do you recieve greater pleasure from a female lover?
What things could we (guys) learn from your female partner.......if anything?

you and i know no man can match the level of passion two women have..any one who has had a threesome knows the feeling..the equipment is totally different..

Good answer.
But, would like to get an answer from a Bi lady.

Well, personally, I don't cum as often with female partners as I do with male partners, mostly because of the equipment difference, but I do enjoy the aesthetics of a female more than I enjoy most men I see. These ladies are HOT!! What are most hobbyists? --- not....

anyway. I hope this gives you an idea. If we are playing with toys my pleasure goes up, but just girl on girl can be sort of boring esp if she isn't "really bi" as I am. That's the worst, when you feel like shes not attracted to you.

If you want to learn from to lady lovers go lay with them! Or there is always porn

Women are more sensual & sweet when it comes to paying attention to details.  I enjoy kissing pretty ladies, and having them dine at my Y!  lol

take your time! Some guys approach sex as getting to the end of a race! Women need time to warm up to get the most pleasure possible from the experience. Another woman knows this. I have spent a few hours to almost a whole day just hooking up with another lady, as a rule, I don't date females, but we did that much exploring and pleasuring that it was never ending.

Chemistry and listening to your partner is important too. Guys want to see gratification, so they pull out all their "tricks" or figure well she liked this so the other will too. WRONG! Women listen to each other. LOL! Hard to believe, but if I breathe or moan in pleasure, my female partner is right there knowing what I want and how to give me more. It's like an unwritten language. The ebb and flow of being with another woman is magical.

Also, you don't have the equipment! I can bet for the guys that go to see TS's or are secretly bi, they probably get the best head/sex. Why? Because a guy will know what feels good on his shaft so he can mirror it on his partner. I know how I like my kitty licked, touched, pressure, etc. No amount of instructing a male lover will give you the same feeling as a woman can just go in knowing how to do it all. Sitting back and relaxing without the guesswork or instruction is a great feeling.

Oh, and women know there is a point to go to after the orgasm... There is a paralyzing euphoria to be reached. Women know this and will get you there more times than a man.

Whew! I need a doubles partner... LOL!

It's different...
is the best way I can describe it..

One is not better then the other.
yes there are better lovers then others but that goes for both male and female...

Just relax and be yourself.. I confident woman will point you in the right direction.

Frankly, I've never had a really good female lover...it's always shocking, since they know their equipment they should know how to work it...like hey, I can make a lady cum in a couple minutes, cause I know what I would want her to do to me...so when it's my turn and she acts like she's never seen a vagina before (this cracked me up the worst when I dated a hardcore lesbian) I'm always baffled.  Anyway, I guess I was bi-curious in my early twenties...I never fell in love with a woman, and while I still find the ladied beautiful, I'll take a male lover anyday...many of them have taken the time to get to know the vagina surprisingly well, ha!

I crave the sensuality and gentleness of women, I don't think I have ever kissed a woman and thought it was awful. And I have never felt used with a woman. Such a very beautiful experience.

The girls have soft, smooth curves that always handle well regardless of shape or size. They corner like they are on rails and if you working them intently with the right build up of intensity when shifting gears then engine revs, purrs and takes you beautifully to a euphoric finish around those scenic roads.

However, for a little edgier, rougher feel, I love a mans hands on my skin. I want him well groomed mind you! He is like a trusty Ford bronco ready to go for the long haul after a quick trip in 4x4 over the dunes which will be a blast and I know I'm giggling and loving every minute of it. He will get me where I am going, ( I may need gps, because sometimes it isn't built in, but it is always a fun trip)! Rust and vintage age is better in this case. I treasure security of a good ride and well known brand. Classics are my favorite!


I've got to stop now I'm starting to sound like a regular around here!

Grace

The best female lovers I have had really have known their way around a clit. The vagina, for some women, is a more secondary option and for some you could sew up the opening  and they wouldn't bat an eye.

Being a good lover is really listening to what your partner needs and, if at all possible, doing it.

always over material things, they have never used me for my body.  Damn it.  But I could go for that in a heartbeat, what a thrill ride it would be!

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sorry, when I said vagina, I was including the clit...I should have said, "every woman lover I've had did not know their way around the clit"...which I find incredibly strange, with my only wager being I was unfortunate enough to meet all women who haven't discovered their own bodies...which sadly, I've heard through the grapevine far too many women who never even have an orgasm alone or with a partner...it sounds crazy, but I think a lot of women just don't take the time to discover themselves...why do you think there is so much less interest in sex from the women of the world?  They don't know what they are missing...and most of them never find out since men aren't out there beating down doors to give head...at least not in my experience, which is why I like to keep the trained ones around...I'm tired of giving lessons. oi.

I am overly excited when I do. I like threesomes, but I LOVE being alone with a woman. No, women don't automatically know what women want...only what "they" want. I can't say I have ever had an orgasm with a female, but have given plenty lol.

Religion and antiquated, Victorian views on sex perpetrated by generations telling women sex is dirty and a chore or duty for the men in their lives. And that goes for self exploration as well.

Then biology enters. We don't need to have an orgasm to get pregnant to further people kind. Biology fucked up big time here. And I mean if we had a better built in way to have an orgasm that wasn't so darn hard, women might be more interested if they actually got something worth while out of it on a consistent basis that wasn't dependent on all the friggen stars aligning.

My mother once told me..sex is to be enjoyed, not endured. Find the right partner and kick the ignorant, "don't care to listen" ones to the curb. P4P is not included in this last statement.

Although not all "use" as we have mentioned. But it does and will continue to happen with a faction of the population.

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