Congrats...you're a real man! Sex is NOT the ONLY thing in life,

but don't say that shit too loud around here. Us girls will be losing money, and the men will go nuts if you say it's a need and not a want. Don't go messing up our fantasy world ha ha. Seriously though, I am happy for you.

can we pay you a visit and get your blessings? Thanks for letting us in on your spiritual development...

Now back to Steelars vs Broncos game...


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you probably aren't doing it right

next installment of this soap opera tomorrow at 11..make sure and tune in..it is called 'AS THE CROCK TURNS'

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Goal of life? Eh, not really.

Sex is a ton of fun and a physical need. However, it really isn't the goal in life, so I agree with you there. I remember when I first had sex, I was thinking something like "this is so hot and feels so great!" and, somehow at the same time "This isn't quite what I'd built it up to be."

Also, you have to remember that with an escort, as much as they might actually cherish your friendship, the intimacy isn't there. I tend to see escorts for things I can't normally get in the bedroom, but for regular sex I find that women who aren't getting a donation from me tend to give me a better time. One of the biggest reasons, for me personally, is kissing. I love kissing. I can go from zero to trying to think of baseball with a great, intimate kiss. Can't really get that without being with someone who really, honestly wants to be with you.

Now obviously I'm not bashing the escort business as I really do enjoy being able to go see one when I have a personal craving for something or am in a bit of a dry spell. The other thing is that I hear if you go to a good escort long enough you can develop a very strong intimacy (while still being professional). I personally am still semi-new and am still learning which escorts are great and which ones aren't, much less finding one to keep seeing.

Anyway, sex is great, and can be amazing with the right person/s, but I agree that it really isn't something that should be the goal of life, lol.

that you were a virgin several weeks ago and now have four reviews on this site. I did not believe you at first but I did check on your four reviews and they were accepted by TER so I assume they are valid.
So, what are you looking for? I see that you are on Date Check and P411 so you have obviously been doing research. You may want to search for a more gentle site to find a life mate. I could be wrong but I don't think this is the place. gf60

I was a virgin (not by choice) until my mid 20s and when I finally did have sex it was, of course, a huge disappointment. After spending that long building it up in my mind, there's probably no experience I could have had and not been disappointed. My expectations were way too high after all of those years of fantasy. It's a continuing problem to this day, but I'm hopeful that if I ever experience falling in love, maybe then it will live up to the expectations from my younger years. In the meantime, while it's no meaning of life, it does at least take away the very negative feelings that surface when I go too long without affection and sexual contact.