This confuses me just a little. I understand that we all have fantasies, and can see if someone prefers a lady to be dominant or submissive, but that's not really role playing. I'm talking about dressing up to the point of being someone that she's not. When I see a lady who I am attracted to, and decide to contact her, it's because I am attracted to HER, not because I think she'd look great as a nurse or a schoolgirl, or something else that she isn't.

Am I missing something here?

Re: not my cup o tea ...wood you rather............

a cup of coffee or two.  


Thank you
XLIII = 4

It would really suck if I got all the way to Worcester, and someone else answered the door. I'm easily confused.

It can be really hard to understand someone else's tastes and desires, particularly when it comes to sex.  People get off on varying degrees of pain, humiliation, sex with members of their own gender, sex with pre operative transsexuals, sex with women dressed as someone else.  I had an affair with a lady who had a fantasy about beng raped by a Cossack and went wild when I showed up in a Cossack outfit, carrying a whip, and yelling in a Russian accent. None of these is shocking to most of us even if it's not our own cup of tea. (I exclude rape, children and other things not limited to willing adult human beings.  Those are just too hard to be able to swallow.) I have experimented a lot and never judge someone else's fantasies. I love to DATY and am having a torrid affair with a lovely Jamaican lady.  Someone not on this site wrote that having a black lady sit on my face was "too gross" and even the thought made him "sick".  I am having the time of my life. Oh well.

Often the point isn't to become someone else entirely, but to add a layer of playfulness or kink to what would otherwise be a typical GFE.

I have a number of clients who find their imagination to be a powerful erogenous tool. While coming to my incall and spending an hour or two in traditional activities is delightful, there's a definitely a frisson of excitement delivered by their seductive Tabu in the guise of a demanding female boss, a naughty next-door neighbor, or a classic Mrs. Robinson.

Since I find it extremely titillating to know that I'm exciting my partner, I relish those moments when I've delivered an especially potent comment or action... and felt an immediate reaction in my fellow's very stiff cock.

Try it sometime, Hungry-- you might find it more interesting than you imagined!

Tabu of Hollywood, FL

I love to role-play, but it can be somewhat straining at times. I really get into the part, but the type I suggest to my clients requires a complete change in my personality, a different accent and a scenario already set up by me and the client/friend beforehand. The client actually plays his role, too. Often, I take charge and direct him down the right path (so to speak). The last two I did, I played a Pakistani woman with a middle-eastern accent. He was an American spy sent to buy weapons from me, etc. I dressed the part in wraps and veils, even put the dot on my forward and darkened my eyes. Now that's role-playing.

Being a nurse is so boring and I don't have a costume for that, but if someone wanted to buy the costume for me then I'd play the part. Those cheesy little costumes cost a fortune and are made so poorly -- like a risque Halloween costume.

Hugs,
Ciara

While I love the role playing of submissive (anyone who knows me, knows that's an act, lol), I can't for the life of me do dress up.  I giggle too much.    I have a naughty girl scout outfit that I wore for Halloween last year.  (I was a real life GS leader at the time - thought I would take it over the edge)  I had mentioned to a client that I had the costume and he teasingly suggested that I wear it next time we meet.  Always one for a challenge, I met him last week, dressed in civie clothes.  After I excused myself to the bathroom, I changed into my "costume".  While he seemed to love it, I had a really hard time not laughing.  

Now this (prearranged) role play I could do:

I walk into a bar and sit down.  Great music is playing.  I see a man sitting at the other end near the stage.  We lock eyes.  I lick my lips and sensually take a sip of my drink. As he continues to stare, I feel myself getting wet.  I move to the dance floor, slowly pulsating to the music.  He walks up, puts his arms around me and begins to slow dance.  No words are spoken.  As the song ends, he takes my hand and leads me out of the bar into the hotel lobby.  We enter the empty elevator.  Neither of us talk.  We simply hold hands but look forward.  We exit the elevator, walk to his door.  He motions for me to enter the room.  The door closes. I am pushed against the wall, hands over my head as he kisses me deeply.  Clothes are ripped from our bodies.  The next hour is a blur of erotic sensations and moist, hot bodies.  As our time ends, I dress, give my anonymous lover a kiss and silently walk out the door, words never exchanged.


Kari~~


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He pretended he wasn't like Bush and REALLY

isn't going to do the job that Bush did because you see,, he cares about the little people. Oh Really???

give me the name and address of that bar.

Take it to the P & R board please

make it sound sexy and interesting, and I would probably love it. The demanding boss, or the neighbor might be just the thing.

I don't think I could do the schoolgirl thing, and I was married to a nurse for seventeen years, so that one is out the window.

I just never gave it a lot of thought, so I don't really know who my fantasy girl would be. I guess I'll have to think about it, and maybe ask for suggestions when I'm ready.

Yes, please, lets. Or we will have to get into a discussion about how things didn't go south until the Democrats got control of the house and senate 2 years ago.......

Re: not my cup o tea ...wood you rather............

lol yess plzzz but do not ask me to put on a gd waitress uniform and serve it to you lol

trust me if nothing else I am 100% Erin ALL DAY LONG

One of our sessions was prearranged.   I walked in and she was wearing a very sexy leather teddy with garters and stockings.  We said nothing at all to each other, even a hello.   She just grabbed me, and started kissing me, and removing my clothing like she had to do it.   Soon I was naked, and the teddy (with it's top open, and crotch unsnapped) was still on her, but out of the way for "fun".  

She and I said absolutely nothing until I finished.  

It was fun to have a completely silent session like that.   Kind of like two people who did not know each other having a great lay.

When we started talking, she mentioned that she did not even realize the outfit had a snap crotch, but of course did not want to ruin the mode.

So to me, playing is just as fun as the actual act.  Remember the biggest sexual organ is between the ears....

I know this example is truly bizarre but .... Here goes' I just had a session in witch my client asked a me to check out some fangs and white  out lenses for a vampire dress up role play. Would I try it. Now I’m sure you have seen the old vampire movies where the  woman is so seductively seduced by  that tall dark man and with just a bite she is in”  LOVE” lol Or the woman dressed in a sexy slinking black dress  luring her man with  looks to kill and just one kiss and he’s done. So when I checked the stuff out n line thinking this is nuts. My reply was Yeah I’ll do it. It was truly insane sensual fun one of the best sessions I have every had.