TER General Board

Re: IMO $025 is too much to pay
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 367 reads
posted
1 / 53

The vast majority of legit provider web sites and ads don't show faces.  Many of the ads on BP that do are only doing so because the pictures are fake.  

I would say that you have to do whatever works for you but I think you are limiting yourself to a very small segment of the provider population.

ConstantTraveler 1 Reviews 1966 reads
posted
2 / 53

I don't know about the rest of you, but I have a really hard time (aka can't do it) with contacting a provider who doesn't show pictures of their face.  For me, its one of the biggest turn ons and what I look for in a provider when she has a beautiful face with nice eyes and a smile.   No Top 10 body in the world can cure a snaggle tooth or lazy eye, and either of those will kill any chance of something going down.

I know most don't sure their face for privacy reasons but...

What do you all think? Or how have your chances gone with Photo Russian Roulette?

lonely4u177 4 Reviews 341 reads
posted
3 / 53

What pisses me off is the vast array of fake pictures on the ads.  When I see a ad with say a pretty blond with long hair and what shows up at the door is a girl with short black curly hair and not the body you saw in the ad, that is whats wrong!  The ladies need to post REAL pictures with maybe a partial blocked face pic, something that just gives us a idea what her face looks like.

valueadd 319 reads
posted
4 / 53

Posted By: ConstantTraveler
I don't know about the rest of you, but I have a really hard time (aka can't do it) with contacting a provider who doesn't show pictures of their face.  For me, its one of the biggest turn ons and what I look for in a provider when she has a beautiful face with nice eyes and a smile.   No Top 10 body in the world can cure a snaggle tooth or lazy eye, and either of those will kill any chance of something going down.

I know most don't sure their face for privacy reasons but...

What do you all think? Or how have your chances gone with Photo Russian Roulette?
My most disappointing experiences in this hobby have come when the lady just wasn't as attractive as she and her shill reviewers made her out to be.  A bad face is a total session killer.  I just wanted to pop a few times and leave as soon as my time was up.  You can't trust ratings as almost every reputable provider gets at least an 8 in appearance.

Here's a lesson that I've learned the hard way.  Avoid any lady who is consistently described by reviewers as "her pics don't do her justice".  It's a bs statement if you think about it.  A lady will never be more attractive than in her photos.  She spends hundreds if not thousands to be shot by a professional photographer who can use lighting and Photoshop to make the pics as perfect as possible.

You can't eliminate the roulette aspect.  But you can reduce it by erring on the side of caution.  Only see the hottest ladies in your area.  Those with an average in the 8.7+ range.  Great performance ratings & expansive menus are irrelevant if you're aren't mentally in the session because the lady isn't attractive enough.   You won't have fun.

GaGamblerssmarterbrother 229 reads
posted
5 / 53

most of us already pay for TER for that very purpose, I have no itentions, nor will I wver pay "a trial" simply to see if I find you attractive. No Way, no how. If I haven't made myself clear, there is no way in hell I am giving you or any other woman $3.99 or a plugged nickel for a "trial" membership to some paysite.

JustAGal See my TER Reviews 219 reads
posted
6 / 53

Last year I added "secret gallery" to my site where i posted several unblurred face pics.

If someone wanted to see them in order to make the final decision, they had to provide me screening information.  

Interestingly enough, it made no impact on decision making.  So risk of having those pictures out did not offset benefit of increased bookings.

Gallery is gone.

GaGamblerssmarterbrother 201 reads
posted
7 / 53

Not to mention, have you seen her pics??? lmao

I would never stoop to making fun of someone about their appearance, but let me repeat "have you seen her pics?" $3.99 sounds more like what she should be charging for a session.

GaGamblerssmarterbrother 207 reads
posted
8 / 53

Besides while I will confess it was a bit mean, uncalled for might be a matter for debate. lol

and while it might have been a bit mean, I don't see anyone contradicting me on the facts, just that I was mean for saying it out loud.

Solange- See my TER Reviews 276 reads
posted
9 / 53

"Avoid any lady who is consistently described by reviewers as "her pics don't do her justice."

Hold on. "Consistently" describing a provider however way does not automatically equal BS. Hello, YMMV. If she happens to attract more clients that have good chemistry with her, yes you will hear them saying similar positive things.

Now there are several instances with the picture(s) themselves, and the gentleman's preference, as to whether HE personally thinks she looks better than her pictures. "Looking better than your pictures" can mean different things to different people. Maybe in the pictures she looked bored, dull, not freaky, etc but then when he arrived she was excited and passionate and it was all good in his eyes!

To each his own.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

I'm saying, duh we will just agree to disagree. Either you like her looks in the pictures, in person, or her personality, etc or you don't. Do your research, and either play or not.

inicky46 61 Reviews 268 reads
posted
10 / 53

First of all, if her face pix weren't good I wouldn't be there to begin with.  But when a girl turns out to be even prettier, well, that's just a great surprise.  When it's happened to me, I've mentioned it in the review and it's not bullshit.  So I don't assume it is in other people's reviews either and I haven't been disappointed.  Sorry if you have, but it's not universal.  Part of the mystery, I guess.

valueadd 238 reads
posted
11 / 53

Posted By: Solange-
"Avoid any lady who is consistently described by reviewers as "her pics don't do her justice."

Hold on. "Consistently" describing a provider however way does not automatically equal BS. Hello, YMMV. If she happens to attract more clients that have good chemistry with her, yes you will hear them saying similar positive things.

Now there are several instances with the picture(s) themselves, and the gentleman's preference, as to whether HE personally thinks she looks better than her pictures. "Looking better than your pictures" can mean different things to different people. Maybe in the pictures she looked bored, dull, not freaky, etc but then when he arrived she was excited and passionate and it was all good in his eyes!

To each his own.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

I'm saying, duh we will just agree to disagree. Either you like her looks in the pictures, in person, or her personality, etc or you don't. Do your research, and either play or not.
I understand YMMV but chemistry and personalities are performance attributes.  They should have nothing to do with how physically attractive a provider is.  How can someone tell if the lady is the pics is bored, dull, or freaky if she doesn't show her face?  I sure can't...

I think you're misunderstanding the OP's post.  He was talking about ladies who don't show their faces.

valueadd 209 reads
posted
12 / 53

Posted By: inicky46
First of all, if her face pix weren't good I wouldn't be there to begin with.  But when a girl turns out to be even prettier, well, that's just a great surprise.  When it's happened to me, I've mentioned it in the review and it's not bullshit.  So I don't assume it is in other people's reviews either and I haven't been disappointed.  Sorry if you have, but it's not universal.  Part of the mystery, I guess.
The reason why I used the term consistently is to separate the ladies who always have such compliments from the ladies who get them every once in awhile.  To me the ones who receive consistent compliments are getting inflated appearance ratings because the performance side is so good.

Re your review history, great minds think alike.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 287 reads
posted
13 / 53

You are correct that many of us do not show our faces due to privacy concerns.  I have to be very careful because of my regular job and my kids so I don't show my face on my ads or on the regular part of my site.  I do know it is important for many of you to see the whole picture so I've created a special section of my website where you can go to see the full uncut, unedited pics, and yes they all show my face.  Since privacy is a concern for me I do charge a small fee, but really is $3.99 for a trial too much to pay to get the information you need to be sure you are making a good decision?

LynetteMarie See my TER Reviews 267 reads
posted
15 / 53

OK maybe I'm just an uptight b&tch but I will NEVER EVER expose my face online.

The Internet is great but also tricky... once an image is posted it's difficult to get it removed.  Takes YEARS.

I work very hard on my body but I understand I'm not a supermodel

I have a beautiful face and I only wish I could show it off

All I can say is... take a chance and see me.  I'm flipping hot.  Honest.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 194 reads
posted
16 / 53

And that is your perogative.  I however have to protect my identity.  I offer a choice, you are free to take it or pass on it, but at least the choice is there.

inicky46 61 Reviews 241 reads
posted
17 / 53

Just to be clear, I have never declined to see a girl because of unblurred pix or an artfully  hidden face.  I understand she won't look exactly the way I imagine her but that's OK as long as the rest of her looks like her pix.  I am sure you are "flipping hot."

inicky46 61 Reviews 231 reads
posted
18 / 53

I'm sure you know what you're doing but I don't understand how a $3.99 charge protects your privacy.

MP67 11 Reviews 241 reads
posted
19 / 53

I met Lynette in person. Partied with her and some other people in Vegas. Ask romeogolf about....

Anyway she's as cool as she is gorgeous! :)

inquiringmindswannaknow 249 reads
posted
20 / 53

Help me out here please I am having trouble understanding how you can actually believe this.
And do  you really find anyone stupid enough to hand over their CC information to you for this?
Thereby divulging their own private information.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 221 reads
posted
21 / 53

or so it seems. Maybe I just tend to feel the disappointment more and remember it more bitterly. Not because of the money so much as the expectation letdown and the shilling. Anymore, I'll only play the Face Lottery with more average priced escorts.

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 241 reads
posted
22 / 53

...I choose to, for several reasons.  One is that my family is far away and unlikely to see my pics.  Another is that, even if my family did discover my pics, I would probably be more embarrassed by the fact that my dad saw my tits than by what I'm actually doing.  I honestly don't think my family would be shocked; they are well aware of the fact that I've always been something of a slut, and at least now I'm getting paid for it!  (I also have reasons to believe that my Dad is, or has in the past been, a hobbyist, and I believe he and my step-mother are swingers.)  Don't get me wrong - I don't want to be outed.  However, for me, the benefits of showing my face (which gets a great many compliments - including that I'm prettier in person) outweigh the risks.

Having said that, I think many girls who don't show their faces are completely delusional if they think slightly blurring their face, or turning their head, hides their identity.  It may stop them from being recognized by a stranger in the store, and there is value to that.  However, if I already know the girl, and I know her body shape and hair style, I am quite sure that I could recognize her given how little "masking" most girls actually do.

inicky46 61 Reviews 181 reads
posted
23 / 53

Yeah, well I went to her site and you are right!  Hottness!  I would!  Or was that wood?

MP67 11 Reviews 189 reads
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24 / 53
delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 218 reads
posted
26 / 53

It protects me by letting me know who is viewing the pics.  That way there are no surprises waiting for me, I'm informed ahead of time if someone I know sees the pics.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 236 reads
posted
27 / 53

I have plenty of members on my site.  There are many escorts who have paid membership areas on their sites.  It isn't any different from joining any paid porn site and trust me, there are plenty of men who do that.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 237 reads
posted
28 / 53

Not everyone likes the same thing in a woman.  While I may not appeal to you, I appeal to many.  At least I have pics out there for people to see.  We escorts don't get to preview who we meet.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 181 reads
posted
29 / 53

And you are entitled to your opinion.  As I said, I have plenty of men I appeal to, each person has a right to their opinion.  

Of course I'm sure since you made such a comment you are the most attractive man ever alive.

MP67 11 Reviews 184 reads
posted
30 / 53

You won't find it from me! At least not as far as this is concerned! lol!

inicky46 61 Reviews 192 reads
posted
31 / 53

and they may be someone you'd rather not see your face.  It's from that  point of view that I fail to see how this protects your privacy.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 188 reads
posted
34 / 53

I have control over the accounts, I can approve or disapprove any account so I do have control.

graywolf60 21 Reviews 185 reads
posted
36 / 53

I don't have a problem with a provider not showing her face but photos are important nonetheless. Most legitimate  providers have a "review" track record that in most cases can be verified by the user if need be. My only gripe is the requirement of some providers asking for an appointment before a phone number (or sometimes an email address) is provided. I want to talk to someone before I make a decision to see them as to their comfort level and verbal expression. I know some guys have "jack-off-the-mouthitis" and that's poor form. But still, I want to have a short phone conversation with someone first. The providers that I've seen (both reviewed and not) have all been very comfortable and confident in my conversations with them.

A lot of these women will be moving on into careers and other ways of life that if their escort activities were exposed could hurt them. So the blurry face or no head shot does no bother me. gy60

MP67 11 Reviews 192 reads
posted
38 / 53

I don't think it's fair you can't see the guy before you meet him.

That's just me and the way I think. Gets me in trouble more often than not, but at least it's not boring. ;)

GeorgeIII 82 Reviews 160 reads
posted
39 / 53

LynetteMarie  I can see enough of your face (even though just slightly blurred); and it is beautiful. You don't have to worry about anything. And with your superb ratings!!!

MP67 11 Reviews 153 reads
posted
40 / 53

Looks like he hit every branch falling out of the ugly tree! lmao!

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 222 reads
posted
41 / 53

For privacy reasons I do not show a full face picture.My family does not know what I do and I wish for it to remain that way.So many times we have heard about providers pics being stolen and used by someone else.It might be someone in the same city as the provider or in another state could be another country using her pictures where a provider just might have family located there.I post on my ads/website pics that show different angles,blur face,and cropped face pics so at least a gentleman will have an idea.I am sure there are some gents that have not contacted me because I do not show my face and I am fine with that because there are many who do not have an issue.Then there are some gents that are intrigued by no face pics and want to find out more.Don't count out a provider if she does not show her face you might be missing out on a mind-blowing time.As long as she has reviews and is a reputable provider you should consider seeing her.

IMO,unless a provider is able to screen the gent or approve the gent to access a private section on her website that shows face pics charging a fee will not ensure privacy.Who is to say after he has paid this fee to gain access he takes those face pics and posts them other places on the internet without permission how will a lady know?How will she get them removed?If that is even an option.Too much of a risk for me but to each her own.

inicky46 61 Reviews 205 reads
posted
42 / 53

Mikey likes getting in trouble.   No way would I ever send a provider pix of me and none ever has asked.  First of all, my pix would gross them out! (unless we were casting a re-make of "Beauty and The Beast.")

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 160 reads
posted
43 / 53

for pics from a gentleman who wanted to meet me.  I just think it is unfair for someone to comment about how I look when I'm sure he doesn't every allow someone to know how he looks.  I know I don't appeal to everyone, but noboday appeals to everyone.  Everyone likes different things.  Just because I'm not what he likes he didn't have to be rude.  

I also don't ask for a lot of personal information.  I ask for name, first only, if you want to add the last you can if you don't then say none.  I ask for ID's from certain sites to verify someone.  If you have that, you're done, I don't need anything else.  If you don't have the IDs then I need 2 references.  I don't want to give a lot of my personal information out and I don't feel you guys should have to either.

delightfuldusty See my TER Reviews 191 reads
posted
44 / 53

I also have the site encrypted so that none of the pics can be pulled.  I didn't design the site myself, I hired a webmaster who has many years of experience and he manages it for me.  But I am the one who controls who becomes a member.  I've never had a problem.

MP67 11 Reviews 197 reads
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45 / 53

I can pick you out of a crowd in McCarran airport in a heartbeat just by the pix you posted.

BTW, your long legs and gorgeous ass are just.....mmmmmmmm!!!!

MP67 11 Reviews 175 reads
posted
46 / 53

Shit, when you get told it enough you have to believe it. ;)

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 203 reads
posted
47 / 53

Your hair is absolutely beautiful, but definitely distinctive.  Between your hair and half of your face, and am 100% certain that all of your family and friends would recognize you if they saw those pics.

inicky46 61 Reviews 170 reads
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48 / 53
kewl2000 24 Reviews 165 reads
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49 / 53

no you don't as user can pay with a prepaid card using a fake name....

1192967 45 Reviews 200 reads
posted
50 / 53

I have recognized some ladies from blurred, face covered with hair, even head cropped off pictures. I was able to do it because I had known them for a long time before they went into the business. Their hair, their body, even the way they stand let me know who they were. ( It wasn't an issue. I kept what I knew to myself. They were ok with me knowing.) I believe this supports the contention that those that really know you will "know" you from photos whatever you do to them. With that said I don't believe there is anything wrong with doing all you deem necessary to protect your identity. We all say there is some risk no matter what you do and it's up to you what acceptable risk is.

blondeandbusty83 See my TER Reviews 160 reads
posted
52 / 53

I do offer to email a face pic to the gentleman once I have verified him. In addition to many ladies needing privacy due to regular jobs and children, another important thing to consider is booking hotels. You never know who is viewing your ads, and it's much harder to prove a lady is escorting if she doesn't show her face in her ad. I travel and stay in hotels a lot and don't want to get kicked out of a hotel or get LE called on me because they know what I'm doing there. :)

Ashley2010 See my TER Reviews 243 reads
posted
53 / 53

I have the same need for privacy. I have the same type of photo gallery you do, BUT I do not charge for it. After someone is screened they get in. I agree with some of the guys about not wanting to join a trial membership. Really, how does the $3.99 protect you?

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