I'm sure this has been addressed before, but I'm too lazy this morning to search.

I would flip the fuck out.  

You will find that with women who already have videos on the net.
Usually for an up charge..
I've met one woman who does it..
I guess it would be cool to have a video of myself and a hot babe before I get old and fat.
Just never bothered.

For example it is very common in porn star p4p compared to non porn stars gals. And many non porn girls will do it for more $.  

ALSO said IF the lady allowed it. Its not a big deal if the lady is OK with it. I am not myself but some ladies are
Hugs and kisses
TL

I don't. But several times I have found hidden video cameras in his hotel room. They are very small. Some of them the size of your thumb. Not a good way to start a date

I never took any of them up on the offer. I have with permission taken cell shots. It isn't rare, but most do not allow it for obvious reasons. If you get the OK before the lady gets there it is cool. If a client does not get said permission then it is very not OK and reason for black listing. The trick is to ask before and many but not most will say yes. Most will charge more for the video shoot.

My sample size is small but 1 lady ask me to make several videos of our sessions. She had some porn videos done a few years ago and wanted some recent stuff. I have also taken photos of 3 other ladies when we "in session" and also with their permission. When one retired she ask me to destroy them and I did. I have never shown them to anyone without the permission of the star provider.

I'm not interested in doing it, or at least not enough to pay or to see providers I otherwise wouldn't see. I just thought it was unusual.

Some guy has a video of you having sex with him. You have no idea where he is, or of knowing if he deletes the videos.

I do not have a large enough sample size to offer a statistic.   Personal experience - Some will; Some won't.  None seem to be shocked by the request even if it's refused.  In this line of work, I expect this is probably pretty low on the perv. meter.

No shortage of uploads of amateur porn.

How does that work then?

Hey, you allowed pictures in session, but I knew you were shy, so I just took pictures of us eating Spaghetti together. I hope it's ok if I post that on pornhub

We allow it for a price.. LOL

I guess that no one is going to pay you for that great video either.  A shame.

And I've been asked for some silly shit.

So if some dude asks...why not just say NO?

Yeah, the name of the video is going to be "French Martini". What do you think?

Well, ok. I guess if you're already on videos it wouldn't be a problem lol. Scratch that.

I eat hot, steamy and schweddy balls.

But the silly shit sometimes is the funniest shit you know like dressing up like a Keebler elf. JK

I guess the hooker wasn't all that thrilled with him.  Seems she called her pal to frisk him before the session?

Posted By: Corythehuman

But the silly shit sometimes is the funniest shit you know like dressing up like a Keebler elf. JK

I never said I'd "take it personally." There's a difference between being offended by something and taking it as a personal insult. For example, I find white supremacy highly offensive, but I'm white so I clearly don't take it personally.  

Some providers make it very clear on their web sites that certain things are just not on the table - Greek, for example or for that matter, video.  If you advertise yourself as a GFE only provider - I am not going to ask to video you. I pride myself on taking stuff like that seriously and NOT asking.  I am not interested in screwing up a session that I have paid for.

And video his lower colon the dumbass. You don;t just whip out a fucking camera and say how bout it toots?

Dammit man!

He means that if you release that on the internet it will show up under a million other hits on porn sites with them doing sex acts.  The only one to lose there is you.

Ok, so say I have a midget, a camel, a sounding rod, an avocado and some silly putty in the room when you walk in.........

A porn star with hundred of videos of her fucking and sucking already plastered all over the internet would be one of those people. Someone like me who is happily divorced, no kids, no boss, and no cares about who knows that I fuck hookers is another example of someone who is "Blackmail Proof"

A guy fooling around on his wife, or a young woman doing this to pay her way through law school are two examples of people who are NOT blackmail proof.

It's not where the video ends up that matters, it's whether or not the parties involved give a fuck that counts.

The midget and the camel have to be screened too.  

Well I was going to go with kumquat but there was WAYYYY to much room for interpretation error there!

The midget I understand but the camel?

Thank you for asking

Seems that you're caving in to some wishes to show your face.

God, you look gorgeous like that! You should get a picture of you like that.   (I used to be a professional photographer)  Both providers have said to go ahead, but no face.  I had them set up their own phone/camera to take the pic and then shot the pic for them and gave them back their phone/camera so they could see the result.  They asked me if I wanted a copy, told them no, I didn't want there to be any possibility of the picture getting out on my account, but they might want to use it to advertise, etc.  Both providers seemed to appreciate that and I've seen both pictures (cropped a bit more) in their ads.

Yet another potential downside of outcalls.

It's not blatant stupidity, because there are plenty of quality girls who do it and enjoy it.  Not everybody's programmed like you.  So, to call a simple question about whether or not you'd do it highly offensive and blatant stupidity is....well....stupid.  

Haven't you yet learned that making that broad sweeping statement is simply an opening to ridicule?

There are photos with her mouth covered and eyes exposed, and photos of eyes hidden and mouth exposed. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to put those together and know exactly what she looks like. Not too discreet anymore.

I can see being offended by someone taking pictures, but being offended by someone asking if he can take pictures is pretty silly. Just say no.

Which totally invalidates her earlier posts.

Posted By: perfectstorm

There are photos with her mouth covered and eyes exposed, and photos of eyes hidden and mouth exposed. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to put those together and know exactly what she looks like. Not too discreet anymore.

Don't know how you made it this far on a p4p fk board where tons of stupidity abounds.  

And I found it very odd that she, of all people, would post photos like that, after all her posts about discretion.

But it is a lesson for all the gals here. CPA is right. The internet lasts forever. Nobody wants this shit biting them in the azz when they want to leave this world behind.

There's a big difference between photos showing a partial face and a video that depicts not only a face, but mannerisms, voice, identifying markings, etc.  

Posted By: perfectstorm

There are photos with her mouth covered and eyes exposed, and photos of eyes hidden and mouth exposed. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to put those together and know exactly what she looks like. Not too discreet anymore.

I don't trust camels. Bad experiences.  

If all you had was a partial face shot, that would be one thing, but you have MULTI partials, that when spliced together by today's software, can show your WHOLE face.

Welcome to humanity. As I said b4, I bust balls here with the best of them, but I do take the security thing seriously with the girls.  

Agreed. There are plenty of providers who'd allow that, some would even encourage you to do so

Tobi has some partial face shots. I just looked at them. Very nice BTW...beautiful.  

I also have no argument about you not wanting anyone to videotape you. I do have a problem with you being offended at someone asking the simple question. Since many ladies do allow it, how would someone know if it's okay without asking? Now if you had it on your website, "Absolutely no pics/videos!" and soneone asked, then that would be offensive. If someone showed up with their equipment without asking, that would be highly offensive. However, I don't see how asking a "Do you allow" question in and of itself as offensive. For the record, I have never videotaped a session and have no plans to ever do so, but apparently some guys are into that and some ladies are fine with it. I have taken some photos of some providers though (with their permission of course) and some of them actually ended up on their websites.

Who here has said that a few partials is the EQUIVALENT of a full video??? I said it is a security breach for her since she is essentially showing her full face, with the software available.

Why would you "have a problem" with what does or doesn't offend me? Now THAT is silly.  

Tobi's insistence on photoshopping her pictures to hide the tattoos.  

I don't have a tattoo of a red rose, first of all.  

I'm an easily offended kinda bitch, and I have no problem admitting it.  

Posted By: JackDunphy

Don't know how you made it this far on a p4p fk board where tons of stupidity abounds.  
   
 Annoyed at those requests for taping...ok. Peeved maybe? Sure. Irked a bit? Down with the cause.  
   
 But offended? And "highly" so?  
   
 Yeah, I'm gonna call bullshit on that Tobi. Major league bullshit.

I would think it would be more like halfway between despise and outright contempt, but I am just speculating.

I am sure she is thrilled that you have taken time out of your busy day to WK for her. I see you didn't spend your "time out" finding a clue.

Oh well, every board needs it's piñata, welcome back.

However there is no lack of support behind the scenes from so many of the gals that corroborate your post.

The point I made initially was nothing more than questioning why a request to video was "highly offensive".  Tobi retorted as follows:

It's much more effective when you add the "angry old bald fat man"....really brings out the character in a reply  

TTT truly is TSTTTTT.

Many, many women brush out their tats. It's one thing to say "hey that Tobi sure looks a lot like Mary Smith" it's quite another to say. "Those tats are identical to Mary Smith, I KNOW for a fact that hooker is Mary"

Just remember Tobi, you are arguing with a stupid piece of wood, do you really expect him to get your point?

As for your little "debate" with the rest of my fellow "class clowns" you are a big girl and can take care of yourself, I have no intentions of joining that little "debate" you are having.

I think maybe I wanted to see just how many "T's" I could use in a single sentence and still make any sense. lmao

As have I and a number of others on her position she clearly stated that you obviously missed (again).

You could be recorded at any time and not know it. In particular doing an out call to someone's personal residence. For $50 bucks you can get full HD pen sized camera. If someone wants to spend some more money you can get tiny ones. They set it up before hand and record the entire visit.

Yeah man, I got bored with it a few hours ago. As for TTT, he's not only TSTTT, but TDTF. I just figured I'd give it the ol' college try.  

I mean afterall, I have given TurdBoy a dozen "second chances" to prove he's learned anything since he first came here.

What's ironic is that BSC Taylor, actually seemed to be getting her act together before her latest hiatus, if she comes back acting like she did when she last left, I may have to drop the "BSC" from her name. lol

You are a chip off the ole block!

...simply being asked would not be deemed offensive. Suggesting making a video of a session might be different. "I'm offended that you would even ask," would be a response that might be expected, for all the reasons already mentioned above. Security at the top of the list.

...that there is no need to ask permission? Or are you saying that because it would be easy to get the video without asking, that BEING ASKED beforehand ought to regarded as considerate?

Just more of a consideration regarding those concerned with privacy. Technology exists that allows someone with bad intent to video, without the other person knowing.  

If a provider asked ME if she could tape so she could gaze at my physique whenever she wanted and relive our wonderful time together - sure I'd say no, but FAR from being offended, I'd actually be quite understanding of her desire, realizing that she couldn't be with me all the time and that this might in some way lessen the anxiety caused by her perpetual state of arousal from thinking about me.

Why not? Never mind..

And, I haven't been in long. Two requests were from gents I trust, so I allowed it. It wasn't video of our session though and neither video showed my face. One was me wiggling my buttcheeks and the other was of my boobs bouncing. Both short clips. I don't really think it's a big deal if it's something like that with one of my fav guys. I would never allow a full filming of our session though.

Never met her but I understand she has more than a small rose tattoo. I have a very distinctive tattoo that would immediately blow my cover should ANYBODY that knows me and/or has seen it would know exactly who the hell I am.  

That is why I have guys come to me, and leave any bags outside the bedroom, clothing is randomly placed and I make sure I drape my shit over his shit to obscure ANYTHING.