I've always wondered where providers verify potential clients' info. Do they check if they're LE or someone with a criminal record or is under-aged or type of occupation? What agency do they use?

At what can be found on the web using just Google. A provider surprised me one night by saying something to me that I never thought would be on the web, but she was pretty thorough. Some providers use paid services to check backgrounds rather than "an agency". A careful provider will check criminal records, employment, and other things.

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There are millions of ways to  screen a client and you don't screen him with just the intention of finding out if he's LE, you screen him to make sure he's not violent and to make sure he says who he says he is. You always want to make sure he's no rapist or has crimes that involve domestic violence or any kind of violence. As far as where we verify them there are many websites out there exclusively for providers to verify potential clients. These websites tell us how many times other providers have screen this particular person, if they are sex offenders, if they are NCNS, what name their cell number is under and even where they live.

How can we as hobbyists be sure that the information out there is proper and correct? I know of RS2K and P411 but not any others. Just saying, sometimes a scorned or angry provider can hurt a regular guy, perhaps.

Most providers will ask you for 2-3 references that is the most common form of verifying so if you have that you have nothing to worry about. Even if a scorn provider (which remember the golden rule if you didn't do anything wrong you shouldn't fear anything)  writes something negative about you I'm going to take majority over the minority meaning that if your first 2 providers are saying you are good to go I will undermine what the other one said. As far as you finding out what other providers write about you I have no idea how you can find out. I'm pretty sure the provider that you are trying to see would tell you that the provider will tell you what she found on her search in regards to you and then you could take it from there.

Google and Bing yourself. There isn't a whole lot that can be done to hurt you other than a provider entering phony info on a national Black List, but many providers can see thru the BS. Don't burn bridges (if possible), get Whitelisted, and be a good client. Other than that, stay active on the board.

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Almost exclusively all high end girls. Are those girls not being "careful"?

Many providers won't tell you if you're blacklisted. You'll know because you start being declined for dates. Most providers don't want to deal with the begging and excuses that guys make when they are told so they don't tell them. Some won't reply to you at all. You can't find out unless you have a provider friend who is a member of most of the main BL sites out there and they are willing to tell you. Chances are-they won't.

How do you know they didn't?

What makes you think that many of these prostitutes would spend any money on that?

When I want to see a prostitute they get nothing from me that is traceable.

In case any guys still believe that some prostitutes are not dangerous

Do you think they give up there favorite color to the hookers for screening too? LOL

I can see why over a hundred high-end providers would see a client with a fake name. Let me guess the free site you find them  ... DUH

What is your definition of "high end"
More than $40 for 15 minutes?

with much regard as people. I might have missed a post or two where you do. It's not just the use of the word hooker, prostitute  
or Ho either. Great idea, in your case, to use an alias.  

But it is always a goal. LOL

I now book at least 90% of my session via P 411 and it's maybe one in a hundred women there that ask me for anything over and above what they can find out on P411. It doesn't bother me if the whole P4P world knows me by my real name, but it almost never comes up.

That depends Jack. The ones that you mentored don't. I don't want to say I doubt your claim, but I will say that it sounds like you're a board troll.

I also use my 411 membership and I've been asked for my ID a couple of times but it's not a big deal. For Jack to say,he won't give any info and see high-end girls is laughable.

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Then I reply Pussy lip pink and milk chocolate brown nipples.  
But I will eat other candy and colors

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Are the others in this thread that disagree with you trolls too?

First, let me assume you are seeing high end girls, If only a couple have asked for ID, that means the rest of these "high end" girls saw you without anything more than your P411 info. All someone like Jack would need to do is the same as us, but when asked for his ID, simply pass on that girl and see all the rest. Problem solved.

Your posts are outlandish most of the time.  Aside from being chronically incorrect with information, they are designed to curry favor with the prostitutes.

and I've never had an issue being screened.

Honestly it depends on the financial situation of the provider. I know girls who get really desperate, and when their clients refuse to give them information, will still risk seeing them.  
Me? I would rather be late on rent than risk running into LE or a bad client. When someone refuses to give me a reference or any information, that is a red flag that they are just trouble.

Thanks for sharing your misinformation.

Which is the most reliable options, and easily filters out LE. Now if the lady wants to screen you based on your behavior during appts. references are generally used for that.

Maybe you can give an example rather than some racist antidote that you thought you could work into a reply and make it ok yeah we get it ... Your friend said it. You didn't. That still doesn't make it appropriate. Now what was your point again.

Can you do the same with your TER cyber one?

I remember a provider dissing a Wal Mart employee, no wait that was a Home Depot employee. Apparently they aren't good enough for her.

I either wrote it wrong or you misread it because that's NOT what I was trying to say. I can't see where you confused Jack's refusal to give any info with me as if I also refused, which does not make sense. I've gone back and made some edits to make it clearer

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"the prostitutes"

Your safety is important, that's a given, but if I had a high profile career that could be ruined by you, or if I were cheating on my wife, I would NEVER give some hooker the power to ruin my life if she took a mind to.

There is less chance of her going BSC on you.

Then we can actually have a convo! LOL

My very good friend James was about 6 years older than me when we met in college. Great friend who physically survived Vietnam ... they were his words, and if you must know, I did paraphrase them a bit ... He said "cut your throat" not "we're going down".  

Jack doesn't refuse to give up "any" info, he refuses to give up PERSONAL info that could come back to haunt him.

But in all my years of P4P never once have I been asked for ID. Am I at risk?

How will I ever create my TER avatar if I do that?

Almost everything has a price. And perhaps the anonymity that Jack requires is one of them, and I respect the fact that is the way he prefers to do business, it is right.

And kick me a buck out of each 5 as a finders fee!

According to them, not only will you never get laid again, but if you ever do, you will be robbed, arrested or killed, or maybe all three.

If I can hear it pronounced "Hoo-er".

mistook no reviews for no yellow envelope. I know better.  
So, do I have the "no review"  part correct?

Please don't make me take people off of ignore to figure this one out.... I e been saying provider, Jack Off has been sayin hooker, so that leaves?

If you answer my question about why you won't see truck drivers, I promise to never mention your little fake photo scandal on the ad board ever again. I promise.

context is everything, but context is also is a concept that's a little above the grade level of most ter readers, unfortunately.

you crack me up

I base this solely on the description of hobbyists given by female personas on this board, compared to the truck drivers I see on the road

I was going to set the lines on the upcoming Fancy vs BBFS cage match, but the team I sent out to round up BBFS has been having difficulties locating him. Go figure. Maybe he is smarter than he looks? but AAR it looks like that fight is on hold.

now how am I gonna pay jack kick-backs....er...his finders fee, for the plan to self-fund my VIP?

Between all my posting here and seeing hookers, just when would I ever find the time to log any hours behind the wheel?

Right now the odds are slightly in Jacks favor, I set the early line at Asshole Jack -140 with a comeback on DumbDrew at +120,  

Ill kick in $10 to get you started.  

I'm hearing "fuck head" because spellcheck auto filled a word. That's appropriate. Especially in a message about how to talk to people. You got upset because I told you that using racial slurs are unacceptable regardless of whatever point you were trying to make. It was wrong for you to do that, but you want to shoot the messenger. You could have made your point  about how to speak to people in a thousand ways without using offensive terms. However, you obviously resent being told that.  

Lady, or agency that I've tried booking with won't accept the screening service alone. I've asked if joining one would help with the screening process. They say it doesn't hurt, but it won't help either.

I'm a lover not a fighter.  

but so far most of the action has been coming in on the asshole, I may have to reset the line soon.

I wonder if Jack understands semantics see Jack. See Jill. See Jack and Jill go up the hill. See Jill run back down because Jack wouldn't give his real name ... And he was being a douche bag b

unless he's not married and is self-employed.  Even so, I'll never ask for it because I can verify other ways. That said, everyone does what makes them comfortable and it's fine with this Ho.
Personally, I like to get a hobbyist's account info from P411, D-C or RS2K.  I also want references, preferably girls who are on TER.  And if he's a board member or reviewer here or on another reputable site I want that too.  I'll read his reviews, contact a few of his refs and if all that checks out we'll rock out with his cock out.

and while I don't divulge into what they are for me, I will say, I am no longer part of the P411 community for reasons I didn't find useful in this regard, actually quite the opposite. I also found that the pond was just far too small there and really was minor compared to the many other gentlemen who choose to frequent this playland. There are quite a few that are under the radar for pretty valid reasons and should be respected as such.  

nor am I here to have a stranger challenge my authenticity as a human. Apology accepted.  

The RS2K information is your real name and the city you live in. Now maybe a Bob Smith who lives in Chicago she couldn't find out more but for most other names it wouldn't be too hard to do a google search.

clients are sane?  

They all ask for personal info, and when I don't give it to them - silence!

Yeah right. You should see how I talk to my friends, I do a lot worse than dropping an "n" every once in a while  

but threw it in because it's big in the midwest.  I'm not from there.  I am familiar with the other two service and no real names are used.

Along with othe tools but that's a secret among us hookers!!!

First of all, I sure as shit don't think you're sane.
Also, P411 is definitely on the up and up.  They do require some personal info but they destroy if once they give you a membership.  If you don't believe that, fine.  But I have not heard of a SINGLE instance of a hobbyist's personal info being leaked from P411.
Based on your posts on this thread I wonder if you ever actually get laid.

I am far from PC, and am not calling out PC stuff. Just calling out the irony.

Call me a skeptic, I just don't believe it.

God you're still capable of amazing us with your uh moronic tendencies.

I'm speaking from personal experience, I've tried to book at least three ladies with out providing personal information.

they make great money and the ones I've seen have been sexy.

Smart providers screen clients. I would hope we agree that's for everyones’ benefit.  

First, MOST gals who demand it on their website when approached via p411 just go straight to setting up an appt. SOME but certainly not the majority stick to their guns and I move on. Maybe 2-3 in years of doing this. Simple. Can I be of more help?

Instead of just posting a new and looking foolish? Just wondering.

That's a problematic claim unless your name really is bbfs4ever (which is not a very advisable handle, i.e., alias)

Mostly because the ladies still request some kind of provider reference, in addition to the screening service.

since it seems to work great for me and not for you, I guess we both know then where the issue is. I NEVER get new gals ask for references. They can cherry pick them off my P411 and check in with them if they like. Or not. I tend to believe the latter happens more often but the former does on occasion. Right now, I'm setting up an extended date with a gal this summer and she has all my P411 issue but she's gonna check in with a mutual provider pal and gave me a heads up on that. Not typical but appreciated. She's one of the top gals in her country and she's not yet asked me my name, address, etc. Its not WHAT you know, its WHO you know.

We have a BINGO!
Not everyone here is married, I've done it twice and that was enough.  
I retired early and have no plans on ever working again so I don't care
I have 411 and DateCheck to make things easier for providers and increase my odds of getting an appointment, not so I can hide.  
"rock out with his cock out" haven't heard that in awhile ... Love it! 😎

but I'm not mad.

I'd expect little else of you other than total lack of comprehension. Carry on sir.

to do with the conversation.

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We have a simply response for guys that give us fake info..we lump them in the same category as cops or scammers..and they are never allowed to use our agency...we don't need or want their business..ever...

Do providers store all of this information that at some point could fall into a blackmailer's hands or do you destroy it?

I've always wondered what escorts talk about when they check a client's references?

What do escorts talk about when they check references to screen?