I have been providing FBSM for 16 years, and am wondering why so many target and ask for "more." Even fetish stuff!
When a provider provides a CMT, full-body massage, just for kicks guys, truly, she is NOT an escort. Thoughts?

you're posting on an escort website?  Lol

roughly 1/3 of FBSM providers have given extras ranging from kissing to prostate work to DATY to BBBJ to FS. this is regardless of what their ads and reviews state. In many of the cases, I didn't have to ask. It was offered, sometimes on the first meeting, sometimes after a few appointments.  Admittedly, there's usually a pretty clear vibe / connection. Contrary to CDL's experience that many also advertise as escorts, none of the providers I am referring to do so.

I said they advertise only the CMT service on their websites, but once they know you're not LE, many will offer a wider menu.  I think you're saying the same thing from your own experience.  Just wanted to be clear.  

it's just more economical for a client to seek a provider offering FBSM to cater to his fetishes, rather than an FS girl. Most FBSM girls are okay with reasonable requests and light fetishes, but it's all up to your personal comfort level.

...Even with the upcharges for "more," the guy figures it will still be less than the basic charge of an escort, and definitely less if the provider has surcharges for "more."  A guy thinks that a CMT who gives a HJ is "half a hooker" already, so she may go for "more" and won't be offended by a guy asking.

I enjoy a good massage, so if a massage only session stays that way, it isn't a total loss, but sometimes things do progress, if you are a nice guy and don't get pushy.

equating TER reviews for FS with posting ads as an escort, but point taken.

...and we're guys, it's what we do. We sometimes can't help ourselves. Once we're in the presence of a beautiful woman, the blood rushes out of our brain to the activate a certain part of our anatomy which insists on being taken care of.

I think I'm "getting it" now.

Yes, I suppose my menu is more on the "tiny sandwiches without the crust" side.

Yes, I suppose if you are getting "half a hooker" then you should not have to pay the "full-blown" hooker rates? Sheesh.

Do I want the half that fucks or the other half that sucks? lol

Maybe, instead of seeing a lady as a "thing or object," it might be better to view her as a whole person who also has feelings and a heart? Just a thought.

half a hooker huh... thats cute.

You know I couldn't agree with you more. I feel like I charge a standard half a hooker rate and deliver a great massage that everyone seems quite pleased with. I like to under promise and over deliver generally. Its really hard for me to answer when a guy emails me that  Ive never met and asks for more. I'd like to consider that "more" would be something that happens organically because of the chemistry and connection like in the story that you described. I like the comfort of long term "friendships" Every once in a while I get overcome by horniness. Im only human after all and think that I might want more but then check myself because I dont want a review to come out and everyone to expect this of me. I want my experiences to be authentic. I am comfortable with my half hooker status and my rates reflect that. But when a guy is cool and the chemistry is there sometimes I want more myself.... Just saying....

I don't think a man asking for FS means he doesn't view you as a human or a woman. You are providing a service.  

I use to work in a couple of spas in midtown east and Murray hill and only provided FBSM with a happy ending, nuru, or light fetishes. Personally I like to create more of fantasy when doing FS. So the spa/ massage room wasn’t ideal for me it also effect the market if you work in a spa and doing FS at a lower rate. Also in terms of pricing if you are not a CMT you have to be aware that pricing average body rub rate might not cut it. Especially after backpage crashed.

FBMS is a gateway drug - like how smoking cigarettes eventually leads to heroin

You may need to partner with a sexy  assistance to provide extra services.