anyone ever have a ltr and start to have feelings for provider? I'm thinking she feels same way but don't whether to bring up subject. lots of signs from her but not sure how to approach this situation.

This has been happening forever and has been debated here endlessly.  Try using the search function, because aside from flames I'm not sure how much you'll get on this subject here at this point.
Perhaps someone will prove me wrong.  But I don't have the energy to write on this subject again.

"Love rarely unfolds like a blossoming flower; if the gal of your dreams is paid by the hour."

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I must quote the illustrious Ice Cube..

Every guy has a narcissistic tendency here...some won't admit it...but they do.

It just screws everything up....it works both ways!  You can't buy love, but it sure is a hell of a lot of fun to rent it!

I am 100% certain their Grammy Award worthy hollywood acting are all real.  When they tell me they are low volume, I haven't heard that before from any other girl.  I swear I haven't heard it before.  When they tell me that my dick is very big,  I believe them.  When they tell me that I am the best fuck they've ever had in a year,  they are telling the truth. When they offer me bbfs in the heat of the moment and claim they're clean and that I'm the only guy she's offering it to,  I believe them simply cuz they said so. Who needs regular testing when we know these girls never lie about their cleanliness? Some girls even have the word "truth"  tattooed on them cuz they need to emphasize that they tell the truth. Several providers told me they really like seeing me. I'm pretty damn sure they like seeing ME and not my wallet, even when they're not giving me OTC time.  

If she does not want the envelop, she really, really likes you. Otherwise she is a fucking good actress and/or very very good at her JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

or the red pill?  

Schedule an appointment with her, show up or she shows up, drop the envelope, have fun (it's cool you get along great together emotionally), politely say goodbye, she leaves or you leave, and everyone is happy.

I think I'm catching on. I see now, said the blind man, as he picked up his hammer, and saw! get it? get it? Doh!

It's awesome when you can hang out together and genuinely enjoy each other's company. That's certainly better than the alternative. But when it's over, it's over(.) Until next time, hopefully.

Not rocket science. When you have to pay anyone to be with you it is a service and not remotely like real life where people WANT to be with whomever.

indicator the provider is doing her job well. Part of the encounter is to make it a true fantasy.

that have you thinking she has feelings for you?  

Except for that one person I fuck for free. He's exceptionally good in bed. Not trying to marry him, though.

signs of her potentially having feelings are visits where there is no charge. she tells me about failed non pro relationships, like I care, and sharing other personal aspects of her life. I think she is tired of business. this has been going on for 7-8 months. everyone is right either keep things the way they are or get away. I do have a wife, family and a successful business and a lot to lose. fuck it im not going to be a knight in shining armor

Preferred provider relationship. When she stops charging altogether and you start dating normally is when it's a ltr.  

Doesnt hurt to try, I definetly am close to many clients and there is one i joke i am gonna move in and paint his house magenta while he is at work..... I dont think love only happens in marriage or conformist arrangements . What society views as dysfunction may to you be functional. If your in love , who cares just enjoy her and have fun. If you wanna say it to her then do it. If she thinks your a psycho then she will just say shut the hell up whatever your nuts. I dont have a filter so you may not wanna take my advice.  
    i have one ltr, whom i say i love you too. i known him seven years now. It is just like your situation confusing, We met by him getting an appt, This was when I was 26, then . We fell for each other, Then both him and i were getting teary eyed over me doing appts, He drew up a budget and realized he could cover all my expenses til i get a different job. I stopped escorting and just hung out with him. Now we still see each other once in a great while but its now 7 years later this was long ago. Sure see where it goes and enjoy yourself, There s no rule book on how to love or how it should be set up. Its as indivual as each person is. Your situation may be different than every ones so your gonna have to just see how it goes. .....

hey donjohn anyone ever tell you you're a d-bag!!!

And if he's a convicted felon you want his contact info?