I am finding it hard to get bookings because I work overseas and only spend about two weeks at a time in the US. All of my sporting is done over there and these ladies don't give out referrals and such. My problem is that I don't want to take a lot of time in the US to get local referrals.

want to invest much time, just keep contacting providers. Sooner or later (might be much later) you will find one who doesn't screen, or who is newbie friendly and believes your story. If she is then willing to give you a reference, you have a start.

Then find a provider listed there who requires no OKs.  There are plenty of them.

First provider I saw only screened me by having m text my business card to her.

situation to P4P there. (A) legal, (B) more cost-efficient, (C) less hassle (D) all of the above

If you email a Lady you are interested in seeing and explain your position, you will eventually get a response back that will work with you as she still maintains her security.  But, no, don't send me mail asking for specific ladies, as I won't compromise the trust any lady has put in me for someone I do not know.

thanks I just approved by a well know provider which should help