When she came in the room she was sooo beautiful i just wanted to spend a lot of time getting to know her mind. She was well versed in Frost, Whitman, Shakespear etc. I was very turned on by her intellectual prowess that i was afraid if i had sex with her she would think i only liked her for her body! So we spent two hours just laughing, giggling and lightly tease-touching each other. I can't wait to see her again and again. I wonder if she'll let me see her nipples next time? hehehehe  I tipped her a C-note also.

I have a tantrika that often starts a session by reciting poetry from Japanese Zen poets.  It certainly creates a great mood.

Another gal I knew was from Scotland, but I never even knew it because she's been in the USA for so long that she had no accent.  Until, that is, she got a snootful of Irish whiskey in her one night (It was New Year Eve, in fact.), and she started reciting Robert Burns by heart in the thickest brogue you'd ever heard.

I was on top of her in an instant.

I have my limits, after all.

8o)

No shit ??????

we both get all excited erotically and i wind up getting lucky. sometimes she gets lucky too. you might try longer dinner dates so that can work out better for you. then there is time for many forms of fun on the intellectual, spiritual and physical planes.

but as long as your approach works for you, great! it wouldn't work for me though. it is TOO one sidedly intellectual-spiritual for me. just as the purely physical wouldn't work with a terrific body that had no one home in it.

see..... my mind and body are in this together. there is no chemistry and nothing is doing unless BOTH mind and body are appealing.

you with your intellectual approach and the guys with purely physical approach are fortunate to be so easily satisfied hobby wise. i'm not and as far as i'm concerned, i like it that way. complete packages, total women please.... (thank you very much to my faves).

I have to admit, a smart woman is a total prerequisite.

Have you ever read "I sing the body electric?" Or Shakespeare's sonnets?

Incredible stuff, and a woman familiar with that sort of stuff (though she doesn't have to be familiar with that specifically) is amazingly attractive.

SO attractive, in fact, that we might just have sex.

Rumi & Rabi and Rilke's "Book of Hours"

x

Are you fucking serious?!

I'll tell you what. NEXT time, you pay, I'll play. How's that?!

THEN, you two can talk about authors, poets, politics, the state of the economy, world hunger, and all the other plights that infest this God-forsaken mudball called Earth while I clean up and hit the road.

Shit! Talk while she and I are in mid-coitus for all I care!

I'll send you a 'Thank You' card! LOL!!!

I did everything you did twice a week for a year and then I married her.

YOU'RE a pussy!!!! LOL!!!!

"What can Brown do for you?"