Hmmm, reviewing and raving about BBBJNQNS and Greek are discreet?
This site is called The Erotic Review, not the Discreet Review. Why not review the services that are provided?I just saw a traveling provider's post on my local discussion ad board, and she included several fetishes she provides, from GS to prostate play to strap-on and toys-for-him. I read several of her reviews and there was only one mention of the fetishes she provides, and that was more of an afterthought (reviewer had trouble getting erect so he tried prostate massage at that point).
Do reviewers avoid discussing fetish play in their reviews? Or are most reviewers just going for GFE and not using that part of the menu?
Provider thoughts appreciated as well as reviewers. How many of your appointments go for that part of your menu?
I can imagine many reviewers not wanting to reveal their own kinks. Hard to review the performance without incriminating yourself.
I like to do different things; there are times when I want a "standard GFE" and there are times I dabble with kink...
I have the perception that some providers read the reviews when you book. I don't want to get turned down as a kinkster who's going to "push" a GFE provider's boundaries. I don't push boundaries with a provider - it's like ordering sushi at a Mexican restaurant. If I want a California roll - there's a sushi place just down the street. In other words - if I want kink - I'll go to a provider that specializes in kink. There's lots around if you know where to look...
HOWEVER - there are apparently some morons who don't get that - and that messes up everything for everybody... so - I just avoid the issue entirely.
All that said - I have been told by some of my kinky girls (for what that's worth - LOL) that most of their appointments are pretty basic vanilla.
As a further issue - this is also the reason that some reviewers now advocate NOT using your TER ID in the screening process. I haven't gotten to that point - but there's a good reason why this post is under my alias...
That's an interesting, probably true, and unfortunate answer.
I understand everyone makes their own rules and choices, but a kink or a fetish should not define a person or be a reason a door is shut. Imagine a pizza place turning down your business because they saw you at a Chinese restaurant.
This makes it difficult when you want to do your homework and check for reviews.
For those of us that do our homework, we're going to a provider because we want what she is offering.
That it's about privacy and respect and as one of the other posters said they may not want to admit they are in to certain things or let others know that the provider is into certain things. May be a turn off for future clients or providers. I do kinky sessions a lot and my most recent review recounts that but in a very vanilla sort of way which I appreciate. Especially when it comes to being submissive and or kink sex or even your basic gfe really it's always ymmv so you wouldn't want the review to lead others to think you will go as far with one person as the next...it's all on basic chemistry and trust....
Hmmm, reviewing and raving about BBBJNQNS and Greek are discreet?
This site is called The Erotic Review, not the Discreet Review. Why not review the services that are provided?
Just as the others have indicated, much of what happens between two people is based upon chemistry, trust, and other variables. I love a sensual experience, so for most, I an extremely sensual GFE. I have other interests that I will explore, but only with partners who are both likewise interested and gain my trust.
When a reviewer fails to mention the "cover," ladies will get bombarded with requests for bbfs, so similarly, most respectful reviewers will leave out any details or fetishes that are clearly YMMV activities because other readers will feel *entitled* to those. There are a lot of activities that can be dangerous in inexperienced hands, so leaving those things out goes beyond discretion; omission is for safety.
Also, like some mentioned, reviewers might have interests that might be less socially acceptable or make them the butt of jokes. Those kind of things clearly aren't required for a review, so why ask for possible embarrassment by adding them in when they are not required
... I do quite a few Kink/PSE dates but most would not know that from my reviews.
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It's a shame things have to be that way.
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and,
OhMy,
What will the Neighbors think?
Yes, I was thinking that.
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