by a provider  Same deal as before. This time I’m banging away at a new provider. She’s a total hottie and into our session. So am I and I am at full mast and her pussy is just perfect.  No complaints.  But I’m trying to empty into the bag but can’t cum no matter ho hard I pump.  I say to my companion that I’m sorry but I don’t think it’s going to happen.  She says “baby, just leave it to me”. Next thing I feel a lubed finger slide into my ass.  She knew what she was doing.  I erupted with the longest and hardest orgasm I have ever had.  I gave her a huge tip.  Mission Accomplished.  

So guys, and ladies too, what’s your story and remedy. We would all love to hear!

On top of that, I had a gal rub her large erect nipple against the tip of my cock and that triggered me pretty well.

One time, I had no other choice than to try and joke my way out of it.
I was completely and utterly embarrassed because even though she was sexy as hell and was doing her part of the job just right, I suddenly and inexplicably lost wood just as we were finishing foreplay. It wasn't my 1st time with her, so she knew my skills from at least 5 previous sessions.
First, I told her I needed a little break of a minute or two. Once that time passed, still no groundhog poking its head out, so she took things into her own hands, but still nothing. I joined my hands with hers, even I couldn't get the motor started.
She added her mouth to the mix, it felt great but produced zero lumber.
I told her I had been putting in a lot of hours at work, not getting enough sleep, almost anything I could think of as an excuse.
My shame multiplied with each passing minute and with each thing we tried. In the end, I told her that Junior must have been shy, he was a bad boy, and that I would have to punish him later. I pretended to be comically angry with him, but deep down inside, I was burning with red-faced chagrin. She laughed dutifully, that's all.
After 15 to 20 more minutes of her trying every trick she knew, I couldn't take it anymore being impotent in front of such a sexy woman. I cut my losses, aborted the mission completely, hit the showers and paid her the full donation as I left with my limp tail between my legs. No resolution whatsoever.

I saw her several times after that, and all systems worked as expected. Like a trooper and a professional, she never uttered one word about my equipment failure.

Great gal you had there. I've had a similar experience and was lucky enough to also be with a great gal.  Subsequent meetings hard and not a mention a problem before.  

I’ve had the same prob that plagues most of us if the tool doesn’t get used as soon as it’s right to be used, or deflating once the cover goes on, and jedi mind tricking my boner away.  While my lifestyle change of eating very low carb and intermittent fasting has helped quite a bit, it still happens to me on occasion.

Thankfully, I discovered the move that works for
me every single time thanks to my local ATF.  I’m big on getting mouth hugs on my balls, and have been told that they’ve been trained to handle quite a bit more than most. Well, if I can get a provider to stay on balls before starting the BJ until I’m totally hard (which can take a good 5 minutes if the skills aren’t quite there), I’ll stay hard without issues.

No clue if this will help anyone, but it works for me.  I haven’t tried the pharmacological route yet, but may well need to one day.  I think I would get my hormones right before I just assume that I need boner pills though.

A warm boob rubbing against my thigh during BBBJ hits the spot.