Jesus, CPA, not another thread like this! Words are just words. The person offended by them is the one who invests them with power. My favorite nasty girls love to call themselves my "little cock-whore." One even told me "I want to be your ass-whore."
Oh, and the correct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat?" is.........
"No, it's your huge ass that makes you look fat."
Posted By: BossMonger
Sex for money is what it is... Whore or prostitute may be harsh but are accurate.
hookers.
I'm really perplexed as to why...the "ladies" I've known intimately over the years aren't anything like the "ladies of the night" (aka hookers).
Nope...those ladies expected stuff like a direct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat"? And if that lady is living with you...well you guys know the correct answer.
While seeing a lady (aka hooker) doesn't ever ask that...but we do discuss via PM. Most often the reply to that question is "Nope...it's not the dress....she's just a fatty".
So which is it gals?
Sex for money is what it is... Whore or prostitute may be harsh but are accurate.
Jesus, CPA, not another thread like this! Words are just words. The person offended by them is the one who invests them with power. My favorite nasty girls love to call themselves my "little cock-whore." One even told me "I want to be your ass-whore."
Oh, and the correct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat?" is.........
"No, it's your huge ass that makes you look fat."
Posted By: BossMonger
Sex for money is what it is... Whore or prostitute may be harsh but are accurate.
i don't see the big deal. if she does not realize she is a hooker, she should get off of ter.
while technically, they may be "hookers"...that term has a negative connotation and you know this. Some ladies might not mind it but I can see why sophisticated girls who charge a premium don't appreciate being referred to as hookers.
To me, a hooker or whore is a streetwalker who charges $60 for a blowjob in the front seat of your car. For those ladies that provide a quality service at a premium price, if they would rather be called escorts or providers, I think they deserve that respect.
I love my hookers...truly I do.
What you get for $ 60 is the same thing you get for $ 600...a BBBJ or FS. It just may be that a nice hotel room comes along for the $ 600 hooker. Otherwise...same thing my friend.
As bendover said...it's how you want to interpret the meaning.
So whether my hooker charges XXX she's still selling sex. Courtesan, escort, call girl, hooker, prostitute and so on...the same connotation applies to all of them in that context.
I'll bet you want to be called a "client" as well? LOL Or is "gentleman caller" more to your liking? Last I checked you're still just a john...or as WOTW prefers, a trick 
Posted By: Phooka
while technically, they may be "hookers"...that term has a negative connotation and you know this. Some ladies might not mind it but I can see why sophisticated girls who charge a premium don't appreciate being referred to as hookers.
To me, a hooker or whore is a streetwalker who charges $60 for a blowjob in the front seat of your car. For those ladies that provide a quality service at a premium price, if they would rather be called escorts or providers, I think they deserve that respect.
that's it my friend. very few women think the money they charge is what should get them some kind of respect. you get a nicer room, better perks, and maybe some otc time with the premium girls, but you can also get a 100 dollar blowjob that feels the same as one you pay a grand for.
downing a street walker does not prove his case either. women in general regardless of pay, deserve respect and using the word hooker is not all that much of a big deal unless done to purposely insult. i like hooker better than whore or slut. how about cunt? you get slapped in the face for that one.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
I love my hookers...truly I do.
What you get for $ 60 is the same thing you get for $ 600...a BBBJ or FS. It just may be that a nice hotel room comes along for the $ 600 hooker. Otherwise...same thing my friend.
As bendover said...it's how you want to interpret the meaning.
So whether my hooker charges XXX she's still selling sex. Courtesan, escort, call girl, hooker, prostitute and so on...the same connotation applies to all of them in that context.
I'll bet you want to be called a "client" as well? LOL Or is "gentleman caller" more to your liking? Last I checked you're still just a john...or as WOTW prefers, a trick
Posted By: Phooka
while technically, they may be "hookers"...that term has a negative connotation and you know this. Some ladies might not mind it but I can see why sophisticated girls who charge a premium don't appreciate being referred to as hookers.
To me, a hooker or whore is a streetwalker who charges $60 for a blowjob in the front seat of your car. For those ladies that provide a quality service at a premium price, if they would rather be called escorts or providers, I think they deserve that respect.
Yep...same nut...but it's all in the presentation.
That Mercedes SL class does the same thing that the Chevy Caprice does. Nicer interior on the Mercedes...and maybe a GPS?
Posted By: bendovernc
that's it my friend. very few women think the money they charge is what should get them some kind of respect. you get a nicer room, better perks, and maybe some otc time with the premium girls, but you can also get a 100 dollar blowjob that feels the same as one you pay a grand for.
downing a street walker does not prove his case either. women in general regardless of pay, deserve respect and using the word hooker is not all that much of a big deal unless done to purposely insult. i like hooker better than whore or slut. how about cunt? you get slapped in the face for that one.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
I love my hookers...truly I do.
What you get for $ 60 is the same thing you get for $ 600...a BBBJ or FS. It just may be that a nice hotel room comes along for the $ 600 hooker. Otherwise...same thing my friend.
As bendover said...it's how you want to interpret the meaning.
So whether my hooker charges XXX she's still selling sex. Courtesan, escort, call girl, hooker, prostitute and so on...the same connotation applies to all of them in that context.
I'll bet you want to be called a "client" as well? LOL Or is "gentleman caller" more to your liking? Last I checked you're still just a john...or as WOTW prefers, a trick
Posted By: Phooka
while technically, they may be "hookers"...that term has a negative connotation and you know this. Some ladies might not mind it but I can see why sophisticated girls who charge a premium don't appreciate being referred to as hookers.
To me, a hooker or whore is a streetwalker who charges $60 for a blowjob in the front seat of your car. For those ladies that provide a quality service at a premium price, if they would rather be called escorts or providers, I think they deserve that respect.
Just like "a rose is a rose is a rose." Ah...the dreaded "C Word." And it will get you slapped in the face. Unless....you are quoting D.H. Lawrence.
I give you Mellors on the subject, talking to Lady Constance:
`Th'art good cunt, though, aren't ter? Best bit o' cunt left on earth. When ter likes! When tha'rt willin'!'
`What is cunt?' she said.
`An' doesn't ter know? Cunt! It's thee down theer; an' what I get when I'm i'side thee, and what tha gets when I'm i'side thee; it's a` as it is, all on't.'
`All on't,' she teased. `Cunt! It's like fuck then.'
`Nay nay! Fuck's only what you do. animals fuck. But cunt's a lot more than that. It's thee, dost see: an' tha'rt a lot besides an animal, aren't ter? - even ter fuck? Cunt! Eh, that's the beauty o' thee, lass!'
Now THAT's fucking Literature!!!! Kinda sounds like our babbling pal BIB, don't it?
The meth head on the street corner with 4 teeth gives the same great blowjob as the $1,000/hour premium girl? Maybe even better right? They both make you nut...great! I find it odd you don't see the difference (but ChgoCHA does...he claims the only difference in the price you pay is a nicer hotel room). LOL
Really, that's it? You don't think girls who charge a premium have any reason to do so beyond amenities? I think you're seeing the wrong girls.
I have an idea, go downtown and tell a nappy streetwalker that she should book a room at the Four Seasons and start advertising at 1k an hour, because it's all the same right? She's got three holes to fuck, just like every other girl! Or just get a BBBJ from a dude...probably feels the same if you keep your eyes closed.
Posted By: bendovernc
that's it my friend. very few women think the money they charge is what should get them some kind of respect. you get a nicer room, better perks, and maybe some otc time with the premium girls, but you can also get a 100 dollar blowjob that feels the same as one you pay a grand for.
Nice save, and I must agree to an extent. You're still an idiot for putting down one HOOKER and taking up for another HOOKER! DUMB ASS!
By definition, yes, they are providing the same type of service and are therefore prostitutes, hookers, whores, escorts, whatever. But there is a difference in terms of association...I guess recognizing that makes me a mangina! Why don't you just call them wenches? Tell the next girl you see that she's a "man servant". I mean, that's what they are right? They're there to serve you, so call it how it is. And while you're at it, next time you see a girl, remind her that her body is just life support for her cunt. I mean, it's true right?
-- Modified on 4/5/2013 9:56:36 AM
By definition, yes, they are providing the same type of service and are therefore prostitutes, hookers, whores, escorts, whatever. But there is a difference in terms of association...I guess recognizing that makes me a mangina!
Why don't you just call them wenches? Tell the next girl you see that she's a "man servant". I mean, that's what they are right? They're there to serve you, so call it how it is. And while you're at it, next time you see a girl, remind her that her body is just life support for her cunt. I mean, it's true right?
Posted By: ChgoCPA
I love my hookers...truly I do.
What you get for $ 60 is the same thing you get for $ 600...a BBBJ or FS. It just may be that a nice hotel room comes along for the $ 600 hooker. Otherwise...same thing my friend.
Ask your favorite hooker(s) where she started...where she advertised..who she saw.
Can't say that many started off at $ 1k/hr...not till they realized that a nice website...a few well placed fake reviews...a 5 star hotel could generate the $ 1k/hr rates. Till then many were just gals hooking wherever with whomever. And typically at 200/hr. Marketing is the key. Aside from that they all sell the same thing. Unless you know some hookers that have something the other hookers don't have?
Posted By: Phooka
By definition, yes, they are providing the same type of service and are therefore prostitutes, hookers, whores, escorts, whatever. But there is a difference in terms of association...I guess recognizing that makes me a mangina!
Why don't you just call them wenches? Tell the next girl you see that she's a "man servant". I mean, that's what they are right? They're there to serve you, so call it how it is. And while you're at it, next time you see a girl, remind her that her body is just life support for her cunt. I mean, it's true right?
Posted By: ChgoCPA
I love my hookers...truly I do.
What you get for $ 60 is the same thing you get for $ 600...a BBBJ or FS. It just may be that a nice hotel room comes along for the $ 600 hooker. Otherwise...same thing my friend.
That would be from "ladies that provide a quality service at a premium price" in the drive-up business model.
I get you are saying that hookers don't want to be called hookers.
But I can't follow the other details. it looks like you are using the word "ladies" to refer to both paid companions and regular (civilian) women in different places and it's hard to follow. I'm serious; this is not a smart-ass reply.
IS IT...
It's come to my attention that "paid companions" don't want to be called hookers.
I'm really perplexed as to why...the "paid companions" I've known intimately over the years aren't anything like the "ladies of the night" (aka hookers).
Nope...those paid companions expected stuff like a direct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat"? And if that lady is living with you...well you guys know the correct answer.
While seeing a paid companions (aka hooker) doesn't ever ask that...but we do discuss via PM. Most often the reply to that question is "Nope...it's not the dress....she's just a fatty".
So which is it gals?
OR THIS...
It's come to my attention that "regular women" don't want to be called hookers.
I'm really perplexed as to why...the "regular women" I've known intimately over the years aren't anything like the "ladies of the night" (aka hookers).
Nope...those regular women expected stuff like a direct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat"? And if that lady is living with you...well you guys know the correct answer.
While seeing a lady (aka hooker) doesn't ever ask that...but we do discuss via PM. Most often the reply to that question is "Nope...it's not the dress....she's just a fatty".
So which is it gals?
OR IS IT some other mixture of terms
But as I'm a B_I_B writer in training it's imperative that occasional posts make no fucking sense.
But I see you did get the gist of the OP.
Alright B_I_B....am I getting out of the remedial class yet? This online class is as stupid as paying a hooker for online chat.
So..what is the correct answer on the dress question?
The real problem is if I have to make the adjustments for one more fucking return that has the AMT (Alternative Minimum Tax....NOT ATM) on it...I'm going to explode
Posted By: glowerlord
I get you are saying that hookers don't want to be called hookers.
But I can't follow the other details. it looks like you are using the word "ladies" to refer to both paid companions and regular (civilian) women in different places and it's hard to follow. I'm serious; this is not a smart-ass reply.
IS IT...
It's come to my attention that "paid companions" don't want to be called hookers.
I'm really perplexed as to why...the "paid companions" I've known intimately over the years aren't anything like the "ladies of the night" (aka hookers).
Nope...those paid companions expected stuff like a direct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat"? And if that lady is living with you...well you guys know the correct answer.
While seeing a paid companions (aka hooker) doesn't ever ask that...but we do discuss via PM. Most often the reply to that question is "Nope...it's not the dress....she's just a fatty".
So which is it gals?
OR THIS...
It's come to my attention that "regular women" don't want to be called hookers.
I'm really perplexed as to why...the "regular women" I've known intimately over the years aren't anything like the "ladies of the night" (aka hookers).
Nope...those regular women expected stuff like a direct answer to "Does this dress make me look fat"? And if that lady is living with you...well you guys know the correct answer.
While seeing a lady (aka hooker) doesn't ever ask that...but we do discuss via PM. Most often the reply to that question is "Nope...it's not the dress....she's just a fatty".
So which is it gals?
OR IS IT some other mixture of terms?
Next time I will enjoy it for the pure expressions that it is meant to be.
...a hostile word to upscale providers here on TER. TER providers can say it doesn't bother them but maybe some of them are smiling through gritted teeth.
WTF is "upscale"?
Are they classy, refined, educated, world travelers?
Shit...maybe glowerlord should start a thread on that crap?
TGIF that "mangina week" is over.
Now how about that "man hating lesbians" week coming up?
Posted By: BigPapasan
...a hostile word to upscale providers here on TER. TER providers can say it doesn't bother them but maybe some of them are smiling through gritted teeth.
1. Why is this an either/or proposition?
Seriously dude, the Madonna/whore complex is so last season.
2. You just figured it out that the term hooker offends some people, huh?
Sarcasm, of course. Because that's the whole reason you use the term hooker. You use it to offend, to put yourself above us terrible twat owners. And that's why, when you use it, the term hooker really doesn't offend me...because your motives are so blatantly obvious that it's almost ridiculous.
So go ahead, use it until you're blue in the face. Just own why you use it
Would consider that it is a derogatory term.
Too many of the hookers here know exactly in the context it is used.
Others want to pretend that it is a personal attack.
Oh well
Would consider that it is a derogatory term. Too many of the kike's here know exactly in the context it is used"
Side editorial: The syntax above should actually be: "know exactly the context in which it is used" (umm...since we're doing stereotypes and all---aren't you Jews supposed to be highly educated intellectuals?)
Continuing....."Others want to pretend that it is a personal attack. Oh well" AND...
[I insert extra BIG smiley face here as if I'm only kidding with you in a cute puppy-dog playful kind of way]
Now, before you go thinking that I find this kind of "banter" fun, I assure I do not. I'll be very clear and say that: what I just said above is highly offensive. And, hopefully, not only to Jewish people.
But there doesn't seem to much of any other effective way to try to make a point with you
Just start a new thread there and see if you offend anyone there.
You really should take some breathing exercises to curb your anger.
Posted By: hotplants
Would consider that it is a derogatory term. Too many of the kike's here know exactly in the context it is used"
Side editorial: The syntax above should actually be: "know exactly the context in which it is used" (umm...since we're doing stereotypes and all---aren't you Jews supposed to be highly educated intellectuals?)
Continuing....."Others want to pretend that it is a personal attack. Oh well" AND...
[I insert extra BIG smiley face here as if I'm only kidding with you in a cute puppy-dog playful kind of way]
Now, before you go thinking that I find this kind of "banter" fun, I assure I do not. I'll be very clear and say that: what I just said above is highly offensive. And, hopefully, not only to Jewish people.
But there doesn't seem to much of any other effective way to try to make a point with you.
But it seems to be your new pastime.
Guess some lesbian friends of Jewish persuasion....known as kikettes fucked you over big time.
Stick to the WASP lesbians...they don't have any money though. Those kikettes run all the banks...everyone knows that.
You make blanket assumptions on matters you know nothing about. And then presume to know anything about MY affiliations.
Want to guess again? Maybe you should wait till Monday when it's officially "Man hater lesbians" week. Be sure to bring your pals along to enhance the entertainment.
One of these days you'll be able to look in the mirror and not hate that reflection.
Jeesh...did you forget you're a Jew?
Does me pointing out you're Jewish offend you? REALLY?! WHY? I mean...HEY...I'm just having fun here.
You need to find a sense of humor. Or, don't read my posts if they bother you
If what someone does for a living bothers them so much they can't look it in the eyes, maybe it's time to get out? Your race is not a choice.
This is about NOT being deliberately insulting to women just because they have chosen to become sex workers.
If you feel the need to look reality in the eyes, maybe start with your wife
You should not ASSume I am married. You are trying to compare apples and oranges and failing miserably. Women choose to be escorts, you don't choose the color of your skin. You should be mature enough to get that correlation you're trying to pass of, does not work. Some people use the word hooker in a derogatory way, and others don't. Some women think it's offensive and others don't. Seems stupid to try and change what someone else feels or does.
Just because I don't agree with you, does not mean you have to start insulting people. I have no problem with facing reality. Seems you might need a dose of it. If I were married, I would call myself a cheater with no problem. Sorry you have issues with your station in life. Not all women do.
Saracasm...of course
If you only knew LOL
And maybe you do!
One of the funniest skits of all time.
Generally speaking, I prefer escort, provider.
But even if all these names technically mean the same, I think there is a attitude and quality behind each one..
For example when I am feeling more sweet and romantic, and feel like making it all about you, then escort or provider fits my mood.
When I am in a more nasty, kinky, dirty mood, then I act and am ok with
whore and slut...
And each of these names for me anyways has a different attitude and personality behind them.
Hope this makes sense
But then you don't have a self esteem issue with the work that you do.
Others however clearly have an issue with it.
It is what it is.
Posted By: CaitlynKennedy
Generally speaking, I prefer escort, provider.
But even if all these names technically mean the same, I think there is a attitude and quality behind each one..
For example when I am feeling more sweet and romantic, and feel like making it all about you, then escort or provider fits my mood.
When I am in a more nasty, kinky, dirty mood, then I act and am ok with
whore and slut...
And each of these names for me anyways has a different attitude and personality behind them.
Hope this makes sense
And, gay men don’t like to be called faggots. And, African Americas don’t like to be called niggers. And native americans don’t like to be called chief. Sadly, I could go on and on....And, I would hope the reasons are already abundantly clear to you, without further explanation.
At the same time, those very same people don’t mind being called those names.....sometimes. Everything depends on who’s doing the ‘calling’, and why.
Obviously, all of the above are racial slurs. And sex workers are not a “race”. But they are a distinct group. And, yes....”technically”....the face value definition of ‘sex worker or provider’, and ‘whore or hooker’ is the same. But, so is the face value definition of: ‘Jewish and Hymie’.
You’d have to be a complete moron not to understand that the difference lies entirely in your ‘intention’ when choosing to use an obviously derogatory label when referring to a group of people----especially when you could just as easily not.
You already know you’re using the label to be antagonistic. Your intention when using “hooker” is obviously ‘intended’ to be demeaning. Fine....but as MM already said: at least own it
And, hey....with a lady you know well.....you might find she doesn't mind you referring to her by a more pejorative label; As long as you BOTH understand that you're being playful, not a deliberately antagonistic ass....lol...
Next week is "Man hating lesbian week".
Allowing anyone to hold something like this over oneself is empowering the one using the "slurs".
Quite easy to disregard it and consider the source LOL
Especially on a faceless nameless discussion board!
But thanks for clarifying all of this for so many who didn't know the differences.
And FWIW you shouldn't be quoting anything from MM...just saying! You have NO clue.
Posted By: hotplants
And, gay men don’t like to be called faggots. And, African Americas don’t like to be called niggers. And native americans don’t like to be called chief. Sadly, I could go on and on....And, I would hope the reasons are already abundantly clear to you, without further explanation.
At the same time, those very same people don’t mind being called those names.....sometimes. Everything depends on who’s doing the ‘calling’, and why.
Obviously, all of the above are racial slurs. And sex workers are not a “race”. But they are a distinct group. And, yes....”technically”....the face value definition of ‘sex worker or provider’, and ‘whore or hooker’ is the same. But, so is the face value definition of: ‘Jewish and Hymie’.
You’d have to be a complete moron not to understand that the difference lies entirely in your ‘intention’ when choosing to use an obviously derogatory label when referring to a group of people----especially when you could just as easily not.
You already know you’re using the label to be antagonistic. Your intention when using “hooker” is obviously ‘intended’ to be demeaning. Fine....but as MM already said: at least own it.
Excuse us for not wanting to be constantly belittled and insulted by someone who PAYS to be in our prescense. Forty, three hundred, a grand, you are still the one paying buddy. So if you need to disrespect us so compulsively and so blatantly to make it ok for you, go for it. Just don't expect us all to bat our eyelashes and beg you to please tell us more about how to do our jobs, run our lives, and spend our money, cause we are just stupid hookers after all.
It used to be kind of funny, now it's just old. And I LIKE the word hooker!
he never called anyone stupid or lower than him. he is merely saying it's STUPID to keep getting upset over things you are not going to change. what did black people do when they got tired of feeling bad about the N word? They made rap songs about it! Words only have power if you are too immature to rise above them. I am sure fat people hate being called fat, but they have mirrors.
we call our friends niggas and bitches all the time, and they don't cry about it because they know it is is a term of endearment, not a damn insult. some of you should join the party or keep crying I guess. problem is not the words, but the people who ASSume it's mean. why do some of you get offended and others don't? seems simple tome.
Words are a precious thing. I've loved them from the moment I learned to read. They can also sting like a lash and the damage often lasts much longer.
Not sure why we utilize them to inflict pain. Advances neither the victim or the perpetrator.
Sorrowful.
Words to live and die by.
and only the ignorant let what another person says, bother them so much they want to slit their wrists. is this high school? who cares what some john says! don't fuck him, don't read his posts. so simple. it's not like this guy is your boss. you don't have to put up with him.
rather than just accepting they can feel whatever the fuck they want. Where do all your freshmans come from? Get some new material. It's played out as much as hookers and hobbyist terms are.
Can we move to sophomore class, are you can't possibly muster past your retarded fallacies, that YOU invented, dumb ass. Now, calling you a dumb ass is ad hominem. You are too IGNORANT to distinguish between stupidity and immaturity. The very same kids calling their friends these names probably have more education at 13, than you have now
Wooowwww I wish I had read this before I replied to your other one. Putting you in the "ignorant asshole" pile is in no way shape or form as dramatic as you apparently think it is. This kind of stuff is all over the board, and with new members every day, it's hard to skip all of it.
Love all the alters on this thread by the way. Can't bash us all under your real names, baby back bitchesss? 
Posted By: toofuckingstupid
and only the ignorant let what another person says, bother them so much they want to slit their wrists. is this high school? who cares what some john says! don't fuck him, don't read his posts. so simple. it's not like this guy is your boss. you don't have to put up with him.
It is simple. If it is meant to be funny, then I'm pretty sure most of us will laugh. For example, my friends and I will text and make hooker jokes all the time. About ourselves! What changes it is when someone like CPA continually does it in a derogatory way.
Same way that I, as a white woman (who has no racial preferences, btw), can't say "no I don't see dirty pakis!", but I can call one of my clients a dirty paki, and the meaning is totally different. The first one is rude and ignorant, while the second is between friends and is a silly way of calling him kinky. Some on here go with the former when they throw around the word "hooker", and that is when we get upset.
Posted By: toofuckingstupid
he never called anyone stupid or lower than him. he is merely saying it's STUPID to keep getting upset over things you are not going to change. what did black people do when they got tired of feeling bad about the N word? They made rap songs about it! Words only have power if you are too immature to rise above them. I am sure fat people hate being called fat, but they have mirrors.
we call our friends niggas and bitches all the time, and they don't cry about it because they know it is is a term of endearment, not a damn insult. some of you should join the party or keep crying I guess. problem is not the words, but the people who ASSume it's mean. why do some of you get offended and others don't? seems simple tome.
Hooker, Whore, Slut, loose, tramp, and too many more to post. If they don't like being called hookers, get married, stay home or find a real job in the real world. Otherwise, STFU you crazy hookers.
Cuts both ways...
Nice to see the double standard is still alive and well...
I guess you too are a pathetic mother fucker, because you're still here!
I believe it is about intent , I think also that reception is perception based .Kendall Lynn
...especially considering the character of the presentation.
bat sheet crazy woman like you.
I thank God every day for loose, trampy women with no morals. You should wear your hooker/whore badge with honor instead of being so defensive about letting every Tom Dick with a little extra cash take a walk about with you.
Fucktard Counsel, like a mail order degree lawyer...idiot.
