I thought that the different screening services were supposed to make this an easier way to screen.  But some are stating that unless they give up all kinds of personal info they consider these screening services worthless.

Why would you post this after the nauseatingly long thread on this same subject earlier today? Did you even bother to read it?

These are things I personally have known in my heart, but couldn't put my finger on the "why's" of my screening method beyond reasons of danger. Thumbing through past discussions, these things seem to be coming up all over the regional boards over time, and I think people aren't getting the main point of screening. Everyone wants different things.

Well said by you.

To say that a lady lowers her screening only because she's looking at money is just wrong.

The whole point is that I just don't want to compare myself to others - not to put anyone down, especially the ladies. It is very easy to get frustrated, because it's not only the ladies who are throwing comments around like "it should be done this way or that way" or "I don't like how you think or screen people before they put their dick into your vagina and ride you naked for an hour or more alone in a room where nobody knows what you're doing".

I just looked at your site and was blown away.

A lot of ladies can tell by the first or second email if they're going to like someone or not - that doesn't mean they're lowering their screening just for money. In my case, it would be. And the pressures to do so are very very high. You wouldn't believe the conversations I've had where I've been encouraged to lower rates to get more money, and to lower my screening. I've tried it, and I hated it. But that's because I am me. Everyone likes different things, and everyone can handle different things. I have to be very careful. Not because of what I have to lose in the physical, but because I am a very impressionable person, and I feel very strongly/pick up signals that I can get hurt or influenced by.

Yep - I made you horny.

The part about calling him a suck up that is. I am pretty damn sure I don't make him horny, but I wonder if Alex does?

Oh. It's all good!

Even if you totally disagreed with everything I have ever said, it's all good. That's your choice.

got the hots for Alex. Can he be screened though?

WORD! I won't even dignify him with my superior response ; )

how is Gizzy???

My sentiments exactly ; ) Mwah!

He can't : ( I don't just see anybody, you know that ; )

Re: Oh. It's all good!

I'll never say my way is the right way. But very confident in the fact that checking names will cut down on my chances of being stuffed in a suitcase...at least my family will know who did it...
 

Posted By: Alyssa Marie

Even if you totally disagreed with everything I have ever said, it's all good. That's your choice.  
   
 I'm just stuck at this my way is the right way.  
   
 I have had guys turn me down because I won't send a face photo.  
 I have had guys search elsewhere because I don't offer Greek.  
 I was told by some men in Dallas that I would have to offer quickies to make it.  
   
 I don't do any of the above because they aren't in my comfort zone or I just have no desire. One day that may change, but it will be by my own choice.  
   
 Off to Macy's .. Extra 20% off all sale!  
 xo

Awww - so does that mean you won't see me?! Whaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Well of course I do or he wouldn't so desperately attempt to involve me in the conversation...must make him piss in his pants I've been doing this for almost 2 years, pretty face out and all ; )
 

New here? LOL!

This is a different tune then how this originally started.

Wait, I thought you were at Macy's?!

But Raggy has a problem with the fact that you LIE and say you're name is Courtney Ova ; )
 

Posted By: Courtney.Ova

A lot of ladies can tell by the first or second email if they're going to like someone or not - that doesn't mean they're lowering their screening just for money. In my case, it would be. And the pressures to do so are very very high. You wouldn't believe the conversations I've had where I've been encouraged to lower rates to get more money, and to lower my screening. I've tried it, and I hated it. But that's because I am me. Everyone likes different things, and everyone can handle different things. I have to be very careful. Not because of what I have to lose in the physical, but because I am a very impressionable person, and I feel very strongly/pick up signals that I can get hurt or influenced by.  
   
 I know myself way better than I know anyone else, and that's who I personally have to look out for. I also don't trust other women with my complete safety and finances, so the referral system to me is only confirmation of what I've already picked up from the guy after gut instinct and my screening process. Nothing more, nothing less. It's just how I work.  
   
 Some ladies don't get as easily affected by guys and how they feel/think. They also have different goals. I'm hoping to find a handful of guys who I can count on, and also have serious passionate time with them. This is the only place I'm doing the deed, so yeah I have to have that haha.  
   
 But I'm not going to judge someone else because they don't need a guy's full real name. If that's what they're comfortable with, go for it. If a girl needs the white envelope, awesome. It's all legalism to me to streamline something in to "one certain way" randomly, then judge others' personal standards based on what I decided was best to do. If I wanted to do that, I'd go start a religious movement called "Courtneyanity". LOL LOL  
   
 And - you and other ladies who have screened are still here and happy after how much time? Yeah, you're doing great if you're still in tact. Same with me . That's the goal.  
   
 Kisses  
   
   
   

Posted By: Alyssa Marie

To say that a lady lowers her screening only because she's looking at money is just wrong.  
     
  I'm not lowering my screening, I'm doing *my* screening.  
     
  xx

It would put you in a new tax bracket I would bet.  You do know what tax brackets are?

And your extremities found in various other places around town?
As for Blacklists, we already know what a joke they are.  That has been demonstrated in recent months.

being outed might cost the provider, She might lose custody of her child, At times when the morality squad or an ambitios police department turns up the heat.It is easy to see why a woman might be demanding.No client is forced to hire any provider.To complain about it is just stupid.
 I don't know anything about any providers who rely on blacklists.