my guess is you are Bi
you can feel free to pretend you are straight if it makes you feel better but you are Bi.

I have also been to some zany parties, where I lost track of what-went-where.

I think it comes down to your interpretation of what "bi" is.

To me, "bi" indicates a sexual attraction, to the same, as well as the opposite sex. In THAT connotation, I have to disagree with your statement.

I believe it is entirely possible for two heterosexual males to be in a sexual situation with a solitary female. No judgements here and I speak entirely for myself only, but if a man is secure in and about his own sexuality, then it ceases to be an issue entirely, and the focus can be on the intention, which is pleasure at its most primal and carnal levels.

Homophobia is a puzzling mindset to me... I compare it to when kids worried about "cooties".

It's a shame really... so many people deny themselves the full measure of the pleasures available to us on this planet simply because they are afraid to embrace the totality of who they are. And typically, its all in their mind.

Some years ago, I was visiting with friends and the subject of fantasy lovers came up. One of the women mentioned Sean Connery, and of course the ladies all cooed and gushed while the husband rolled his eyes... and my comment:
"Yeah, I know what you mean... I'm straight, and even *I* wanna sleep with him!"

The party got into full "swing" after we all stopped laughing.

Rock On!

Why in hell would a straight male try a MMF scenario. Aren't you missed somewhere else? Mods sleeping at the switch again i'm guessing.

....for your ultimate MFM....don't forget to bring the F though!

Sometimes when one of the guys is doing her Greek and the other guy is getting a BJ she will DT much better than normal.
Sometimes she  bites, if she's too tight.

if there was enough interest. But I'm down here in the deep south with all of it's jaded points of view and misconceptions...

Stephanie in Atlanta

When using those acronyms to describe a sexual act in which more than two people engage in hetero sex you should know that when you place multiple M's or F's beside each other, a bisexual encounter is implied.

MMF, as you put, implies male on male contact in a threesome with a female, where MFM imples two males and one female but no male to male contact.

So as your question is written, that person would not be straight as he is engaging in male on male sexual contact during the threesome.

MFM, on the other hand, or any combination of M's and F's where there is no male on male sex is obviously not a bi or homo act.

As a swinger, I can assure that it happens often and nobody leaves the room gay or bi who didn;t start out that way.

Fucking with another man in the room does not make you gay.

Loving men, makes you gay.

The distinction is pretty clear.

Plenty of men have done MFM and been completely straight... these type of scenarios are usually nothing like what you'd expect in a FMF situation. There is NO contact between the 2 men.. at all. Usually while 1 is having sex with the girl, the other guy has something in the girl's mouth, etc.  Never experienced this in P4P, but did some experimenting as a teenager

In general, I think MFM tends to (this is not an absolute definition, but how I see it being used) connote a non-bi-sexual interaction between two men and a woman. Meaning, she is either being DPed (I think that would be too much for me to go there), tag-teamed or getting it from both ends, so to speak). In these cases there is no sexual contact between the men (unless you count high fives).

In my experience, when there is intended to be bi-sexual interaction between the men it is usually stated explicitly. However, that is a logistics issue and doesn't impact the inaccuracy of the statement that MFM would denote bi-sexual.

I agree with the general consensus here, MFM (or any abbreviation with 2 or more "M's") doesn't imply bisexuality.  I've spent tons of time in locker rooms and a MFM encounter is no different.  I do not intend to engage in any activity with the other male so to me its just two guys naked in a room with a woman.  For that matter, it is inevitable that "swords cross" in some situations, I suggest if that happens and a guy freaks he may have some latent homo-sexual feelings he hasn't dealt with yet.

I know a fave of mine has done MFM and MFMFM in the past, I recently wanted to see her and gave her the choice of me alone or a MFM...she opted for me alone.  I've asked some other providers and civvie females as well and every one of them said they prefer one on one...I honestly expected it to be more of a female fantasy than it seems to be.

I have done mmf and am straight. I have not setup this kind of meeting with a provider though, that would be gay.

and how have you "dealt" with your homosexual feelings.  Inquiring minds want to know.

I did it once because my partner (F) suggested that it was a big turn on for her.  But from speaking with other F's (provider and civvie) it isn't that big of a deal to woman in general, in fact most prefer one guy at a time.  There are many variables...FMF, same room swap, swinging, etc...that would entail a straight male being in a room with another straight male and having sex, be it with the same woman or a different woman.

It may not be your thing; you may be homophobic (see your alias), you may be embarrassed by comparison (size or performance), or it just isn't something you're into...whatever the reason there are plenty of guys that have done it...and more that would if given the right opportunity.

been there, done that and it is a fantastic experience to be part of something that is bringing fantastic pleasure to a lady (brought me a lot of pleasure too).
I guess I am not surprised at some of the insecure guys who cannot deal with the presence of another man. Their problem and are missing out on an experience that is unbelievably fun.

the OP said nothing about two men having sex, it asked about a sexual encounter between two men and one woman. i have participated in many MMF 3somes (and moresomes!) and everyone has always been 100% heterosexual. it's a very intense experience that many men enjoy. personally, i feed off the challenge of it...having to please two men simultaneously, make sure that neither is being neglected at ANY time, and pushing my body to its limits. also i've observed that when men are in groups, even a small group of just 2, they tend to be much more aggressive than normal. they are feeding off each others masculine primal energy, and what do they release all that tense, aggressive energy on?? my poor pussy, mouth, throat, etc...it's a beautiful thing. it's a lot of work and a heck of a lot of fun!

I'd agree with the Good Doctor.  

I have been in a few MFM situations in the past.  I consider myself pretty open-minded, but I gotta draw the line when it comes to messin' with another man's parts.   For me, I had a friend with benefits that was interested in being with two guys at once.  I found a male friend who was interested, and obliged her.  It was a blast (I highly recommend it should the right circumstance arise) but I don't think it made me bi.  I didn't touch him, nor he me, and think that's the line between straight but adventurous, and bi-sexual.

Yep..well said! As I have always said...me hanging around completely heterosexual people will do nothing to curb my insatiable desire for women...hetero, bi or homosexuality is not catching.

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