1.Humor / , 2.Attractiveness.  /  3. Creativity  4.Emotional Warmth /   5. Faithfulness  /                .        6. Pleasant Body Odor /    What do you think ladies🙋‍♀️

Any Takers Quality

you left off this:  $$$$$

 
As for #5, I think we'll have to toss that one out the window given the nature of this enterprise.

.......and insert Self-confidence for #1, #2 for me would be Graciousness
Suzee

I would think "generous" would be one of the six.  Agree with Fisher that faithfulness is a bit hypocritical.

I don't equate being faithful with being a good lover. The rest of them seem spot on. Now that being said...communication is #1 and foremost with me for any lover I bring in. If you can't openly talk and discuss with your lover what is the point?  

2) They work for State Farm.
3) They wear khakis.
4) You can call them in the middle of the night.
5) Your wife will think they sound hideous.

Sex columnist Dan Savage coined this phrase "... to represent the qualities that he thinks makes a good sexual partner. GGG stands for 'good, giving, and game.’ Think 'good in bed,' 'giving of equal time and equal pleasure,' and 'game for anything—within reason.'"

Granted, he's talking about long term relationships but I agree that a  "motivation sexual communal strength - the desire or willingness to meet a partner’s sexual needs, even when different from your own preferences..." goes a long ways to being "good in bed."

Sure, we're compensating our short-term playmates for their time but I've found that I get a better return on that investment when I'm considerate of her needs, as well.

I am certain it stands for Great GaGambler. lol

 

In all seriousness though, what I find makes for the best lovers, Physical appearance aside for the moment, but it kind of goes without saying that if I don't find a woman attractive, nothing she does will really matter. That said, I can sum it up in one word PASSION. All other things being equal, passion will get me every time, and of course passion can be faked. I don't really care if it is only fake passion where it comes to P4P, but if a girl can "convincingly" be passionate with me during sex it will put her head and shoulders above those who can't.

 
I know this question was posed for the ladies about the men, but I can only assume that at least some of the ladies feel the same way in reverse.  I think a "person" who brings passion to the bedroom is going to be a much better lover than one who does not.

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Sounds like a "crazy site with cum flying everywhere" is GaGa's bedroom...  
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and office....
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and car...
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and hotel...
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and local park...
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and airplane bathroom...
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and, well you get the idea. :p

I agree 100% regarding the passion!

I have found that my best experiences are with providers who are passionate -- first, about what they do for a living; and secondly, about me.  

For those of us who love what we do for a living, it's about the satisfaction first and the money second ( hopefully there's some parity between the two). Those providers who give the best and the most do so because they seem to truly enjoy what they do (most of the time, anyway; all of us have off days). It's almost like a calling for them.

If we both show up with a passion to give our best to the session, and to each other, then the best results will generally occur. Preparedness, passion and perspiration!

Ok #2

Last but not least   #7   $$$$$$"

No kidding, i had a few beers. Generous  Yes

True..☺

Yes. GGG.  I like it

I got to number 5.  Faithfulness has NOTHING to do with being good in bed.  I can be just as good with a hundred ladies as I can with one.  I think on attractiveness, you have to include both looks and personality.  There are a lot of DDG guys who have the personality and social skills of a houseplant.  

YES HOUSEPLANTS Is one way  to put it..😉

I think #5 has some credibility . I have a good friend ( one of my earliest dates) in this hobby.I don't get to see her often.If I don't get to see her one year ,she knows am gonna make up for it the next - that's faithfulness. As always - can mean different things to different people.So ... Sheila, be sure to reserve that #5 for me.

I like a man to be educated but not full of himself. I can't stand arrogance.  A good sensor of humor is for sure key!! I think you got the rest pretty much down!  xoxo

You should also keep #2.Maybe e every  guy doesn't possess all six.But may have 3-5 .I think Sheila would give him a passing grade.

#5 revisited :If a guy is ( faithful- depending on ones interpretation)) to a provider ,then he must have some real attraction towards her,which in turn can play with his emotion and  give rise to great sexual performance,and him indeed a great lover.

I am a social "Houseplant"..party of one..

I don't think you should retract.Faithfulness is triggered by emotion,and emotion can lead to great sexual performance.Nothing is absolute,so it may not apply to every guy on the planet.But you have a point. Especially if it's a deep personal expression  or thought.

💋 MUAH

should be on there also.   Number 5 not that important to me. lol

Thats a real good  one  ☺

Ok makes sense..you got it💋

I personally thimk some HOUSEPLANTS  have lots of personality  like Ivys and philedendrons..oh Catus's lots of varitys. Colors

A good dancer , yes id like to see him dance for me 1st or after..😚

In the hobby? WTF?

Right... None of us knows what that word means 😚 Oh  I Meant  *  Ready &  Willing  To Please...One Another 👄👄

Was #6 placed there to ensure that the respondents were actually reading and responding thoughtfully?

when comparing your houseplants to your customers.  I haven't met them, so I can't say.  

Just not toward wives.

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Describe a partner in my opinion.  If we are talking about someone I'm just going to have a quick romp with, they aren't so important.

Most important to me is an ability to read your partner's cues in bed, to sense their likes and to actually care to want to give them pleasure.  Whether it's soft and sensual or down and dirty, if they can follow my lead and satisfy me, that's what I consider to be "good in bed".
Everything else is just a bonus.

I get loyalty...I was loyal to one or two ladies in my area, but faithful is not something we can say, unless a guy is willing to be faithful to the hobby only....hobby in and of itself.

😚 Satisfaction  Guaranteed

Yes A Smart  Man..is very Sexy💃

Just wanted to stir things  up....boy did we👿

I know Huh..😁

Is A Must..👄👄