That's ok...I spit spunk on your carpet bwahahhahaa. You just thought I swallowed it!
After a gentleman borrowed my toothbrush without asking it made me think... do y'all have certain things that are sacred that you just don't share?? Us gals share a lot of things with our gentlemen, but what is taboo?
I have to admit that the toothbrush thing freaked me out for a minute. LOL. Went out and bought a new one ASAP. And I hate to share my towel. It's mine doggone it. Use your own
And what's the strangest thing that you've shared or given away in the business? I know I've given crossdressers my underwear cuz they liked em so much. And who am I to stand in the way of true love in the form of pink lacy panties??
As far as a meeting, if you cum in my hair you are dead. lol.
I have an asshat brother who likes to use my shit, so I am use to throwing things away after him. He is evil and loves to do this to me damn fucker. lol. Drinks and toothbrushes I will not use. Basically anything that has saliva on it.
My thing is I do not like using anyone else's pillow. I like a fresh one to drool on haha.
A provider once grabbed an earbud out of my ear and crammed it into her skank ass ear hole to listen to my music.
I would have thrown them out but they cost too much.
I did disinfect them but still get a bit skeeved out when using the right one.
Weird, if she had shoved it up her cooch, I probable would have licked them clean and not cared at all.
Let me just mention-hobbyists touching their ears or_God help me_picking them during an appointment-makes me violent and repulsed!
Toothbrush sharing is physically gross
Towel sharing is mentally gross
And no one in or listening to me in the bathroom
why, do you sing?
Hell yeah! I wish all my clients shared your mindset 
if the girl used my towel or brush, but never would even want to use someone else'. To me that is invading someone's privacy, which I don't want to do. Sometimes you don't mind your privacy being invaded a little bit, but you don't want to invade someone else
If I'm into you... I love it all.
If I'm not into you... everything seems gross.
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When I take a woman to a restaurant, & it doesn't matter if she's my SO/ATF/SB, she'll often eat off my plate or drink from my glass/bottle. That's not gross like the toothbrush thing, but a man will rarely eat off a woman's plate or drink from her glass. A woman really has to coax me into doing that. It's just a curious thing. --z
If I offer a bite of ice cream to a woman, she MUST clean the spoon. No leftovers. That's really the only thing I find offensive regarding sharing.
I think it's flattering when a woman does that. I remember a date back In college--I took a girl out & the first date we were both quite nervous & formal. On date #2, she starts drinking from my glass. It was a minor thing, yet it was also a powerful sign of intimacy. I somehow knew that we were going to have sex that night, and we did. --z
yet, here we are getting all googly over toothbrushes and such.
I love the idea of sharing such personal items. It makes me feel closer to my partner.
Where I draw the line however is with my "stuff"; specifically my desk area and other personal papers. I have them just a certain way and woe be to you if I come home and find them rearranged.
Similarly, is my kitchen; I just hate the thought of others messing with my pots and pans. What if they put them back in the wrong place? I'd likely curl up in a fetal position and die.
I even get bent out of shape when my car comes back from the garage and the mirrors are readjusted. I guess we are all crazy in our own ways.
OK, so tell us...When was the last time a provider rearranged your pots and pans, or changed the mirror settings on your car?
She stayed with me for about two weeks, and since she did at least half the cooking, yes she rearranged all of my pots and pans, but she didn't change any the settings on my mirror. She did take over my bathroom though.
and I know this won't surprise you, but I didn't complain a bit. lol
and cooking for them.
Sometimes, they feel compelled to come into the kitchen and "help out", while I gnash my teeth.
I swear, I must have picked up something from Aint Bee while watching The Andy Griffith Show years ago.
I have things set aside for men to use, and that is just common sense. How many guys wipe their c*ck with a fkin hand towel and put the thing right back on the bar? Stupid!
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I usually use the drapes myself. lol
That's ok...I spit spunk on your carpet bwahahhahaa. You just thought I swallowed it!
If you had a "carpet" that is, I think your reviews all say that you have hardwood floors, so drapes it is. rofl
but I wanted a shower with a Fav gal. Hotel towels are too damn small (& often too few) so I brought a new one from the discount store. Actually I had one for her too but she declined. Anyrate, we had plenty to get dry before we moved to the bed to finish what we'd started.
I pretty often bring soft soap dispenser because I like clean hands. (You're going to put that where?") I have brought & left hand towels (discount store) to a lady who ddn't have them out.
I don't care how much spit swapping we do... I want my own tooth brush! I don't think a client should have access to your personal items... Having these things available for guests... in sealed packages... is a nice touch.
Just a thought... I hope none of our fine TER ladies leaves prescription bottles in a bathroom where a gent will have access.
Hobbyists are gross and clueless, just let him keep the damn thing!
The first thing I was told by the counselor after I got my first STD screening test was to avoid brushing, flossing or mouthwash (which I do not get) for 2 hours before or after having oral sex. The logic, as I understand it, is that brushing and flossing often create small cuts and bleeding in the mouth which now takes a generally pretty safe activity, such as DATY, and creates a real chance that those fluids will come into contact with your blood.
So despite it seeming superficially like sharing a toothbrush is no big deal given all the DFK, DATY and BBBJ that may have passed before, it really is not such a great idea.
Your phobia has some basis in staying safe, though I suspect the main risk is to the guy using it since he is the idiot.
zig
but what was his rationale about mouthwash?
Many providers offer mouthwash right before a session, and truth be told the last thing I do when getting out of my car on my way to a session is give my mouth a good shot of mouthwash, nothing kills a DFK than funk mouth.
If there is a good medical reason not to gargle I'l like to know it.
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