Once upon a time in a galaxy far, far away, one night stands were not unusual.  I was living in a condo in NCAL that we called a "stew zoo" because there were "flight attendants" from all over the world.

I met an all lifetime Swede, we went to dinner at a very luxurious French restaurant.  Forty years later I still recall my entre' Duck with cherry sauce.  

After dinner we went to a jazz fernbar with live music.  We adjourned to her place, same as mine.

We went in. Began a session of foreplay on her couch.  Couldn't believe this was happening until I had her dress up, panties off, legs on the wall and floor and was deeply involed in breast play and Daty.  Silly me, I still was slow to realize what was up next.  

After DATY, she pulled me up to enter her.  After completion she invited me to her bedroom to spend the night, and awoke me in the morning to resume play.  Then she cooked breakfast.

Never was with her again, my stupidity.  So, the point of this post, for both guys and gals, have you too had "one night stands" that endure?

I have no idea what you mean by, "had 'one night stands' that endured?" Do you mean you had the intent of dating the person only once, but it developed into a long-term relationship? Do you mean  you had sex on your first date and it developed into a long-term relationship? Does it mean a one night stand that has endured in your memory. I suppose there may be other variations that I have not spend the time to think of. But, "one night stand" and "endured" usually are not found in the same sentence. Just really want to know what you are asking.

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Never had a one night stand. Not for lack of effort.

Wasn't a 'stud' prior!  Amazing what an envelope will do.

lol-  though 2/3 of my hobby experiences ended up being repeat visits- not 'one night stands'.

Guess I'm just not cut out to "use 'em and lose 'em"

Mine happened when i was living in united Arab emirates/Dubai, and had no friends. On a hot Friday morning I was so bored and went for a walk by the beach. It was there when I happened to meet this Hot Persian Guy from San Francisco who was there for vacation,... one thing led to another and he asked me if I want to have a dinner with him at "Burj-al-Arab" which is the only 7 star hotel in the world and is famous for being so pricy!!! of course I did not think twice and said yes. He took me to the mall straight from the beach and bought me a beautiful outfit to wear at the dinner! after the dinner, we did not even make it to his room, and ended up having an steamy sex at the beach under the moonlight for a couple of hours, ...... the next morning, I dropped him at the airport for his flight back to states,.... and that was the last time I saw him ....

one night fuck sounds kind of nasty.  On the other hand, it sounds kind of hot. Oh well.

BBxxx

That was what I thought he was trying to ask, but due to the sentence structure I found myself reading it several ways. Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it.

I suppose there will eventually be an 11 star hotel designed by Nigel Tufnel.

"A one-night stand is originally a single night theatre performance (usually a guest group on tour), and today more commonly also a single sexual encounter between individuals, where at least one of the parties has no immediate intention or expectation of establishing a longer-term sexual or romantic relationship".

This continues at:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-night_stand

then I bought a second, so now I have a matching set.

I must report:  my panties slide right to the floor when I read one of your clever posts.  As a result, I've stopped wearing drawers whenever I'm on TER.

A long time ago when I came back from a land far away (Vietnam) as a young lieutenant, I met a bautiful young women at a social hour at the Marine Corp Recuit Depot in San Diego. We really hit it off and ended up spending the night together. Unfortunately I was being shipped back to Nam the next morning so we pledged to stay in contact but time and distance took its toll. She eventually married as did I, but I will never forget her. One can only reflect upon what might have been. But as I think back, I can say that it was the visions of her that carried me through some tough times in that now forgotten war.

The actual evening was nothing special. It’s what came later.

I was still single. I got plowed at local watering hole. The bar tender ended up taking me home, to MY apartment, where we took advantage of each other all night long. Sober, the next morning we sort of slinked away from each other. I never saw her again, UNTIL. . .

Jump ahead 3 years. My wife to be, is planning our wedding. We are at the reception hall to make preparations. Guess who the manager is, whom I have to sit across from at her desk for what seemed like hours. She had a very dry sense of humor and took EVERY opportunity to try to shake me. She did end up putting on an excellent reception for us.

keeps coming back to me.

Started at an NYC watering hole with the my buddies.  In walks this gal who my freinds know.  I ask her about the diamond ring, and she tells me she's engaged, and her BF is out with his buds at a bachelor party for the night.  We end up at her (actually she says it was "their" place).  I leave about 5AM.  I wonder what ever became of her...

would you want a one night stand to endure?  Isn't the whole point that it is a one night stand?  What makes it so memorable is that you will for the rest of your life be able to recall that one night partner to be as magnificently perfect as he/she was on that one night.

Any extra "favors" from the manager either prior to, during, or after the reception?  Inquiring minds want to know.

Precisely!  It is the MEMORY that endures.  Sorry guys and gals, the original post did not make that clear. RA grasped it.

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No one night stands for me. Just too shy I guess, and  my tendency toward serial monogamy leave little opportunity to cruise the nightlife scene.

Once about 5 years ago, I was driving down PCH in Huntington Beach and these two guys in a truck pulled up beside me.  They were hooting and hollering at me to pull over.  I was horny, so I did.  We exchanged numbers and the next night I met them at their place in Newport where I tag teamed them..

Best sexual experience to date.

AllySin