In an area that is a densely populated area, but geared towards adults (mostly couples of all ages, no children to be seen anywhere). Think "Rush Street" in Chicago. Have had a couple providers say they don't like the area, and one saying she doesn't feel safe in the hotel. Its a very upscale hotel. So, I'm not sure what she means by 'safe'.

The only thing I can think of is she is a woman of color, and it is a very 'white' older blue blood crowd. A beautiful single woman of color would stand out. Heck, any single young unaccompanied woman would stand out, unless she was a 'niece' with her 'uncle'. There are doormen, and at night there is security because of the bar scene.

From a provider perspective, do you avoid these kinds of hotels and scenarios? Beautiful single woman walking alone through a hotel raising too much attention?

I'm just perplexed (and my credentials are excellent, so I don't think its a screening issue - this is my first time encountering this issue.

either through harassing gals or dropping a dime to LE directly.

 
Not too long ago I was visiting a gal at a downtown Boston hotel and we were having breakfast the next morning when a burly, elderly man who visage screamed "house dick" asked if he could join us.   With question marks floating over our heads we said sure, and he proceeded to be very charming but in no uncertain terms told us that we ought to take our business elsewhere.    This is something that my date and I have absolutely no trouble doing henceforth.

Maybe reach out to them and ask if they have preferred hotels when you’re back in town for a future visit? Ask what it was about that hotel that she didn’t feel good about?

Like post above, I’m figuring that it’s likely a hotel that actively discourages providers via security and guest policies.

but I only know one Provider who’s had a problem; the manager of a low-end motel banned her from renting rooms.  I guess she used it one to many times in a row (though as I said, it’s crumby, old /motel/; why would he even care - I wouldn’t cuz it’s steady income).

So I guess switching it up would be a good idea.

For me personally, I have no preference when it comes to hotels, motels or their relative quality.  I’m not a snob nor a germ-phode, so as long as it seems safe, I could give a crap.

That's a good idea. I'll reach out to her. She has really good reviews and is my type. So, disappointed we couldn't hook-up.

and complained to the management.  

Either that or LE got wind of things and told the management to clean up their act or face repurcussions.

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Another explanation is that the provider may have been ejected from the hotel previously (for whatever reason).  This would be my guess.

On occasion, I use a 4/5 star hotel in my city which is great (clean, private, first class, etc.).  Once, when I discussed arrangements / meeting place with a new friend, she quickly said she had a problem with the hotel.  She had read about the huge "head lice" problem there.  Huh?  I picked another spot, but I also did a quick web search about the lice problem at the first hotel.  Nothing to be found.  Obviously something was up with the first hotel that only the provider understood.

About a month ago I had an overnight with my ATF, a great gal that I see regularly in NJ. The date was in a large popular 5* hotel in an industrial area/corporate complex adjacent to many other 5* hotels. This was her choice and she is extremely cautious and security savvy, way more than I am  having no SO and owning my own biz. She`s very low profile especially checking in and leaving (No makeup, hair in a ponytail, casual slacks and flats etc.) Waits till in the room to get "Rigged-up," no-brainer there.

It`s 8 am the next morning and she`s back in her civvie  attire and down the lift we go to a WELL KNOWN coffee/breakfast boutique (Yeah, that one, you know the one I mean) located at the far end of the lobby. We get our coffees and danishes and sit down at a table with a perfect view of everyone that enters and leaves. We are the only couple seated there. We then become aware of an endless parade of attractive unaccompanied females filing in and out of this coffee shop all dressed very low keyed like my girl.
Doesn`t  take long for me to figure that most of these gals are ???  Yep, you guessed it. Now my lady begins to giggle and knee me under the table as we both eyeball this parade of "dressed down" babes, some of them gorgeous!  All ages, all ethnicities, blondes, brunettes etc. I`m amazed at the numbers of them as we both find this scenario very amusing. As each one walks by  with their coffee on their way to the parking lot exit door I turn to her and whisper in her ear "Yes, no, don`t know, whadda ya think?" If yes I get a knee, if no shakes her head and no response if it`s a don`t  know. We have all we can do to keep straight faces. (I know, I know, you had to be there, lol)
Walking to her car we`re falling all over each other laughing our asses off. I totally loved this (and love her too I`m afraid :/ lol

 We`re in there all of about 15 mins. and I`m thinking how many came thru before and how many will after? Very interesting but if you weren`t "Hobby smart" you wouldn`t know or be aware of it. Before I got in the hobby, I wouldn`t have guessed cause I wouldn`t have been looking for it. I truly believe very few civvies have any clue as to the magnitude of our industry. Not sure if that`s good or bad, hmm.
 I wonder how many times does this scenario play out in how many hotels across the USA? Can staff and security be totally blind to this? No fucking way!

Me thinks that management in many cases turns a blind eye here and probably welcomes the business to keep the Corp bigs happy. As long as we stay low key, not obvious, quiet and drama free etc. should be easy peasy.
My common sense (debatable) has me well dressed and groomed when entering the lobby with my cell phone in front of my face like some ditsy teen as I walk by the front desk on the way to the elevators. On two occasions I`ve had uniformed security guards eyeball me big time in front of the elevators. I just give them a cursory "fuck you rent a cop" glance and continue to make believe I`m reading a text that`s way more important than he is. I always bring a dozen roses for my ATF (I know GaGa frowns on this behavior lmao) and I conceal them in a fancy boutique shopping bag, which works every time. Fav girl knows to conceal them upon exiting hotel even if she`s leaving thru side doors. Exposed they are a BIG RED FLAG!

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 I just bet them on the money line. Laying $100 to win $178 as the line has dropped to 4.5
Please, no more Brady Bunch! Go away already!

Heck no I don't feel out of place. Lol! This is why I made sure there's a "business casual" picture on my site.  

I spent time in the Chicago area from '08-11. I love the Four Seasons, Peninsula and Park Hyatt.

I have never had any issues with hotels in Chicago or the suburbs. Not sure why another provider would either. I do as well check in casual and then get dressed and ready when I am in the room. Never a problem.

We all have to be careful in this profession. I always come in dressed for business casual. If I'm meeting someone I try not to draw attention to myself. If I am renting I'll spend time out of the room in lobby or club area so I don't look suspicious. When I check in I'm dressed casually or I'm talking about meeting a spouse etc. I also do not see a lot of people. The more people you have coming to your door the noticeable it will be. Never want to upset the regular dynamic of the hotel. My guess is she had issues there before. Reach out and ask her.

I'm not in Chicago, just used it as an example. Don't want to advertise where I am nor the hotels involved. I have my second date tonight with another girl, no issues with the hotel.  

 
I posted because this was a first for me. I've hobbied in this particular city before a few times, so was surprised. A couple girls had mentioned something, so thought it might have been something with me, too.  It wasn't, and asked the girl last night if there was anything wrong with my credentials, and there were no problems.  So, weird.  Appreciate the feedback, though. Interesting.

She apologized for any confusion. It was as others said, she doesn't want to visit the same hotel too often. She hasn't had any issues, just being careful.

Appreciate the honest and positive feedback from folks. Interesting stories and experiences.

in choosing a hotel is figuring out which one has the best pillows for slipping under her ass so I can hit that G-spot during mish.  Once I'm there, nothing has ever come up that I couldn't handle.  

 
If you're worried about what the bluebloods think, show them your blue balls and they'll understand that you NEED this.  

....without issues several times a year. I can make it anywhere lol.