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Women are given an amazing gift
copperly 1 Reviews 1551 reads
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Nothing else comes close to making men act so impulsively / haphazardly. Thanks to TER for having a way to buffer the conditions, because the rewards of those choice encounters are priceless.

If it was just a vagina, you could buy a plastic one for a lot less money. I think he's talking about the whole package, including that nob on top (brain).

I do believe theres more to it...but anyway~
that "gift" as you put it, comes with it's own set of issues...believe me!!! It's not all fun n games. LOL

xox
Nicole

I'm sure many sweet kisses and soft skin have cum your way in the past 3 years.

It's nice to know you didn't give up to abstinence after your first experience and I know many ladies are too.

Hope you have something special planned for Nov ;-)

Kisses Haley

Hi Copperly!

-- Modified on 9/28/2008 11:56:37 AM

The women I meet through TER - are ALL GREAT!  and they have also put up with me acting impulsively and haphazardly... in short, they are quality people...  and I consider myself very lucky to have met them.

Men have close to the same effect on women. Especially generous, kind men with plenty of cash to spend on women.

One is always tempted to say women's "gift" is no greater than men's effect on women, but -while I can't speak to that- I am doubtful. I do know that an intelligent sensual perceptive woman can provide great comfort and pleasure --spiritual and psychological as well as physical.  This is more than a collection of organs or body characteristics or the opportunity for physical release.  Despite what cynics might say, spending time in the company of an exceptional woman, like almost all of those I have met recently on TER and all of those civie friends I have gotten to know over the years, is an exceptional existential experience.  It is a rare and wonderful gift that these rare and wonderful people give.

-- Modified on 9/28/2008 4:15:38 PM

Despite what cynics may say, time spent in the presence of an intelligent, sensual, attentive woman --like almost all of those I have met recently on TER and all of those civies who I have been lucky enough to have as friends with benefits-- is an exceptional existential experience. Such time spent is more than simply physical pleasure or an opportunity for release, it is deeply spiritually and psychologically satisfying; the kind of thing that makes life truly worth living.  It is an exceptional gift these wonderful women can and do bestow on us.

-- Modified on 9/28/2008 12:48:55 PM

Great post.  I completely agree with both of your posts and I could not have said it better.

My life and happiness has improved immeasurably since I started dating the wonderful ladies that I have found on TER

Women/providers don't belong on a pedestal, and if you put them there, its at your own peril (unless you want to look up their dress):)

Any "gift bestowed" is in relation to the consideration. Ignore that at your peril as well.

Deep spirituality ain't coming by way of the flesh.





I agree that it's a two way street.  When we are talking about a provider, I owe her respect, her fee without discussion, my personal hygiene, affection in keeping with my respect for the limits of the situation, and a desire to make the experience as rewarding as possible for both of us; for a civie, I owe her respect, affection, attention to her needs and the needs of her outside life, and full attention to her pleasure and satisfaction.  To me, the communication that occurs is not only physical but spiritual and psychological as well.  Maybe it is a weakness, maybe it is just where I happen to live.  In any case, you are absolutely right in your warning since the worst I could do would be to over step the boundaries of the situation. I believe I have only done that once in my life with a civie friend with benefits; it was many years ago and there were very uncomfortable consequences.

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