Nothing else comes close to making men act so impulsively / haphazardly. Thanks to TER for having a way to buffer the conditions, because the rewards of those choice encounters are priceless.
If it was just a vagina, you could buy a plastic one for a lot less money. I think he's talking about the whole package, including that nob on top (brain).
I do believe theres more to it...but anyway~ that "gift" as you put it, comes with it's own set of issues...believe me!!! It's not all fun n games. LOL
The women I meet through TER - are ALL GREAT! and they have also put up with me acting impulsively and haphazardly... in short, they are quality people... and I consider myself very lucky to have met them.
One is always tempted to say women's "gift" is no greater than men's effect on women, but -while I can't speak to that- I am doubtful. I do know that an intelligent sensual perceptive woman can provide great comfort and pleasure --spiritual and psychological as well as physical. This is more than a collection of organs or body characteristics or the opportunity for physical release. Despite what cynics might say, spending time in the company of an exceptional woman, like almost all of those I have met recently on TER and all of those civie friends I have gotten to know over the years, is an exceptional existential experience. It is a rare and wonderful gift that these rare and wonderful people give.
Despite what cynics may say, time spent in the presence of an intelligent, sensual, attentive woman --like almost all of those I have met recently on TER and all of those civies who I have been lucky enough to have as friends with benefits-- is an exceptional existential experience. Such time spent is more than simply physical pleasure or an opportunity for release, it is deeply spiritually and psychologically satisfying; the kind of thing that makes life truly worth living. It is an exceptional gift these wonderful women can and do bestow on us.
I agree that it's a two way street. When we are talking about a provider, I owe her respect, her fee without discussion, my personal hygiene, affection in keeping with my respect for the limits of the situation, and a desire to make the experience as rewarding as possible for both of us; for a civie, I owe her respect, affection, attention to her needs and the needs of her outside life, and full attention to her pleasure and satisfaction. To me, the communication that occurs is not only physical but spiritual and psychological as well. Maybe it is a weakness, maybe it is just where I happen to live. In any case, you are absolutely right in your warning since the worst I could do would be to over step the boundaries of the situation. I believe I have only done that once in my life with a civie friend with benefits; it was many years ago and there were very uncomfortable consequences.
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